Waching daily Oct 4 2017

hi this is the untwisted voice of charity and thanks for stopping by and

watching my video today's video is on divorce and what are the major causes of

the breakdown of the marriage what are the four major causes of marital

breakdown just to start off in Ontario here in Canada we have the second

highest rate of the voice I think it's around 30% of all marriages will end in

divorce but don't be discouraged because Quebec has the highest rate across the

country about 39% about 40% of all marriages in Quebec will end in divorce

the rates are skyrocketing across the country across the world least in the

free world estates England all over the place is skyrocketing one of the major

causes of divorce is communication communication breakdown the inability to

get one's needs met through communication is one of the major causes

of the marriage breakdown the marriage breakdown when you first meet your

partner the person you want to be with or spend the rest of time the rest of

your life with I would suggest you learn or you set time aside to communicate

honestly and openly with each other and the same you know what do you do that

create some time make some time to communicate and stay open when your

spouse or your partner is talking to you be open-minded and listen to what they

have to say and just practice communication try it on an easy level

something easy not a big deal so when something big happens it's a lot easier

to communicate with and if the communication is really that bad go to a

counselor go to a counselor and see if you can get your needs met their

communications big people it's big in a lot of areas in our lives

and when you're married to your spouse or the one you love you need to

with that person on an honest level and it's hard is difficult and it takes time

it takes practice and you know something else if you practice it you'll get there

and you'll be together for your whole life your really will number one is

communication number two you probably already know

this one maybe even feel it because I know I know it and that's financial

reasons one person is a big spender and the other person is a saver my marriage

personally broke down because of financial issues could not get the

budget under control it used to bring fear into me so one of

the main factors of my relationship my divorce was financial financial reasons

are huge they cause stress they cause grief sleepless nights in a marriage if

you have in financial difficulties take a look at your budget talk to your

spouse again communicate your fears what you need financially to function

properly and hopefully you come to a happy medium and everybody can be happy

and you can live happily ever after the third one the third major reason for

divorce is immaturity one of the people or both people in the marriage or

immature so they don't have that stay with it power they don't have the

ability to commit themselves through the good times in the bad times the valleys

in the mountains of life so they run they take cover they're in mature they

can't stay still they don't want to deal with the problems so immaturity is

number three of one of the major reasons people get divorced and immaturity can

only be helped by life experiences and by simply growing up and the fourth one

does that's number five the fourth one is addiction addiction issues it could

be gambling porn sexy dish addictions drug addiction alcohol addiction order

whatever it may mean all that since all sorts of addictions caused

major major problems in the family unit in the marriage unit they really do if

somebody has an addiction issue it'll put a huge stress on that marriage and

the other spouse will have to leave and more likely not by his or her choice

they will be forced to leave because of the addictive personality or the

addictive behavior from the other partner again that situation can be

helped through therapy we always hear about it on the radio

there's rehab there's all kinds of outreach programs that if you have an

addiction issue or you know somebody in your family that is addicted you can

point them in a direction for they can seek help so what is it number one

communication number one reason why the breakdown of marriage number two

financial reasons one person is a spender and the other one is a saver

number three in maturity in maturity doesn't understand commitment wants to

run when there's something going on that is not suitable for them number four

addiction all kinds of addictions caused stress on the family they caused stress

to the spouse and in all areas of the family all areas of that mirrors an

addictive personality will cause issue so there you have it perk people for

reasons for good reasons for divorce you may think but all those reasons can be

helped and your family and your marriage and you can live happily ever after take

a look at some counseling don't give up that easy talk to your spouse

talk to your partner tell them the way you feel if you're really interested in

saving that marriage go to counseling investigate some really great ways of

helping both you stay together because when you find that one you love and you

find that soulmate when you met them like wow I love

person I want to be with this person sometimes it does take work it really

does so remember I'm Terry G this is the untwisted voice and look out for

yourself because it shows have a great day

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