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Why Most People Don't Succeed l Powerful Motivational Video l 2017 - Duration: 16:38.
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my guest tonight has written three best-selling books and his TED talk on
inspiring leadership is one of the most watched of all time when he talks it is
impossible not to listen my name is simon Sinek and i have a clear vision of
what i want to build in this world i imagine a world in which the vast
majority of people wake up every single morning inspired to go to work feel safe
when they're there and return home today I promise you our guests will help you
acquire the behaviors and thought patterns you need to be successful in
anything that you're trying to accomplish
I have yet to give a speech or have a meeting where somebody doesn't ask me
the Millenial question what's the millennial question apparently
Millennials as a generation which is a group of people who were born
approximately 1984 and after are tough to manage and they're accused of being
entitled and narcissistic self-interested unfocused lazy but
entitled is the big one and and because they confound leadership so much what's
happening as leaders are asking the Millennials what do you want and
Millennials are saying we want to work in a place with purpose love that we
want to make an impact you know whatever that means we want free food and bean
bags and so somebody articulates some sort of purpose there's lots of free
food and there's bean bags and yet for some reason they are still not happy and
that's because you they're missing this there's a there's a missing piece what
I've learned is that there I can break it down into four pieces right there for
four things four characteristics one is parenting the other one is technology
third is impatience and the fourth is environment the generation that we call
the Millennials too many of them grew up subject to not my words failed parenting
strategies where for example they were told that
they were special all the time they were told that they have anything they want
in life just because they want it they were told some of them got into honors
classes not because they deserved it but because their parents complained and
some of them got a is not because they earned them but because the teachers
didn't want to deal with the parents some kids got participation medals
you've got a medal for coming in last right which the science we know is
pretty clear which is it devalues the medal and the reward for those who
actually work hard and it actually makes the person who comes in last to feel
embarrassed because they know they didn't deserve it so actual makes me
feel worse right so you take this group of people and they graduate school and
they get a job and the thrust and turn it into the real world and in an instant
they find out they're not special their moms can't get them a promotion that you
get nothing for coming in last and by the way you can't just have it because
you want it right and in an instant their entire self-image is shattered and
so you have an entire generation that's growing up with lower self esteem than
previous generations the other problem to compound it is we're growing up in a
facebook Instagram world in other words we're good at putting filters on things
we're good at showing people that life is amazing even though I'm depressed
right and so everybody sounds tough and everybody sounds like they got it all
figured out and the reality is there's very little toughness and most people
don't have it figure it out and so when the more senior people say well what
should we do they sound like this is what you got it in and they have no clue
so you have an entire generation growing up with lower self-esteem than previous
generations right through no fault of their own through no fault of their own
right they were dealt a bad hand right now let's add in technology we know that
engagement with social media and our cell phones releases a chemical called
dopamine that's why when you get a text feels good
alright so you know we've all had it when you're feeling a little bit down or
feeling a bit lonely and so you send out ten texts to ten friends you know hi hi
hi hi hi cuz it feels good when you get a response right right it's why we count
the likes it's why we go back ten times to see if and if it's going if our mints
and my Instagram is growing slower I would I do something wrong do they not
like me anymore right the trauma for young kids to be unfriended right
because we know when you get it you get a hit a dopamine which feels good why we
like it it's why we keep going back to it dopamine is the exact same chemical
that makes us feel good when we smoke when we drink and when we gamble in
other words it's highly highly addictive right we have age restrictions on
smoking gambling and alcohol and we have no age restrictions on social media and
cell phones which is the equivalent of opening up the liquor cabinet and saying
to our teenagers hey by the way this adolescence thing if it gets you down
but that's basically what's happening that's basically what's happening right
that's basically what happened you have an entire generation that has access to
an addictive numbing tic chemical called dopamine through social media and
cellphones as they're going through the high stress of adolescence why is this
important almost every alcoholic discovered alcohol when they were
teenagers when we're very very young the only approval we need is the approval of
our parents and as we go through adolescence we make this transition
where we now need the approval of our peers very frustrating for our parents
very important for us that allows us to acculturate
outside of our immediate families into the broader tribe right it's a highly
highly stressful and anxious period of our lives and we're supposed to learn to
rely on our friends some people quite by accident
discover alcohol and numbing effects of dopamine to help them cope with the
stresses and anxieties of adolescence unfortunately that becomes hardwired in
their brains and for the rest of their lives when they suffer significant
stress they will not turn to a person they will turn to the bottle social
stress financial stress career stress that's pretty much the primary reasons
why an alcoholic drinks right what's happening is because we're out allowing
unfettered access to these dopamine producing devices and media basically
it's becoming hardwired and what we're seeing is as they grow older they to
many kids don't know how to form deep meaningful relationships their words not
mine they will admit that many of their friendships are superficial they will
admit that their friends that they don't count on their friends they don't rely
on their friends they have fun with their friends but they also know that
their friends will cancel out them that something better comes along deep
meaningful relationships are not there because they never practice the skill
set and worse they don't have the coping mechanisms to deal with stress so when
significant stress starts to show up in their lives they're not turning to a
person they're turning to a device they're turning to social media they're
turning to these things which offer temporary relief we know the science is
clear we know that people who spend more time on Facebook stuff are higher rates
of depression than people spend less time on Facebook write these things
balanced alcohol is not bad too much alcohol is bad gambling is fun too much
gambling is dangerous right there's nothing wrong with social media and cell
phones it's the imbalance right if you're sitting at dinner with your
friends and you're texting somebody who's not there that's a problem that's
an addiction if you're sitting in a meeting with people you're supposed to
be listening to and speaking and you put your phone on the table face up or face
down I don't care that sends a subconscious message to the
room it you're not just you're just not that important to me right now right
that's what happens and the fact that you cannot put it away it's because you
aren't addicted right if you wake up and you check your
phone before you say good morning to your girlfriend boyfriend or spouse you
have an addiction and like all addiction in time it'll destroy relationships
it'll cost time and it'll cost money and will make your life worse
right so you have a generation growing up with lower self-esteem that doesn't
have the coping mechanisms to do with stress and stress right now you add in
the sense of impatience right they've grown up in a world of instant
gratification you want to buy something you go on Amazon it arrives the next day
you want to watch a movie log on and watch your movie you don't check movie
times you want to watch your TV show binge you don't even have to wait week
to week to week right I know people who skip seasons just so they can binge at
the end of the season right instant gratification you want to go on a date
you don't even have to learn how to be like you don't even have to learn and
practice that skill you don't have to be the uncomfortable into which this is yes
when you mean knowns there's no when you mean no mean yes when you you have to
swipe right bang I'm a stud right you don't have to learn the social coping
mechanisms right everything you want you can have instantaneously everything you
want instant gratification except job satisfaction and strength of
relationships there ain't no app for that they are
slow meandering uncomfortable messy processes and so I keep meeting these
wonderful fantastic idealistic hard-working smart kids they've just
graduated school they're in their entry-level job I sit down with them
when I go hasn't goin they go I think I'm gonna quit I'm like why they're like
I'm not making an impact I'm like you've been here eight months it's as if
they're standing at the foot of a mountain and they have this abstract
concept called impact that they want to have in the world which is the summit
what they don't see is the mountain I don't care if you go up the mountain
quickly or slowly but there's still a mountain and so what this young
generation needs to learn is patience that some things that really really
matter like love or job fulfillment joy love of life self-confidence a skill set
any of these things all of these things take time sometimes you can expedite
pieces of it but the overall journey is arduous and long and difficult and if
you don't ask for help and learn that skill set you will fall off the mountain
well you will the worst case scenario the worst case scenario and we're
already seeing the worst case scenario is we're seeing increase in suicide
rates we're seeing an increase in this generation we're seeing increase in
accidental deaths due to drug overdoses we're seeing more and more kids drop out
of school or take leaves of absence due to depression unheard of these are this
is this is really bad the best case scenario the bet those are all bad cases
right the best case scenario is you'll have an entire population growing up and
going through life and just never really finding joy they'll never really find
deep deep fulfillment in work or in life they'll just just walk through life and
it'll G just it's fine how's your job it's fine
it's name is yesterday how's your elationship it's fine like that's that's
the best-case scenario which leads me to the the fourth point which is
environment which is we're taking this amazing group of young fantastic kids
were just dealt a bad hand it's no fault of their own and we put them in
corporate environments that care more about the numbers and they do about the
kids they care more about the short-term gains than the long-term life of this
young human being we care more about the year than the lifetime right and so we
are putting them in corporate environments that aren't helping them
build their confidence that aren't helping them learn the skills of
cooperation that aren't helping them overcome the challenges of the digital
world and finding more balance that isn't helping them overcome the need to
have instant gratification and teach them to joy as an impact in the
fulfillment you get from working hard on something for a long time that cannot
be done in a month or even in a year and so with thrusting to them them in
corporate environments and the worst part about it is they think it's them
they blame themselves they can't they think it's them who can't deal and so it
makes it all worse it's not I'm here to tell them it's not them it's the
corporations it's the corporate environments it's the total lack of good
leadership in our world today that is making them feel the way they do they
were dealt a bad hand heads and I hate to say but it's the company's
responsibility sucks to be you like we have no choice
right this is what we got and I wish that society and their parents did a
better job they didn't so we're gonna we're getting them in our companies and
we now have to pick up the slack we have to work extra hard to figure out the
ways that we build their confidence we have to work extra hard to find ways to
teach them social the social skills that they're missing out there should be no
cell phones and conference rooms none zero and I don't mean the kind of like
sitting outside waiting to text I mean like when you're sitting and waiting for
a meeting to start nobody go this is what we all do we all sit here and wait
for the meeting to start meaning starting okay when we start the meeting
no that's not how relationships are formed remember we talked about it's the
little things relationships are formed this way we're waiting for a meeting to
start me go how's your dad I heard he was in hospital oh he's really good
thanks for asking he's actually I hope no I'm really glad
it was really amazing I know it was really scary for that's how you form
relationships hey did you ever get that report on oh my god no I didn't uh yeah
I totally uh can I help you out with that
really that's how trust forms trust doesn't form at an event in a day even
bad times don't form trust immediately it's the slow steady consistency and we
have to create mechanisms where we allow for those little innocuous interactions
to happen but when we allow cell phones and conference rooms we just ok had the
meeting and then my favorite is like when there's a cell phone there and you
go like this you go
it rings ago I'm not gonna answer that mr. magnanimous you know
when you're out for dinner with your friends like I I do this with my friends
when we're going out for dinner we're leaving together but we'll leave our
cellphones at home who are we calling maybe one of us will ring the phone in
case we need to call an uber or take a picture of our meal I'm not an idealist
but I'm not insane I mean it looked really good
we'll take one phone and so it's like an alcoholic the reason you take the
alcohol out of the house this week is because we cannot trust our willpower
we're just not strong enough but when you remove the temptation it actually
makes it a lot easier and so when you just say don't check your phone people
literally will go like this and somebody would go to the bathroom and what's the
first thing we do because I wouldn't want to look around the restaurant for a
minute and a half you know but if you don't have the phone you just kind of
enjoy the world and that's where ideas happen
the constant custom console engagement is not where you have innovation and
ideas ideas happen when our minds wander and we go and you see something on I bet
they could do that that's called innovation right but we're taking away
all those little moments right you should not end none of us none of us
should charge our phones by our beds we should be charging our phones in the
living rooms right remove the temptation you wake up the middle night cuz you
can't sleep you won't check your phone which makes it worse but if it's in the
living room it's relaxed it's fine hiya but it's my alarm clock by an alarm
clock they cost $8 I'll buy you right but the point is the point is as
we now in industry whether we like it or not we don't get a choice we now have a
responsibility to make up the shortfall and to help this amazing idealistic
fantastic generation build their confidence learn patience learn the
social skills find a better balance between life and technology because
quite frankly it's it's the right thing to do
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Mary had a little lamb Little lamb, little lamb
Mary had a little lamb Its fleece was white as snow
And everywhere that Mary went Mary went, Mary went
Everywhere that Mary went The lamb was sure to go
He followed her to school one day School one day, school one day
He followed her to school one day Which was against the rule
It made the children laugh and play Laugh and play, laugh and play
It made the children laugh and play To see a lamb at school
So the teacher turned it out Turned it out, turned it out
And so the teacher turned it out But still he lingered near
And waited patiently about, Patiently about, patiently about,
And waited patiently about Till Mary did appear
"Why does the lamb love Mary so?" Love Mary so? Love Mary so?
"Why does the lamb love Mary so?" The eager children cry
"Why, Mary loves the lamb, you know." Loves the lamb, you know, loves the lamb, you know
"Why, Mary loves the lamb, you know." The teacher did reply
Mary had a little lamb Little lamb, little lamb
Mary had a little lamb Its fleece was white as snow
And everywhere that Mary went Mary went, Mary went
Everywhere that Mary went The lamb was sure to go
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