I was thinking just before I start to make this we have actually been
conditioned to kid with ourselves to lie to ourselves to not really take an
honest look at the results we're getting I want you to take a real honest look at
your results and when you look at them ask yourself am i living the way I
really want to live you see most people aren't one of the first questions I ask
a person that comes to work with me I want to know what's the most they've
ever earned in a year now I really don't care what the answer is but I want to
know what the answer is because you see if if a person says the most I've ever
earned in years $50,000 I know where their mind is programmed if they tell me
the most they've ever earned is two hundred and fifty thousand dollars I
know where they're programmed and then I want to find out what they want and I
know then what has to shift because their mind is programmed and if they're
really going to live the way they want to live they they've got to change the
program and if they don't change the program then nothing really the only
reason that most of us don't accumulate a level of achievement in our lives one
most people end up aiming low that's what I did most of my life that most
people fail in life not because they aim too high and miss most people fail in
life because they aim too low and hit and that's what I did I was a disc
jockey I was very satisfied I achieved a level of professionalism and mastery in
that area and then someone challenged me and said you can do more and it took in
14 years to convince me to become this person that you now see this person that
you now see this voice which I consider my power voice I have absolutely no I
that this person existed but there are some times in life someone can take you
to a place within yourself where you can never go by yourself and he saw
something in me and sometimes you have to believe in somebody's belief in you
until your belief kicks in we have so much focus on teaching you to be good
seed that we haven't taught you the power of good soil and so when we come
to Solis issues the seed ignores the soil we flick the channel and has
nothing to do with me we close our eyes because we have been taught to be good
seed but we have not been taught to pay attention Jesus says the sole word for
sowing seed and some fell by the wayside
and look at your environment
have you been positioned to flourish
positioning has a lot to do worship to be in an environment in a family that
supports you my sister and I were talking the other day I will tell her
what an amazing person she is that all of our lives together and all the things
that God did in my life not once in all of the years that I've known her and she
was there
she has always been my cheerleader my greatest fan and she said how can I be
jealous of my brother I said a lot of people have siblings
I'm jealous of hope and some of my development has to be that God planted
me in the people that supported me my brother my sister my mother my father
they all supported me you can have good seed but if you've been in bad soil
people who hated you environments that denied you education
that underserved you communities that limited you mentality set poisons you oh
do you hear what I'm saying if your soil wasn't right it doesn't mean that you're
not right but if your soil wasn't it's gonna
we're not having a song till you reach the growl are you blaming God for
something you ought to be blaming the soil for you cannot take a peach seed
and plant it in a teaspoon of dirt and expect it to grow though the teaspoon of
the dirt is the same size as the peach seed it will not grow the seed will only
grow when it is planted in something bigger than itself and I want to know
where are you planning it this morning are you planning something
so many people come up to me and say Gary it's so hard I look at their
Instagram and they're not posting any of their content with hashtags which is a
by accident way to pick up exposure in a world where they have no money when you
have no money when I took over my dad's business it did 3 million dollars a year
10% gross profit $300,000 before expenses my first year marketing budget
was $14,000 when you have no money and I built that business from a three to a
sixty million dollar business in five years I had to make every penny perfect
so I was right about email marketing in 96 and I was right and because of that I
had 91% open rates when Google AdWords came out the day it came out I paid five
cents a click for words before anybody bid me up and I was super right and that
worked if it does that lock versus preparation and do you ever get anything
wrong what do you do like it make them is Heidi I give everything wrong it's
just that I can't recall it because once it's wrong I'm moving on to the next
thing like dwell dwelling on what you up on is
the quickest way for the next thing not to work right yeah so like so I think I
do everything I mean you know this this is a fun thing to say some people in the
back know this I was a breakout YouTube star in the first year 2006 I decided
that the right strategy was to leave YouTube completely and go to viddler
because viddler offered me equity in their company and I've left an enormous
amount of attention I deviated from my intention thisis to do short-term
economics and equity in a company and I lost I lost Wendy Brock finally came in
my life two years ago we started to try to build up my youtube for the first
time I was sitting on 40,000 user followers in a world where I could have
had millions if I just stayed the course so I make mistakes all the time
I'm reorganize its based on a mistake I made the prior year I just don't give a
fuck about my mistakes everybody else cares about your mistakes if you're
worried about your own mistakes you've already lost the other thing is take
full responsibility for your life except where you are and the responsibility
that you're going to take yourself where you want to go so once that we have two
primary choices in life we can either accept conditions as they
exist or we can take the responsibility to
change them see a lot of people want to exempt themselves from taking
responsibility all they want to do is talk about the problem every time you
see them they'll tell you their story over and over and over and over again no
no you want to take responsibility for your life
I got me here I can get me out of this and I'm getting out I'm not going to be
a volunteer victim George Bernard Shaw said there two kinds of people in life
you know he said those that make things happen those that watch things happen
and those that don't know what happened and he said the people that get along in
this life look around for the circumstances that they want and if they
can't find them they make them they creator so part of
beginning to get unstuck you've got to decide that the behavior pattern that
you have adopted doesn't work for you you've got to change your strategies and
changing your strategy means reinventing your life recreating you and you have
the power to do that you can decide that you're going to change that you're not
going to be a wimp
you can decide that you're going to stand up to life you can decide that I'm
going to live each day as if it were my last you can you have the power to make
that decision you can decide I'm going to work on
myself and develop myself I'm going to empower me and all of these things that
are happening to me right now they're just temporary inconveniences they're
not stronger than I am I'm in charge here your present or past results have
absolutely nothing to do with what's going to happen from this point forward
now that was the point that really Stanford drilled into my head you see I
kept thinking well gee I such a mess up you
I've done everything wrong up til now I'm 26 I'm broke I'm not happy
everything was wrong he said Bob that's all in the past
he said every moment is a new moment we shouldn't condemn ourself and he said
what you were yesterday you paid for what you are today you decide what
that's exactly what true words say this power in no way is limited by precedent
even in a creative state we sometimes don't understand that you know why
airplanes right up to today almost have wings on them because birds have wings
birds fly they have wings it's gonna get a plane to fly you got to put wings on
it do you know we've got planes fly arms that wings today you know why never did
need wings but you see the thinking was to a degree limited by precedent birds
fly with wings planes have to have wings planes do not have to have wings you're
creative if you can visualize it you can do it it doesn't matter what it is
that's what he'll said anything in mind can conceive and believe it can achieve
choice is one of the most important concepts that you can get we're gonna be
talking about the laws of the universe one of the laws is a law polarity
there'd be no inside to the room you're in if there wasn't an outside you
couldn't have a right side your body with outer life for a top of the bottom
or a front without a back you can't have a bad without a good see the truth is we
make it better good Ralph Waldo trine in tune with the infinite a great book he
said nothing is good or bad except our thinking will make yourself
well if everything's both good and bad and we bring it together what's right in
the center if everything here is bad everything here is good what's in the
center just is everything just is you choose whether you're gonna look at
the downside of the upside michael beckwith gave me a marvelous concept he
said it doesn't matter what happens in your life doesn't matter what happens
you can't control the circumstance but you can certainly control how you deal
with them he said when anything happens step
number one it is what it is accepted its are they're gonna control you or you're
gonna control it that's your choice step number two harvest the good isn't that a
neat word harvest harvest the good there's good and bad and everything just
harvest the good step number three forgive all the rest forgive means like
go up completely it's a choice and if you like or the bad the good seems to
grow you and I have a choice it may be a difficult choice sometimes if you're
dealing with a particular difficult individual or a particularly difficult
circumstance nevertheless we've got the power within us to do it so as you go
through the day doesn't matter what set anybody says doesn't matter what happens
you have a choice to say that's good and in the process of working on your dreams
you are going to encourage and turn a lot of disappointment a lot of failure a
lot of pain a lot of setbacks a lot of defeats but in the process of doing that
you will discover some things about yourself that you don't know right now
what you will realize is that you have greatness within you what you'll realize
is that you're more powerful than you can ever begin to imagine what you will
realize is that you're greater than your circumstances that you don't have to go
through life being a victim if Jack indicated I was born in Miami Florida in
the area called Liberty City in an abandoned building on a hardened Olien
floor with my twin brother we were six weeks of age we were adopted when I was
in 5th graders identified as EMR labeled educable mentally retarded put
from the fifth grade into the fourth grade and stayed in that category until
I got out of high school I don't have any college training but I meant a high
school teacher who one day changed my life I was waiting on another student
and when he came in he said to me young man go to the board and write what I'm
about to tell you and I said I can't do that turn he said why not I said I'm not
one of your students he said it doesn't matter follow my directions now I said I
can't do that sir he said why not I said because I'm magical mentally retarded
and he came from behind his desk and he looked at me he said don't ever say that
again someone's opinion of you does not have
to become your reality Harriet Tubman says I freed a thousand slaves I would
have freed even more slaves if they would have known that they were slaves
how many of you fellows and women are operating as a slave and don't even know
it are you conscious that every day you
wake up and you're anticipating to work for somebody we all work for somebody in
whatever capacity but are you even working towards working for yourself are
you looking to wake up and be somebody's be they said somebody's be as in you got
the king and the queen bee and you got all the worker bees that work for
someone they said what is that quote I got to think of it they said if you
don't remain obedient to your visions and dreams you're gonna wake up every
day at 6 a.m. to go and work for somebody else who was obedient to their
dreams I would have freed more slaves if they would have known that they were
actually slaves I don't think y'all know how powerful it is I realized that we
are our own mountains we are the reasons that a lot of don't go right for us we
create challenges and obstacle courses and issues and conflicts if something is
blessed and beautiful it is right in front of us we are gonna figure out a
way to we are our own mountains
Harriet Tubman says I was able to free over a thousand slaves I would have
freed more slaves if they would have known that they were actually slave
she's coming in line come on let's go let's go I mean like are you talking
about we got to get out of here we don't want
to be slaves no more let's go let's break free what what the hell is she
talking about Harriet Tubman says I freed over a thousand slaves I would
have freed more slaves if they would have known that they were slaves we are
our own mountains we self-sabotage and self defeat and stop ourselves from
advancing and moving forward with opportunities that are directly in front
of our faces I am sending this message out to the
world and I'm asking for everyone to go within don't be concerned in the
opinions of the world hold on with that bag don't don't be concerned of the
opinions and thoughts of the world when I leave these videos it's a moment for
us to actually sit still and think about us in our life or not everything I say
is a reflection of everybody but there's a lot of crazy going on there's a lot of
people out here who wake up every day trying to figure out how can I shut my
marriage how can I mess up my relationship how can I take a blessed
and beautiful situation and mess it all up drama and dysfunction is the
orchestration and works of the devil and when things are blessed
you purposely try and figure out a way to make it stressed I suffer from it
sometimes we all suffer from it but us being our own mountain it's like man you
know the peaks and valleys we got a lot of challenges in lifes and mountains
decline are you your own Mountain Harriet Tubman said I was able to free
over a thousand slaves I would have freed even more slaves if they would
have known that they were slaves and just so y'all know I'm not one of them
guys it's like the slave the white man to this I don't get into all that that's
not who I am I believe that every man and every woman individually can create
a better outcome for their life situation careers circumstance if they
stop self sabotaging and going out of their way to of their own situations I
was working on a job and I came home one day I was married at the time not old my
former wife I said that guy Burt I work for is stupid
she said if he's so stupid why does he sign your paycheck
now you see why I divorced er right
I couldn't stand her that night I could not sleep well here was a guy that was
controlling my life I was going through all kind of changes because this man
controlled my paycheck and it was Carlyle who said truth crushed to earth
shall rise again Winston Churchill say the truth is incontrovertible malice
mere tacit ignorant smae derided but at the end there is and we know scripture
that said he shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free and the
truth that I had to come to grips with that I wasn't in charge of my destiny
the truth was that I wasn't giving all that I had the truth was that there are
some things that I wanted to do but I didn't have the courage to act on those
things and the truth was that Birchall's was a blessing to me he made life so
miserable for me I had to start looking at my life differently I started going
to work earlier I started being the last one to leave there I started working
harder than anybody else the other guys could not why would you work so hard
less I said I'm not working for them I have been cheating Burt I thought I've
been cheating myself and my family wherever you are whatever you're doing
do it with everything that you have develop the habit of giving more than
what you're paid for develop the habit of setting standards that others will be
measured by someone said do not go where the path may lead but go where there is
no path and leave a trail friend too many times we have put so
much focus while teaching you to be good seed that we haven't taught you the
power of good soil and so when we come to Solis issues the seed ignores the
soil we flicked the channel and has nothing to do with me we close our eyes
because we have been taught to be good seed but we have not been taught to pay
attention Jesus says the sole word for sowing seed and in some fell by the
wayside some fell in love my look at you and look at your environment
have you been positioned to flourish
positioning has a lot to do flourishing to be in an environment in a family that
supports to our sister now we're talking the other day I will sell her what an
amazing person she is then all of our lives together and all the things that
God did in my life not once in all of the years that I've known her and she
was there when mama hardly have I ever known her to be jealous at me she has
always been my cheerleader my greatest fan and she said how can I be jealous of
my brother I said a lot of people
and some of my development has to be that God planted me people that
supported me my brother my sister my mother my father they all supported me
you can have good seed but if you've been in bad soil people who hated you
environments that denied you education that underserved you communities that
limited you mentality set poisoned you
do you hear what I'm saying if your soil wasn't right it doesn't mean that you're
not right but if your soil wasn't right it's gonna affect how you and how you
will choke you out for something you ought to be blaming the soil for you
cannot take a peach seed and plant it in a teaspoon of dirt and expect it to grow
though the teaspoon of the dirt is the same size as the peach seed it will not
grow the seed will only grow when it is planted in something bigger than itself
don't allow your emotions to control you we are emotional but we you want to
begin to discipline your emotion if you don't discipline and contain your
emotions they will use you your mind goes on automatic just like a guard you
know I loved reading the book call has a man thinking by James Allen he uses the
analogy of the mind being like a garden you know weeds don't have to have any
encouragement to grow you don't have to water them they don't have to get
sunshine they don't have to have fertile ground they will grow through the cracks
of a sidewalk am i right but if you want to grow orchids or roses
or any kind of exotic flowers there are special processes and procedures you
must go through what by the same token you don't have to force yourself or
motivate yourself to think negatively to be depressed to hate somebody to want
revenge you want to get back at somebody to beat yourself up over the head to
feel loaded with guilt you don't have to make any effort to do that your mind is
on automatic it will do that by itself but if you want to begin to move into
your own personal greatness if you want to begin to really enjoy a happy
successful healthy life you've got to be willing to go against the tide you've
got to be willing to harness your will and say in spite of this I'm in control
here I'm not going to let this get me down I'm not going to let this destroy
me I'm coming back and I'll be stronger and better because of it you have got to
make a declaration that this is what you stand for
you're standing up for your dreams you're standing up for peace of mind
you're standing up for health you want it and you're going to go all out to
have it it's not going to be easy when you want to change it's not easy if it
were in fact easy everybody to do it but if you're serious you'll go all out
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