Waching daily Jan 5 2017

what can we talk in that half an hour

what are the expectations that you have from your future husband

its a tradition

there will be guys like that

how many items can you cook?

is it a trial and error process like we change our costumes?

the ceremony of seeing a prospective bride is a interesting thing

full stop

we are going to talk about that. We are going to plunge deep with it. let's go

Seeing a prospective bride is not a new term at all.

We have heard that in fims, serials and in real life too..

this is a big step before marriage which you may or may not look forward too...

If we discuss about this tradition

a girl was narrating an incident then...

One guy came to see her...

Of course when they come to see us, what we can talk in that half an hour?

What can we know or discuss about a human being?

Of course they will share about job and hobbies..

what you like... what i like...

full stop...

But the lady concerned heard next day...

the next day itself that guy got engaged with another girl...

you had come to see me... but if the next day itself you have engagement with someone else...

if there's talk with you both families going on...

then how many people you have seen before?

after this how many people will you see?

If you like someone then why do you go and talk with other girls at all..

big question mark?

Is it a trial and error process like we change costumes?

Is there any concern for thoughts, values, emotions or opinions?

It is an interesting ceremony to say...

We will discuss so many things like

what she should wear?

whatever snacks we can provide?

We will ask so many questions like...

the person who may be or may not be your father in law will ask...

what are the expectations you have from your future husband?

Do you think this is right?

then what is this question like...

how many items can you cook?

The questions like can you sing or dance have gone... But some other befitting questions have replaced...

If you answer that you may think like...

If i have these qualifications only...

I am worth enough to marry.

Intrinsic worth of a human being of a woman

is a big question mark.

Actually if you think what a wedding means...

it is a meeting of minds...

to see... If two human beings can join and whether their goal points can travel in a parallel universe that's a wedding..

But these people leave those important points...

they ask do you have passport?

and ask what's your 10th marks and 12th marks?

don't you think that are irrelevant and illogical?

Infact please think...

One guy can see so many girls...

he can say okay or not... that's his freedom of choice...

But if a girl rejects so many guys it doesn't seem like a choice...

they will be offered advice like... don't be selective.. you will getguys like this...

your expectations are high..

If you reject so many guys you won't get anyone...

Do you think you are a queen?

the girl has to answer all these questions...

Second thing... in the arranged marriage concept...

If we have seen one guy with this half an hour, can we take 20 half an hours more?

In beach... or park... or even in his office...

If we want to meet and talk with him...

they will say like have you met 3 times... have you met 4 times...

when are you going to say YES..

It is all focussed towards the YES alone...

If I don't want to say YES and if it is a definite NO do I have freedom for that...

these are all very very relevant questions...

Because if marriage is an institution,

the meeting of two human beings...

If you don't see as human beings and marriage as a platform...

I remember when I was very small,

I saw a small scene in ROJA film...

It is the same ceremony...

Infact it is one of the primary such scene..

Arvindsawamy will be asking the girl...

Are you interested in marrying me?

Do you like to marry me?

Infact it is avery valid question...

important question...

Because...

Marriage is mutual right...

But in real scenario...

Ofcourse leave the cities alone...

If you plunge into rural side...

Infact... We want this girl in our family will be decided by...

the whole family including the boy will decide...

But you see here...

the girls parents decide...

may be the criteria will be...

he earns well..

he will take care of you... its a good family...

But do they have compatibility nobody thinks about that...

Plus nobody thinks about what the girl wishes...

May be as this important word is missing....

Marriage is in shaky grounds... This is what I think...

what is your opinion?

10th std i got 82 percentage... 12th standard i got 89.6 percentage. So I made it into 90 percent for my convenience...

Do you think why I am saying this suddenly...

you never know that...

may be when somebody to see me... these may the criteria...

for me to get my Prince charming...

So it will be good to remember them... right?

For more infomation >> Qualifications for becoming a bride | Pink Talk - Duration: 4:33.

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Original name: Kumaresan

Date of birth: 2 December 1963

Place of birth: Trichy, Tamil Nadu, India

Spouse(s): Jayasudha

Children: Dhanush, Gunal

Residence: Chennai, Tamil Nadu, India

Occupation: Film actor, politician, entrepreneur

Religion: Hinduism

First Movie: Pudhu Nellu Pudhu Naathu (1991)

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Ethnicities of Israel: Jews from before 1948 - Duration: 8:11.

Sigal Tel Aviv

What is your ethnic background?

Ashkenazi (European Jew)

Oren Tel Aviv

Both sides? - Yes

My father was the first generation born in Israel

From where? - Poland

On my mother's side I am the eighth generation in Israel

from the old city of Jerusalem

From Jerusalem

So I will ask you about that

So she lived in Jerusalem rather her family...

No, Tel Aviv

So who usesd to live in Jerusalem?

That was 300-400 years ago

So when did they come to Tel Aviv?

200 years ago

There wasn't a Tel Aviv 200 years ago

I know, it was then... -Jaffa

So Jaffa

So the question is: Before 1948

were there stories about the relations

between Arabs and Jews then did they get along or not

In your family all those years

what did they say about that?

Stories of really good relations

of being good neighbours

and good friendships

but ideologically,

we are Zionists, that is a problem

The Zionists are what? (I didn't hear him properly)

the problem

So Zionism is the problem

Zionism, for the Palestinian population

that was here, of course was a problem

because it comes at their expense

Within your family what do they say about...

Mostly about being good neighbours with one another

without any conflicts at the time

I don't know that much

I am third generation in Israel

My mother's grandmother was from Iraq

and your father?

My father is a sabra (Israel born)

From Jeruslem

From when?

Many generations? Do you know how many?

At least three generations

and where was his family from?

Iraq

Ok, so Jerusalem

Did they tell how the

relations were between Arabs and Jews

before 1948

My father was in the Etzel (Irgun- Zionist paramilitary orgnization)

Yes, he fought for us

Did he have relations with Arabs?

Was he their neighour do you mean?

No, I don't think so

So they described those times as always at war?

Yes

So your mother was

from Syria - Yes, Allepo, Syria

and your father?

My father was born in Tiberius 9th or 10th generation

and they had come from the village Pikiin (Northern Israel)

Pikiin is a famous village

So they were their...

I guess they never left the land - No

Interesting

According to the stories told in your family

how were the relations back then between Arabs and Jews?

Before 1948

They lived with the Arabs in Syria

No, here

Also here, they lived well together

Are there stories of... I don't know

Did you have Arab neigbours and good relations with them?

Maybe, I don't know

No, here in Israel (at that time)

I don't know

Your father never told stories

Yes, they lived with Arabs they didn't say anything...

Today in Tiberius there are Arabs who are now living there

Yes, there were back then

No, today inside Tiberius

Wait, inside? I will ask you

Today there are Arab Israelis who live in Tiberius (with the Jews)

They came in the past few years

Yes, they live together with us

their kids even go to our schools

How are the relations?

Very good relations

For more infomation >> Ethnicities of Israel: Jews from before 1948 - Duration: 8:11.

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