Am I beautiful?
Yes, you're SO BEAUTIFUL
But You're lesbian so it doesn't make sense...
I just want to say it So today, I'm sorry because
I will be the one who'ss going to talk the most but it's something that makes me so angry
absolutely every time.
I read this question: Why all ... lesbians are ugly?
One thing that infuriates me because I think I usually really try to have an open mind
you know when there are people asking "How do lesbians
have sex? "
etc ...
We had already talked about it, I really try to take it like: Ok they really don't know
no, no reason to get pissed, we'll just need to explain.
But that's such a bunch of crap that I can't have an open mind
on this
It's so stupid!
Deja, example:
Second example: I mean .... look at that!
Look at this little head!
Is this ugly?
Is this ugly?
Me, being with someone ugly?
No, I don't think so.
So, I'll try to explain ...
Why does it touch you so much?
Because I think lesbians of...
No, no because I think nobody likes to heard they are just ugly
because of their sexuality.
I am a lesbian so that means I am ugly, there is no connection with it.
Now me, I asked myself the question and I think I can explain
why some people think that.
1: Who says all lesbians are ugly?
who think that?
Men.
Men, straight or straight girls.
Why?
Why we think that?
Because we agree that for them: what is a lesbian?
Short hair, girls who are a little tomboy, girls who have strong
personality etc. All these criteria does not match the
straight type.
A straight guy wants a feminine girl etc.
Of course, I am generalizing in all this but yes girls with long hair
girls wearing heels ...
It is the number number one and the problem Number two is the gaydar.
We already mentioned the gayer. it is something that lesbians, bisexuals
have.
Why?
Because we are interested to know when we see a person on the street if it's a lesbian
or a straight or bi or whatever.
a straight person do not give a damn so all people he recognizes as
"lesbians" are people that will correspond to the lesbian characteristics,
the lesbian criteria.
So for example, the example that really comes to my mind immediately is Boo in Orange
is The New Black.
You can be straight, whatever you want, you know she is lesbian
She doesn't correspond at all to the straight criteria long hair, feminine ....
immediately, the straight thinks she is ugly and straight think that all
lesbians, absolutely all lesbians have short hair, have a shirt
etc ... and that's why they generalize like that and they
say all lesbians are ugly because that they don't know how to recognize all
lesbians and because of the lesbians dress code does not match
with their femininity criteria, beauty criteria.
And so I think it's upsetting because 1: Who are you?
Just to say according to a sexuality, to globalize like that saying: you're lesbian
then you're ugly and 2: we don't care!
We don't give a damn what straight thinks about lesbians
You'll never ... well we already have spoken about that trying to seduce a straight person is
already kind minefield
If you ever take that kind of bullying, really think about what I just
said and especially dont give a damn about them because this is not the truth
and he is straight you will never be with him and anyway he will never fall in love
with you so you don;t care
Be yourself, believe in yourself and you have nothing to do with these people who just
because of your sexuality or a a criterion, will tell you who you are,
how you feel etc.
It's a bit absurd to say all lesbians are ugly when there are so many ugly
Straights too and no one says straights are ugly
Ah, if I can say it, I know some.
Yes but I'm not saying straights are ugly because of some of them are.
So why ...
It's like you say, I think they fail to recognize beautiful lesbians
so for them....
well more feminine lesbians they can't recognize them because for them,
because obviously straights are centered on themselves they will immediately think
this person is also straight and so in his mind she cannot be lesbian
precisely because she has long hair.
Is there any straight who recognize you're a lesbian?
Really?
most of the time I think they are not sure.
I don't know, maybe not ... but anyway you're not lesbian ... no I know ...
And I already heard this "You're too cute to be lesbian " It's
the same thing!
Yes.
It's horrible.
Even you, I think it hurt you because you say thank you but what does it mean?
I'm beautiful but what... what does it mean?
Well, it means that you're a bit stupid.
Ok the person who say that to me was a gay.
We know ... there's a strange thing between gays and lesbians.
There are like ... they don't like each other, they don't like at all the same things.
gay men like men, lesbians like women.
I have lots of gay friends but I don't know it's kind of a stereotype that exists
in the gay world that apparently gay and lesbians do not get along well,
they are not best friends. gays they get along with straight girls
they can talk about boys and clothing wow stereotype.
Go ..... We will end at the show "this is my choice" if you continue ...
Ok I was told that i was too cute to be lesbian, told by a gay man
first of all what are you doing in there ...
I really admit they're the last person to be able to give their opinion of it ...
I think it's really an opinion of straight who doesn't know
the lesbian / gay world and I was really ... insulted because I find that in the
LGBT community, we should all love or support each other and we don;t do it
Bisexual precisely, you can testify, people who insulted you the most
in your life that's probably gay.
Yes.
I find that in the LGBT community, first of all it is rather LG community, the B and T
are not super accepted by everyone so I do not know why a community
which was also insulted, belittled does not not to support each other
Yes.
So what are you trying to say as a gay man to a girl who is lesbian that you
just met? "Ho you're too cute to be lesbian "What's your problem?
how do you want the girl to take that?
Oh, well thank you, that's nice because that's true for the other lesbians .... yes
I won't start to belittle my own group ... my ... my own sexuality.
i won't say you're right!
others lesbians are not really beautiful but I am.
and yeah that's it, you're not the exception.
There are so many others that are beautiful.
It's true that I'm really beautiful but there are plenty of other that are beautiful too.
Yes of course!
It's not just me!
You're not bad anyway.
I think we made a beautiful couple.
What do you think about it?
Yes.
anyway, in any case, voila, that was it for this video.
It was still an angry video, sorry but frankly we had to
say something and we must stopped that because it is bullshit.
If you have had this kind of remarks, tell us in the comments, like, comment
the video and we will see you next Tuesday !!
Bye
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