Hi, it's Dr Sam Robbins,
For whatever reason, I get asked a lot of questions about masturbating.
And since this channel is about YOU, I do my best to address and discuss the topics
you're most interested in.
Because of this, I've done a couple videos about masturbating, including one entitled:
"WARNING: The Negative Effects Of Masturbation".
And if you haven't already seen that video, you can do so after you see this one.
There's a link below, in the description area to that video.
I bring this up because I've had over a dozen guys asking and commenting in that video,
"how do I stop masturbating?".
Keep in mind that masturbation is normal and it's not bad for you.
However, in the original video I discussed when and how "too much" masturbation can
be unhealthy - for both your body and your personal life.
Again, you can get the details when you watch that original video.
But today, I want to discuss 3 effective ways that you can stop or more importantly, reduce
masturbation.
Become Aware
No matter what happens or what I share with you to do today, you FIRST need to become
more aware of when you're focused or obsessed about masturbating.
You need to become more cognizant and aware of your thoughts, triggers and actions, as
it pertains to masturbating.
Otherwise, you'll go back to your old habits.
Stop Watching Porn
So, one of the biggest reasons, causes, and/or catalysts for masturbating is watching porn.
You may be horny and want to masturbate and so forth.
However, just going to a porn site or you start watching porn, immediately "puts the
wheels in motion" and there's not stopping it.
So my suggestion is you stop watching porn.
And if you can't control yourself and know you're going to go to some porn sites, just
get an app on your browser or phone to BLOCK you from allowing you to go to porn sites.
In the description area, I've listed a few sites with more information about these apps
or browser extensions.
The bottom line here is you need to remove things that bring you temptation to masturbate.
Get Busy
One big reason people masturbate or masturbate too much is they're bored.
They have too much time on their hand.
So, you need to get busy.
Go to the gym, exercise, spend time with friends, go for walks, start a new business, go read
and feed your brain.
Do productive work
Bottom line is you need to find a substitute for the time and energy spent on masturbating
and put it towards something else that's productive and betters and improves your life.
Be Patient For some people, stopping something "cold
turkey" works.
I don't recommend this when it comes to stopping a drug addiction, since you can have
very negative physical reactions.
However, stopping cold turkey with masturbating is an option because there won't be any
negative, physical consequences.
However, maybe the goal isn't to stop, but to reduce the masturbation.
For example, if you're doing it every single day, maybe your goal is to reduce it to once
or twice weekly.
If that's the case, every week reduce it by one day and in about a month, you've
gone from 7 times weekly to twice weekly.
If you're doing it multiple times daily, every day, then you need to slowly reduce
that to once daily, 7x weekly and then eventually down to 1-2x weekly.
Again, I'm just using these examples since i don't know what's going on in your personal
life.
Bottom line is you can either stop or dramatically reduce the masturbation.
Make a plan and execute it.
Be patient and don't punish or shame yourself.
Just keep making improvements, so you don't go back to your old habits.
Summary So in summary
Reduce temptation and stop watching porn and going to porn websites.
And if you can't control yourself, get apps that block porn sites
Boredom a big cause for masturbating.
So get busy, go outside, spend time with friends, go exercise and get that energy out and keep
yourself busy.
Make a plan, execute it and be patient.
Don't punish or shame yourself.
Just keep making improvements.
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