Hello everyone! Thanks for watching!
this could well be the last interview of my career yeah exactly
doing this is you'll see this late you'll have been too late but I'm here
to do my last ever seminar this really is my retirement seminar but I think
what people never got about me and it never came out in Neil's book the game
half the work I do it guys his healing birth gave him past trauma gave him past
fear so use any LP I'll use hypnosis I'll use cognitive behavioral therapy
doc stuff I'll use what I call task or ordeal therapy I'll do I do a lot of
healing work breaking limiting beliefs so a half of what I do is that and a lot
of people that's not publicized because it's not interesting it's not sexy but
it's a lot of what I do oh yeah I'm truth to tell that's the
only thing that's kept me doing this for the last five years I've wanted to quit
I wanted to quit five years ago I think I did quit in 2006 but I went back to it
yeah so our Russ is basically retiring our once he finishes his final seminars
here in London in the next few days
hello welcome to a wonderful opportunity this is the one and only lost Jeffrey
I'm me he is him and he is the godfather of game any other titles you go by yes
the living legend the Prince of poon the Ayatollah moist pink Ola the Guru of
getting some but you may call me Ross yes or just Russell so have you seen the
movie Magnolia this guy was represented or portrayed by
our not only Tom Cruise and movie Mary's yeah that's right what what year was
that that movie came out in 1999 I think 1999 respect yes the cock and fame the
country
respect the cock and tame the cunt yeah so uh I watched a movie because I at
some point I realized that it was a portrayal that was there's a very
exaggerated portrait a pretty exaggerated one but very interesting
because if you're played by Tom Cruise then that's pretty crazy right they
never paid me any money see all right that's unfortunate that's very
important so my my first question actually is similarly just before this
movie 7 years earlier in 1992 you were on an MBC talk show and one woman said
that you will end up as a very lonely man well very wrong she was wrong and
here we are 2018 however many they are extremely wrong she's probably dead or
he weighs 500 stone but I'm not lonely thank you ok that's our time yeah that's
great what started your journey and how long
has it been well I started my journey because I couldn't get any any girls I
was always the best friend the big brother you know and when you're a
woman's friend what that means is you wind up listening to her sad tales of
woe about the guy who's fucking of rains out but doesn't take care of her
emotional needs and so you cry yourself to sleep
pulling your flaccid little penis until you've got skid marks on your hand you
understand I was that guy I was that guy in a I just didn't know what to do about
it so I stumbled onto NLP neuro-linguistic
programming for those of you who don't know and it took me about a year because
NLP does not have a seduction application there's one for hypnosis
there's one for persuasion there's one for modeling and mapping
talent which i think is the heart of NLP I had to create the seduction
application I took me about him a year of experimenting until it started to
work but you see I'm very stubborn I hate to quit I don't like to give up and
I figured it out
no one mapped it out for you just nope discover no I had to figure out how to
use NLP NLP had been around since 1975 but I had to figure out how to map it
over into seduction and I'm also a when it comes to things I'm interested in I'm
an obsessive compulsive thinker even today I still think about seduction what
will work better even though I'm really I know how to do it I'm still thinking
of new things cuz I've got that problem I'm it I've had obsessive compulsive
thinking but it's put to a good use to understand I don't scrub the kitchen
table a hundred times but I do think about seduction and NLP and persuasion a
lot all the time how many are years ago was this roughly so I started studying
NLP in 1987 I got it to work for me in 1988 and then I think 91 is when I did
my first seminar basically I read my book for three hours there's a long time
ago I think you fucker you weren't even born right and this guy here didn't even
have his testicles descended or pubic there you young whippersnappers you need
to respect me you see that I'm very comfortable with
the camera do I look like I'm afraid of the camera oh hell no I love the fuck
he's owning this I own the fucking pair go ahead I like stand-up respect respect
alright next question what are the different mindsets you changed
throughout your journey since your beginning that's a really good question
I got a lot more playful with it at first it was I've got to make this work
I've got to make this work but you see when you turn another person into a task
that you have to do well at they can sense that and you get very serious and
you break all rapport so I got I started have a lot more fun with it and then
became a lot more compassionate about it I stopped seeing women it's just objects
for you know cum dumpsters as we say in the United States I saw them as people
and I began to think you know I want to be with women who I truly like and enjoy
and that's what happened yeah so you changed from objectification some more
human hold on that's not like that I said I change from taking it very
seriously they're having fun with it to then thinking you know it's not enough
to get laid I want to be with women who I really like who I really enjoy I have
fun with and respect these people yeah which unanticipated areas of your
life also improved as a consequence of learning game well learning any opinion
persuasion I learned to write better ad copy
I learned to grow my business and I learned to be a healer and this is
something I'd like to talk about I'm sure it's not in your list of questions
when I do is seminar I'm doing this is you'll see this link you'll have been
too late but I'm here to do my last ever seminar this really is my retirement
seminar but I think what people never got about me and it never came out in
Neil's book the game half the work I do it guys his healing birth gave him past
trauma gave him past fear so use NLP I'll use hypnosis I'll use cognitive
behavioral therapy Duke stuff I'll use what I call task or ordeal therapy I'll
do I do a lot of healing work breaking limiting beliefs so half of what I do is
that and a lot of people that's not publicized because it's not interesting
it's not sexy but it's a lot of what I do so that orientation towards being a
healer really took hold of me and it's something to this as tired as I am of
answering guys questions I I can't talk to a pretty girl I can get the eggs but
I can't get the knives intent as sick I am of that I'm never tired of doing the
healing work ever yeah that's our Tori more of an emotional side that people
don't tend to talk about and are kind of filled
I don't think frankly there's anyone else in the field who even claims that
they do it what I say they do it I'm the only one who claims they could do it and
who does it there's no one I can think of food no offers such no thing you know
or yeah I'm truth to tell that's the only thing that's kept me doing this for
the last five years I've wanted to quit I wanted to quit five years ago I think
I did quit in 2006 but I went back to it yeah so our Russ is basically retiring
uh once he finishes his final seminars here in London in the next few days or
he will be moving on to doing other things so I'll be meeting I'll be
teaching persuasion I have a book you can get in on Amazon called subtle words
it's l-s-u btle subtle words that sell and it's all about how to get your
prospects to convince themselves to buy without pushing pressuring or pitching
so it's every clever wicked little thing I've learned about hypnotic language
applied to selling excuse me so I'm moving on to a career where I'm teaching
that money's much better the audience is mostly female so put that math together
yeah I'll drop a link in the description so check that out look you need to is
going out to meet females bad Oh the Bible it says you must go up and meet
females it's in the book of Sarge II chapter 4 verse 7 and the Lord sayeth
unto Sarge II go thou forth and spray thy seed into every living vagina lest I
strike thee with boils or they or less they'll choke a--the the chicken in
which case I will strike all your cattle with murrain and I don't even know what
the fuck marine is it's in the Bible
what do you mean I'm not good what do you mean by good well I'm morally
correct so it's fun to do yeah what do you mean by good this is tight in say
hey look at me young man define your terms what do you mean so of
course there's see that again define your terms what does that mean what do
you mean like what it's bad yeah Society has mixed views on the
community's perception or action of if I worried about what society thought I'd
be in big trouble society used to think slavery was okay slavery okay no no I
don't give a fuck look I look at it like this as long as you're not interfering
with other people's right to peacefully enjoy your life their life then you're
okay it's when these social robots the company I won't say their name but it
has an R in it and a DNA and an S in it when those guys who are clueless kept
keep following women down the street won't Lima Lum that becomes a minor
crime that's like harassment or disturbing the peace or some fact but
see in between the line of doing nothing and being a clueless harasser there's a
really nice line where you can be charming and be just different enough to
be interesting but not so different that you're a weirdo and a lot of what I
teach guys is walking that line you have to walk the line between being really
confident and showing that you have no shame around sex in the other hand being
a horny grammar he's got a big boner and it can't wait to get your zipper open
it's walking that line can you walk the line with women between being a dictator
who tells women what to do and being a pussy who lets himself get to step on
step them can you walk that mental line of being a
strong guy who also will pay attention to what your woman needs it's walking
the line it's a lot of what I teach that's how I do that's
you know the Johnny Cash song I'll walk the line yeah because you're mine same
cattle I walk the line yeah or do you think that learning how yes
interact with females is a cure for the massive rate of depression and suicide
among men oh that's a complex question depression and suicide is that's a very
that's depression and suicide have multiple multiple inputs and different
reasons I don't know I certainly think that loneliness and being socially
isolated or depressogenic that's a fancy word for meaning they contribute to
depression but they're plenty of lonely people don't take their lives and
they're playing a people up a big social circle and have everything and do take
their lives so the ideology the origins of depression are way too complex to to
examine here I don't know it certainly helps to have those social skills being
isolated is a factor for depression but on the other hand just because you're
nice not isolated doesn't mean you won't be depressed
I think we're social people were meant to be in pods and groups and tribes yeah
and without that would just be way more lonely less socially calibrated and I
think and here's something I an insight I've had for many years and now I'm not
joking around not going with the camera be funny I think some of the guys in the
community maybe 15 20 percent particularly D s arse students have
Asperger's syndrome you know Asperger's is yeah it's
high-functioning autism and they literally cannot read other people's
emotional expressions if you see them they look creepy because they're always
staring at the person's face it's because they're trying to read I call it
emotional lip-reading you know have deaf people have to read
lips they're trying to read the person's social facial expressions so they can
pick um pick up on what that person is feeling because they don't have that
normal skill of maybe they're mirror neurons are
I don't know I don't know enough about the neurobiology of how it works so I
think about 15 maybe as high as 20% just don't have the those brain circuits they
could be caught but I think they're high-functioning Asperger yeah in all
honesty I have seen for various walks of life these people with such mental
illnesses that whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa mental Asperger's is not a mental
illness it's not a mental illness it's a brain condition brain conditions yeah I
do of course I don't fully understand it
but I understand where this view comes from and it is hard for are such people
to not only communicate but understand the communication it's not the third and
they can be very warm-hearted people who want to be helpful want to connect
they just can't read those cues I think they can be taught but it requires a I
think that requires a professional therapist when I get people like that my
seminar I'll say look you're welcome to stay you can stay for free I'll even
give you your money back but I don't know that I can be that helpful to you
huh here's a good one has the culture of political correctness weakened
relationships between males and females are you talking about the me to movement
generally anything PC think it would I was a political scientist in college I
quit that when I graduated UCLA I I think that men and women are now a lot
more confused about the roles what the role should be I certainly think that's
true I think in America there's a war on in
family court in California you know what family court is when you're getting
divorced disputes to just yeah when it's time to get a divorce
Family Court has been weaponized and use against men in California the disparity
of power between men and women you go to court it's much more favored
towards the woman that's about all I can say yeah next question are wires there a
focus on male self development and the seduction community it's a natural
outgrowth of wanting to be successful women you want to also to have a
well-rounded life they just go hand in hand where let's say why isn't there a
more prominent version for females in relation to male success what do you
think the fucking beauty industry and the fitness industry and the diet
industry is they're multi-billion dollar businesses what do you think they're
doing yeah in the US alone the women medic industry is worth billions of
dollars so let me ask you a question why is it okay for a woman to put on makeup
and wear high heels and get a boob job and workout but if we use language to
make ourselves more appealing we're manipulative sick fascist
misogynistic bastards that's a real double standard god that girl's got nice
kids yeah that's really in trouble you know I do these interviews and I get a
part of me I'm not normally this way I'm not this much of a smartass you put a
camera on me in something happens I'm gonna blame the camera go ahead of
course what book would you recommend for learning for someone who would want to
learn your linguistic programming that's an interesting question and the topic
watch them can i name more than one book or is it
just one oh if your name let's say it's help free if you could well I would say
transformations which was one of the first books I read pran ce e -
formations by Bandler and render that really opened my eyes to ericksonian
hypnosis and I think a lot of the techniques excuse me the techniques of
NLP came out of that book came out of study Milton Erickson I would say hmm
that's a tough question there not a lot of good ones there's one that's in a
dance book called mind lines mi ND - lines by l michael hall it's about using
NLP blah oh fuck that what is that book the black book of NLP techniques or is
that what it's called it's by one of my former students persuasion skills black
book yeah the persuasion skills black book that's a really good one it he's a
former students in mind that's a great book and then there's my book subtle
words itself winter busses yeah Rinty basu and then there's my book subtle
words itself what's your favorite book my favorite all-time book of all time
favorite lung NLP Berk you mean nonfiction or fiction or anything that
isn't related to neuro linguistic programming or pickup hmm oh it's a book
called Bayless VA lis is a fiction book by philip k dick philip k dick he's a
science fiction writer who died I think in 1980 but mu did you ever see the
movie Blade Runner oh yeah I saw today that's that's based on his short story
the Androids Dream of Electric Sheep and Total Recall with Arnold Schwarzenegger
yeah I was based on his book we Cameron George story we can remember it for you
wholesale philip k dick that book bayless it's
it's funny it's fascinating it's it runs you up and down the emotional circuitry
I really love that book it's my favorite work of fiction then there's as far as
nonfiction I like military history there's a book called carnage and
culture by victor mark Hansen I think I like that book another book I really
liked I like military history there's a book called from the jaws of victory
it's all about generals who are about to win but they fucked it up and lost the
battle anyway and yeah that would be about it
yeah I watched Wade running for the first time two weeks ago although that
was based on philip k dick short story the Androids Dream of Electric Sheep
wait a minute they did a movie with Keanu Reeves based on a philip k dick
book I think it was called flow my tears the policeman said never know I love
philip k dick he's my favorite science fiction author and I also like Frank
Herbert who wrote the dune novels what about NLP is still applicable and
practical today without seeming weird it has gained a lot of stigma in the
community which I think people are you know need to further answer that yeah
look people don't understand what NLP is yeah if you think NLP is just using
certain words you're not understanding it
I'll give you a metaphor you're driving your car exhaust comes out of the back
of the car correct does the exhaust cause the engine to run
or does the engine make the exhaust which one the exhaust is the cause the
exhaust is the cause of the engine running what comes out of the exhaust is
no no no no no no the engine running makes the exhaust yeah alright so people
are confusing the exhaust with the engine NLP is not about the words you
say like the blowjob pattern or that's the result of using NLP NLP is the study
of how language truckers consciousness shapes decisions
and drives behavior that will never go out of style
that's the structure of human subjectivity it's a structure of human
subjectivity how could that ever go out of style how could that ever be wrong
the individual techniques and the way it's applied that can be fucked up the
sex angle physics ever go out of style no you can use physics to make an h-bomb
and hurt people you can use physics to make a laser that could do surgery
people ask that question do not understand what NLP is they think NLP is
walking up to a girl and saying so have you ever felt an incredible connection
that makes you feel happiness inside of yourself now I'll teach that but that's
just one particular language pattern my way of thinking and the rules of my
thinking to let me can come up with that pattern that's NLP do you understand the
way I think about language that's NLP and so that gives you endless variations
of what to do so my answer is anyone who asks that question does not understand
what NLP really is yes that's a good that wasn't my question
all right that was someone else I swear okay all right all right but yet that's
a fair point if you're looking to get in into NLP make sure you read the books
that Russ has recommended he is written one hits himself as well subtle words
it's al how to get your prospects to convince themselves to buy link below so
I'll link below me and I make sure you guys understand what it's about because
of course like lots of things have if you have hate mail
I love hate mail when I had eight before the internet I sent out a snail mail
newsletter and when I got hate mail I would publish it without any editing I
had a special section of the newsletter that said delicious hate mail so if
you've got hate mail I love it email me Ross at seduction comm I warned you once
you mail it it belongs to me I will put it on my facebook page along with
yes so i double-dog dare you send me the fucking hate mail Ross at seduction calm
I will put it on my facebook this I loved ate your hate makes me stronger
this is legendary yeah this could well be the last interview of my career
yeah exactly dad I love that mentality that's my boy inspiration inspiration
thank you thank you for your time sure when do I get my check just getting it
out my pocket all right thank you all you blue if I never seen me at a seminar
but there you go cut
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