10 Big Problems Every 20-Something Has To Deal With
Most people use their 20s to discover who they are and what they want out of life.
They struggle through this period of transition with questions and uncertainty in their hearts.
They go from enjoying nights of partying with mornings of a hangover to becoming an adult,
the responsible one, handling finances, paying bills, dealing with a stressful and demanding
time at work with tight deadlines to meet and searching for true love all at once.
In this video, we'll be sharing with you some 10 big problems every 20 something has
to deal with.
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1.
The realization that education and talent are not enough to become successful
Growing up, we were all made to believe that good grades and a good certificate, in turn,
will put us up for success, so we live our lives trying to be the best in our classes,
hoping that this gets us the best positions out there before anyone else.
However, we soon realize that high grades, good certificates or degrees from elite Universities,
natural talents and the likes are not enough to make us successful if not paired with hard
work alongside certain abilities.
Copywriter Joe Choi said, "Having social skills, navigating politics, knowing who to ask for
what, and being able to see the big picture are invaluable no matter what you do,"
2.
Struggle with money
Having to deal with finance can be a big deal.
Prior to this time, most 20 somethings had their bills being taken care of by parents
and other folks.
So, it becomes a challenge to be solely responsible for figuring out bills payment and other money
issues.
Because we still have to deal with the problem of stability, we end up mismanaging funds
which leads to more money issues.
3.
Not relying on technology for everything
Technology is a good thing, but relying on it for everything isn't so much of a good
idea and this is one problem every 20 something has to deal with.
For instance, learning how to make a particular dish without having to look up the recipe
on the internet every time you want to make this dish or depending on a step by step video
online to teach us how to knot a tie every time we have to.
4.
Learning to persist and not give up
Unlike when we were teens, every 20 something has to deal with learning how to persist rather
than give up when something goes wrong at work or with their relationship.
Learning to see failure as opportunities to learn and improve on one's self rather than
give up and throw it all away.
5.
Fitness problem
Not everyone likes working out, going to the gym and eating all that healthy stuff but
if we are going to keep ourselves healthy and fit, then we have to deal with it.
Unlike when we were teenagers that we could do anything to our bodies and get away with
it, now in our 20s, our bodies' ability to bounce back is reduced, which means we've
got to pay attention to the things we feed our bodies with and we have to constantly
be in the habit of increasing our bodies metabolic rate.
Hence the need to exercise regularly.
6.
Not staying in touch with our families and loved ones
This discovery phase of our lives seems to be eating up into our time so much that we
hardly remember to stay in touch with loved once.
As a matter of fact, we only think of ourselves and our careers, not because we want to be
selfish but because we spend too much time trying to make life work for us.
7.
Not trying to please everyone
Because we know that we can't force everyone around us to like us, we try to buy ourselves
a page in people's good books by pleasing them in the hope that you could work something
out together in the future.
Granted!
When you're starting out in your career, it only seems natural to want to be on friendly
terms with your boss, clients, and all of your coworkers.
However, rather than feeling crushed when you realize some of them simply don't like
you, accept it, don't stress out and move on.
Joe Cho says, "Inevitably, someone will always dislike you.
I wish I had figured this out a lot earlier and stopped trying so hard and worrying so
much about it."
8.
Looking for your soulmate
At your late 20s, you may be at a point where family members begin to pressurize you about
marriage, so you try to avoid any questions they might want to ask by looking for your
soulmate before they begin pressurizing you.
Besides, you want to take time to figure out who you are compatible with and you aren't
before you hit 30.
9.
You think you are the only one struggling amongst your friends
Thanks to social media, building a false reality is easier than you think.
All people need to do to create this reality is to go to someplace nice, wear a few nice
clothes, take some pictures and post it online.
Seeing these pictures gives you a mental note that all your friends are doing better than
you.
The truth, however, is that a good number of 20 somethings are still struggling and
trying to find their way in the world.
You are all still trying to determine who you are as adults and what you all will rather
spend the rest of your lives doing.
'It can seem like your friends or colleagues are more successful and confident", says
Sarthak Pranit.
"But regardless of income, job, or living situation, every 20-something is still figuring
things out as they go along".
10.
You'll miss childhood
For some reasons, every young adult seems to believe they can't have fun anymore because
they have a lot of work stuff to do and a lot of bills to settle.
While you cannot spend all your time playing like you used to do when you were a kid, it
is advisable to reward yourself for all the responsible things you get yourself to do.
In summary, if you find yourself dealing with any of the above problems, there is no cause
for alarm.
It is perfectly okay, especially at this stage of your life.
Take heart and keep learning.
You'll soon overcome many of these problems and become a stronger and better adult.
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