No.1, He or she always chooses his or her friends over you.
When your boyfriend or girlfriend feels like going out, he or she doesn't invite you
to come along.
And when he or she feels like spending a night in, you don't get an invite to that, either.
If you try to address the problem, your partner will accuse you of "nagging" and of instigating
the same fight over and over again.
So instead, you may ask him or her to spend time with you and your friends, but he or
she rejects the offer.
Your partner simply prefers calling up his or her friends and spending time with them,
leaving you at home alone wondering what you did wrong.
No.2, He or she doesn't care about you.
You get the feeling that he or she doesn't care about you, and you're right.
This person doesn't.
The bottom line is, if you're in a one-sided relationship, your partner simply doesn't
care about your well-being or making you happy.
A caring boyfriend or girlfriend has genuine interest in your day-to-day life.
He or she will check in regularly to see what you're up to and frequently ask to spend
time with you.
But your partner doesn't do that.
No matter how much you hope your partner will, he or she won't.
His or her "I-don't-care-about-you" attitude is never going to change.
And the sooner you accept it, the sooner you can leave him or her behind.
No.3, He or she ignores relationship problems.
You're constantly the one trying to talk about the relationship needs that aren't
being met, and your significant other makes you feel bad for doing it.
You mention you feel as though you're the only one putting in effort to make this relationship
work, and he or she rolls their eyes, sighs heavily and get angry with you yet again.
He or she doesn't want to address any problems, because he or she doesn't care enough.
So you feel like you're left with two options: trying to fix the issues yourself, or ignoring
the problems altogether.
No.4, You initiate most communication.
You send the text messages, you make the phone calls and you put in the effort to see one
another throughout the week.
If you don't, several days could go by without exchanging a single word.
If you're the one making most of the plans to spend quality time together and go out
of your way to show the other person how much he or she means to you, chances are you're
in a one-sided love affair.
If you always have to be the first one to make contact, you should get out now.
No.5, You feel a need to apologize for things you shouldn't apologize for.
If you're in a one-sided relationship, your partner is probably a master of guilt-tripping
and making you feel bad for things you have no reason to worry over, like getting emotional,
or needing to talk about something that's been on your mind.
Yes, a relationship is meant to bring happiness into each other's lives, but that doesn't
mean your partner isn't responsible for comforting you when you feel down.
Part of being in a relationship is being there for the other person when life isn't carefree.
You should never apologize when looking for your significant other's support.
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