Waching daily Nov 26 2018

- Brittani and Cyril have had

a complicated relationship from the start.

There's been lying, cheating,

and any time they have a problem,

Brittani says Cyril runs to his mama's house.

Cyril, Brittani just kicked you out last week, right?

For what?

- That wasn't the first time she kicked me out.

- First of all, y'all been living together how long?

- Since July.

- Since July, so a couple of months, okay.

And how many times have you got kicked out?

- That was the first time I left.

She's kicked me out at least four times.

- Oh.

- Every time we get in an argument,

that's what she wants to go, "Get out."

- Whose apartment is it?

- Her name's on the lease, I pay the rent.

- But last week I did not kick him out.

- She did kick me out.

She definitely told me - No I did not.

- to get out of the house.

- I asked him could he leave for a few hours,

because I was upset and I--

- She said "get out."

- No I didn't, no, I explained it--

- She didn't say "Hey, get out for a couple hours,

"'Cause I just wanna be by myself."

No, you said "get out."

I was like "Where am I supposed to go?

"I got work in the morning" - No, he wanted

to go to his parents' house, we go every week.

So he wanted to go, I did not want to go,

I'm cramping, he already made me mad before I came home

so it's like--

- Cyril that was the wrong night to pick an argument.

- I did not pick the argument.

- Cyril are you learning anything about

the perils of living in an apartment

that your name is not on the lease?

Seems like you gotta leave every couple of weeks.

- I do, I understand because she doesn't mean it

when she's telling me, she's just saying that

to get under my skin.

- Brittani,

- She really wants a reaction out of me.

- [Judy] Is that true?

- At the time, it's not like I just walk in and say

"Get out," no, that's not what it is.

We will argue, he will hit below the belt

and I will say "You need to leave."

- If that--

- Okay but do you actually want him to leave

or is it how Cyril says it,

which is that it's really just a ploy to get some attention?

- At the time, I'd be wanting him to leave, yes.

- [Judy] Oh, okay.

- How often do you say that you guys bicker with each other?

Is it just all the time?

- Out of seven days-- - It's been often now, lately.

Mostly when we're at his parents' house,

I feel like he turns into a child.

- Okay, well we've got a little bit of proof

about Brittani and Cyril.

They both documented one of their latest disagreements.

Check out this tape.

- Like, there's no getting through to you at all.

You did not consider my time,

instead, you knew that I was getting upset.

(Cyril mumbles)

Yes it is!

It's been my time since you said

that this is what we're gonna do at seven o'clock.

Then it became both of our time,

that was something that we shared.

But you made it all about you.

- Oh my gosh, you know, just watching that interaction,

couple things concern me.

You're on the attack, and you're withdrawing.

And you know what?

Withdrawal is one of the most

poisonous things to a relationship.

It's when you check out and you don't even care anymore.

- Pick up your pants and be a man,

that's what you need to do.

I mean really, you just sat there and took it.

(audience claps)

- Well, I mean we just watched 30 seconds

out of an hour-long video, so--

- Well does she keep going like that?

Is this sort of a tirade when you fight?

- That for the most part, that's what's going on,

because she gets out of pocket and starts calling me names,

and saying all this stuff--

- But why do you take it?

Why do you let her get out of pocket

and call you all those things?

- Because it's like, if I start,

if I do and say the things that she says and she does,

it's a whole 'nother argument.

I can't even get mad at her, like if I'm mad at something,

and I'm like "Alright I'm angry about this."

She gets mad at me getting mad at her.

- I always say, you have to really

take the time to get to know a person

before you start living with them, and bills,

and all of the kinda responsibilities come into it.

I just don't know if you guys really

took the time to get to know each other.

- And Cyril, have you lived on your own as an adult?

Not in college, and not with your parents.

- No, I haven't.

- Okay, so you have not.

- Brittani, how about you?

Have you always lived on your own?

- Yes, mhmm.

- [Areva] So you know what it's like.

- And can I ask, who suggested

that you all move in together?

- Well, he kinda came one night and just stayed.

- Didn't leave, okay.

- I was already in the apartment,

so that's why - No, no, no, no, no.

- [Vivica] Look at him, he's like "oh wait, hold up."

- No, no, no, alright, so,

we never said that I was moving in.

We just said that were just gonna take it slow,

and do this but-- (audience laughs)

- Okay, we got the point.

You moved in, you're not on the lease,

she kicks you out regularly.

- Can I ask Cyril?

Do you see a future with you and Brittani together?

- I do, I do.

I think we can get over all this stuff.

- Brittani.

Do you see a future with you and Cyril together?

- Once we get all the help,

and Jesus come down himself to help us both.

- Oh, amen, alright!