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[KATEY HARVEY] When I first came to GWF last year,

not everyone probably knew who I was.

[ROM] As we arrive now at Women's Wrestling Revolution 5.

The championship that all these female gladiators are going through hell to get.

[VIRGILE] She comes from Ireland.

The Queen of Wrestling: Katey Harvey.

[ROM] Here comes the Queen of Wrestling herself.

Katey Harvey versus Melanie Gray.

Gory Bomb! The queen moves on!

One hell of a road block right here in front of her

is the Legend of Women's Wrestling now in Wesna.

Katey Harvey, Gory Bomb!

And she does it! Katey advances to the finals!

The finals of the Women's Wrestling Revolution tournament...

Katey Harvey...

Versus Alpha Female...

Another shots!

What? Wait, what?!

Harvey kicked out out of those... NO!

She ducks it in!

Roll up!

WHAT???

Harvey has done it!

Harvey has become the queen of this division!

[HARVEY] I beat three of the best wrestlers to

ever step foot on German soil in one night!

[ROM] Wait...

Blue Nikita! What is she doing here?

[BLUE NIKITA] I want a title match!

[VIRGILE] And it is a Number One Contender Match

for the German Wrestling Federation Women's Title.

[ROM] Welcome back, Blue Nikita.

It's been a full year since we saw the daredevil Blue Nikita wrestle here in GWF.

Oh, she was going for, I believe...

Nikita seeked redemption!

[NIKITA] At Revolution 6: Blue Wonder. One, Two, Three

and new No. 1 Contender:

Blue Nikita.

[HARVEY] This is where I started seven years ago

on these very mats learning how to wrestle.

From here I travelled all over Europe.

[NIKITA] When you learned how to throw poor uppercuts

I already held the most important Women's Title in all of Europe.

[HARVEY] I am undefeated in GWF!

I've never had the chance to step in the ring with you.

I need to show everyone what I can do.

[NIKITA] Who made women's wrestling to what it is today?

Right, Blue Nikita.

[HARVEY] When me and you go toe to toe,

I'll walk out champion and I'll walk out with your respect.

[NIKITA] You're saying you will leave the arena as champion?

You know that the only reason that you are GWF Women's Champion in the first place

is because I wasn't in that damn tournament.

[HARVEY] It doesn't matter what I've done in the past.

It doesn't matter what I've done on these mats.

All that matters is that night in Berlin!

[NIKITA] At Revolution 8...

Again, Blue Wonder.

One, Two, Three.

And new and final GWF Women's Champion:

Blue Nikita!

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How Video Games Combat Memory Loss - Duration: 5:30.

I'm not ashamed to admit I've

played many games for a long period of time

and then proceeded to not play said games for an even longer period of time.

And when i finally get an itch to play those games again, more times than not i'm thrown into a

game world where i'm forced to role play a chicken with a distinct lack of a head because i really don't know

what the hell's going on. How do I play this game? Who are these characters? Who am I?

Even what's the story?

Okay, i might be a little ashamed.

All right, so you might be looking at the title of this video and you might be wondering what it even means.

Which is fair because i am really bad at coming up with titles.

I'll put it simply. I and I'm sure many others get back into a game after a Berserk tier hiatus, and just plain jane

forget what's happening in it. Please never leave us again

And there are many methods and ways games handle this so that the game doesn't get dropped like a hot potato with a second left

on the clock so let's take a look at them shall we.

So there are two, count em, two methods that I personally feel are the most commonly implemented ones.

The first one might not be completely obvious but when you hear it you'll go, "oh yeah that makes sense."

Okay, so think of just about every open-world

game and don't get smart with me by arguing that just about every game is an open-world

game if you think about it hard enough.

I'm talking your GTAs, your Norse videogames, your

post-apocalyptic simulators, etc etc. In these games you get some handy-dandy quest markers or whatever you

want to call them, that gives you some direction like a good father figure.

Now that's cool and all but what we're looking at

is what happens when you actually?

Finish the quest. sure to most people playing when you finish a quest they are now out of sight out of mind which duh.

But something else that happens is that these quests get stored somewhere, usually

you'll see it in a section called completed quests or something like that. And this right here is the trail of crumbs that lead

back to the cookie jar where the cookie jar is your fragmented mind that is lost in the world of the video game.

I think, that I think that analogy makes sense

What I'm trying to say, is that this list of completed quests lets you look back at

some of the quest you've done, which will hopefully jog your nog, and kickstart your return to adventure as long as you hit your goal.

get it

kickstarter

And to take it a step farther, some games even

Add some flavor text and talk about the quest and maybe the conclusion of the quest.

Which helps immensely I'm sure. I know the Witcher does this and I'm sure other games do it as well

For the other method if you played a couple of jrpgs, maybe just rpgs of general, in your life, you'll honestly know

What i'm talking about. In fact, you may already kno, what i'm talking about

That's right the journal, not only for teen girls to talk about how

life sucks. Journals are more detailed Wikipedia articles with the added benefit of not being a trap hole

which results in having 10 plus tabs about different wikipedia articles up. Even better, these bad boys can get really

detailed. I'm talking all mechanics explained, all

storylines and plot points

summarized and analyzed, I mean, some games even have a tab that talks about

any and all characters that matter even if it's a tiny bit and by tiny i mean tiny. This character is someone you don't even

talk to unless you're exploring every room in the building.

Honestly, no matter how long the time is between your gaming sessions

The game has some form of journal in it, it's borderline impossible to not figure out

what you're supposed to do. And if you don't, you should probably check to see if you

even played the game to begin with.

A pretty simple one that is just as effective in my opinion, is where the characters in the game let

you know what you need to do. I'm scraping my mind here but the best example of this I can

give you a dragon quest. I can't say all of them for certain but i know nine does it for sure. You can

talk to the characters and in their uhhh

character, they'll tell you what's going on in this story. I can see some issues with this

but for what it is, I see no problems with it. It keeps it immersive and there is at least an attempt to keep you

up to date with the game. Despite this, I don't really see this method used too often.

Speaking of used not too often, the next one isn't used nearly enough and

actually I can only think of a couple instances where it's actually implemented but it's definitely

my favorite and i wish more games did it. In Pokemon leaf green, fire red and Stella Glow,

there's a pretty cool, thing they

do that gives you an idea of what you did before and what you have to go and do. When you load up a previous

save, the game really quickly tells you some important story beats and then throws you into the game For Pokemon, I believe they show

you the last four important things you did in it and Stella Glow tells you the last, big story beat. With

this, they put it right in your face. There's nothing you have to go look for so you would definitely know

what happened last at least. Unless you close your eyes and mash a but at

that point you deserve whatever happens to you. With that said it's really cool. It can be stylish like how

Pokemon does it in black and white and it's stupid seamless. There's no menus to go through so you're put right into the action.

The only kind of problem with it is that if you play the game often it might just be a

teensy bit annoying the scene every time you load a save and

Lord help you if it's in a game where you can

save scum

So there you have it a nice little video about a nice little touch it needs to be in all the games that, allow it

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Hi Jane, my name is Ginger and I'm here to help you facilitate your advance

directive today. Before we start I'd like to go

over this facilitation process form with you.This form kind of lets you know

a little bit about the process of facilitation, why advance directives are important, and

most importantly it lets you know what my role in the process is is going to be.

I'm not a doctor; I can't give you medical advice. I'm not a lawyer; I can't

give you legal advice. My role is just to help you put

your wishes and your wants and your needs for your future health care planning on to

paper. So, if you don't mind could you

give this a review and then sign at the bottom? Okay, great thank you let's start

Let's start, why don't you give me an idea of what your case manager has already

told you about advance directives?

>>Not a whole lot just

that if anything happened to me and I was in the hospital unconscious or something

it would be a way to let people know if I wanted to be on a breathing machine or get

shocked to bring me back or...

>Okay that's a really good place

to start the advance directive form that we're going to fill out today will cover advance

planning for your medical health care, your end-of-life care which is what you were just

talking about, and mental health care.

>>Mental health care?

But I'm not crazy.

>>No, by filling this out you're

not saying that at all the advance directive with instructions

for mental health care goes into effect not only if someone is diagnosed with a mental

illness but also if they sustained a brain injury or if they develop dementia later in

life so it really has a lot of broad applications. So kind of going off of that

let's discuss the idea of capacity really quickly.

Capacity is what next your advance directive go into effect, or rather the lack

of capacity. Capacity just means that you have

the ability to make informed decisions about your own health care.

So, if you are not able to do so that is when your advance directive would

go into a place and be able to speak for you. In medical situations, like you

going into the hospital unconscious, that would be really cut and dry and of course

your advance directive would go into effect because you're not conscious you're not able

to make your own decisions. But in circumstances like if you

were to begin suffering from dementia in 15-20 years then your advance directive might go

in if you reach a place where you no longer lucid enough to make your own decisions.

And to make that distinction to doctors would need to examine you to determine

your capacity and sign off and on the fact that you were incapacitated before your advance

directive would go into effect.

>>So two doctors would have to sign?

>Yes to doctors would have to

sign off on the advance directive for it to go into effect.

Only one doctor would have to sign off on the fact that you have regained your

capacity to turn off the advance directive once when it had been activated.

So, let's just go ahead and let's start filling this out if you don't mind would

you put your legal name right here? Okay, wonderful let's move on

to the first section which is appointing an agent

An agent is the person who you can choose to appoint to make healthcare decisions

for you in the event that you are not able to make them for yourselves have you thought

about anybody that would be good in this role?

>>My mother

>Have you talked to your mother about it at all?

>>No I don't know where my mother lives right now. I haven't gotten in touch

with her in a long time.

>Okay well let's put your mom on the back burner for a second and

just talk about what you might want to look for in an

agent. Good agents know your values,

what it is you would want if you were experiencing any kind of crisis,

and they're easy to reach. so if you don't know your mom's contact information

right now, then she may not be a great agent for you.

if you are able to get her contact information, she is the person in your life

that knows you best and knows what you would want, then yeah she would be a good Agent.�

but for now let's think about other people that you may want to include

that are easily reached and know your values and wishes.

>>Does it have to be a relative or a family member?

>No it doesn't. You can choose friends you can choose significant others

that maybe you're not married to you can choose coworkers any of those as long as they know

you very well would be good agents. >>Could you be my agent?

Unfortunately no given my role and given the fact that I don't know you well

enough to know what you would want in a crisis means that I would not be a good agent.

>>What about my case manager? She knows me.

>Unfortunately most CSBs have policies preventing case managers from acting

as agents so you may want to think about other people that that would be more appropriate

agents like other friends or coworkers.

>>Well I have a friend that knows

me pretty well but she is bipolar.

>That's not necessarily a problem;

just because she has the diagnosis of bipolar disorder doesn't bar her from acting as your

agent as long as she herself has capacity and is lucid at the time that

your advance directive goes into effect she could be a great agent

>>Okay well when I see her maybe I can talk to her about

>Okay that's fine and we can hold off on completing the agent section until

you had a chance to talk to her or talk to your mother about the advance directive self

and about what your wishes are if you do talk to them and it doesn't seem

like either of them would be a good agent for you then you don't have to include an

agent and your advance directive lots of people just let let their

written instructions speak for them. I do believe that for a lot

of people having an agent appointed it's a good way to make sure that their advance directive

is enforced but it's not necessary so if

that's something you don't want to include you don't have to include it.

Also if you speak to your mom and your friend and you want to include both

of them somehow and your advance directive, you can appoint one of them as a primary agent

and one as a successor agent in case the primary agent isn't

able to act as your agent because maybe she's out of town or she herself is ill and

in that event the successor agent would be called and they would start making decisions.

>>Well could I have both of them as my agent?

>We don't really recommend that

you have two primary agents just in case there is a difference in opinion

that could slow down you getting the healthcare that you want if the two of

them battle over making a decision.

>Hey Bonnie

>>Hey Dana. It's good to see you again

>Thanks it's good to see you too. So I know after last time we met

and we talked about picking an agent and stuff.

How did you feel after that session?

>>Well I had to go home and think about it a little bit and I called my sister

Donna and she is happy to do it so I'm excited.

>Excellent so we can fill that in with her.

Did you bring her address and phone number?

>>I did.

>Excellent so we'll fill that in

and did you think about if Donna is not available is there a second person?

>>Oh gosh.

>There doesn't have to be but

>>I think her husband he's a lawyer so it would be good to have my agent be a

lawyer right?

>It doesn't have to be. It more

depends on your relationship with him and do you have a good relationship with him and

do you trust him?

>>I do yeah

>So why don't we put your sister down Donna as your agent and will talk to

her her husband?

>>So do I fill that out here?

>We can do that together. Why don't we go through what we're going to go through

today and before you leave today will pull out the information and fill it in

so now that we've chosen Donna to be the person to make decisions when you

can't now we need to talk about what

sort of decisions you feel okay with her making with for you and if there are any limitations

on that. >>Okay.

>Okay, so we're going to go through

these one by one because each one is important and its own way and you can choose to say

"no, I don't want Donna to have the power to make that decision for me if I can't"

and then we'll talk about what that might do as far as her power goes, okay?

>>Okay. >So the first one is the most

basic one and that's a give consent or refuse any sort of medical treatment

and of course we're always talking about things that you can't can consent or

refuse on your own during a time when you may be

sick or injured and you're not able to make these decisions for yourself

and it's to consent or withdraw consent or say no to any type of healthcare

and it includes things like breathing machines and tube feedings as well as things

that aren't so dire you know all the way up to medications,

surgery and things like that if you're not able to make that decision

>>Okay, those are some big questions. >They're very big questions

and that's a really big part of this section on the powers is to be able

to say yes or no to types of medical treatment. Is there anyone in particular

that makes you a little nervous or you want to talk about or have questions about?

>>Oh I don't know the whole end-of-life decisions are pretty scary so I need to ask

more questions about that maybe later. >Okay and we do get to that

later. This would give your agent Donna the right to make those final decisions when it

came to it but there's another section in

the advance directive where you actually can put down your own wishes

and at that time you can decide if you want Donna to have to follow your wishes

or if you want to give them as guidance and let her make the decision so

you do have options when it comes to that. Okay?

So how about if we leave this one for now as it is and then when we get

to that end of life section and we really start to talk about

those decisions then we can decide where you want Donna to come in

Does that sound okay? >>That sounds good

So, let's go to number 2 and that's to get copies of or be able to see copies

of your medical record talk to your doctor about confidential medical information release

that information like if you have to go see another

doctor to be able to sign the paper so they can release that information so that's the

second power. >>So I don't care if she sees some

of my medical records but others are private like my therapy records and my

psych records. I don't share those with my family.

And I will say that this wouldn't include things like psychotherapy notes like

the notes your therapist takes when they're working with you

This includes more like your medication records your treatment records

Psychotherapy notes are treated very differently from other types of medical

records so if that's what you concerns you it's good to know they are treated differently

>>It does because I talked about her and I don't want her to see it

>Right right and we can put in here that we don't want her to have access

to your therapy notes even though she wouldn't under

the law we can make it very clear that's what you want

so down here where it says additional powers if any we're going to put down that

she does not have access to therapy notes so that makes you feel okay about

number two? Number three is to employ ore

discharge your health care providers- hire and fire your doctors and

that comes into play a lot of times if you need a second opinion and she

is to find another doctor to get a second opinion

before she makes her decision about something

firing a doctor might be an instance of he doesn't want to follow your wishes

and as your agent she can say, "Well, if you're not going to follow Bonnie's

wishes then I'm going to have to find another doctor."

>>I like that. okay good

>Number four is to say it's okay to admit you to a hospital or hospice or nursing

home or assisted living facility, basically any facility other

than a mental health facility because that's treated differently

So if you're in a situation where you can't make your own decision and you need

to make your own and you need to go to hospital to go for medical treatment

then it would be okay for your sister to go to the hospital and sign those

paper at registration you know how you have to sign

papers when go you to a hospital or if something were to happen you go to hospital and then

you go to a rehab center then she would be able to you know

sign you into that as well only as for as long as you aren't able to make those decisions

for yourself >>But what if I think we're going

to talk through all of this and it sounds like we'll talk about this later but what

if she makes decisions for me but I would not have made

>Well it's important that you choose somebody you think will follow your instructions

Donna would be required under the law to follow any instructions you that

you put in your advance directive if you think there's a chance

she wouldn't then that would be something you would want to talk to her about

and make sure that she understood that would be what if there would be expected

of her and it would be important that

things that are really important to you are put down in writing so that she has to follow

it. >>Okay okay

>Does that help? >>Yeah

>>So that's you really have to keep an open line of communication with Donna

to really make sure she makes she knows what her role is in this

>>She just has been through a lot of medical things herself and she has some

really strong opinions and sometimes her opinions are different from mine

She'll do what I ask her if I tell her

> Alot of times family members will they just need to know and

that's why it helps to put it in writing because then it's unambiguous and

everybody knows what you want. >>Okay

>Good Now, Number 5 remember how we

said that mental health facilities are treated differently

so number five is where we talk about mental health facilities

So if you're in a situation where you're not able to make your own decisions

and Donna thinks that you need to

go to a mental health facility and you're not able to sign yourself

then this would give her the authority to do that on your behalf

>>I don't want to go to a mental health facility I don't want to go to the

state hospital. Do I have to give her this power?

>No, none of these powers are obligatory none of them are required that's why we're

going through them so you can choose so with this power you kind of

have three options: one is that you don't give her the power at all and we cross it out

>>That sounds good. >Let me just tell you the other

two just so you know and the other power the other

option is you can say well Donna can do that she can take

me to a mental health facility and sign me in

as long as I'm not objecting to it and the third one is even if I'm objecting

I want her to be able to sign me in >> But what happens if she if she

just gets angry at me because of my behavior and she wants to sign me in?

> And that's a common fear that people have so what the law has done

What the legislators have done is they have put some protections in there

for us and it says that you have to be diagnosed with a mental illness,

a doctor has to decide that yes you do you would benefit from inpatient treatment,

a hospital has to be willing to accept you meaning that yes they agreed

you need inpatient treatment and it can only be for 10 days

>>So she is not in charge she can't just check me in they have to think that I

need to be checked in >That's correct

>> I need to think about that one some more

> and I know that's a very big decision so think about that one

>> and we can talk about it next time we get together

> Number 6 is allows Donna to continue being your agent once you get to the point

where you lose capacity to make your own decisions. Remember the last time we talked

about capacity the ability to make your own decisions?

So, if you are sick and you're injured and you need to make your own decisions

number 6 power says Donna can still be in charge

if I'm not able to make my own decisions and I'm saying I don't want her to be my agent

anymore.

>> These are really hard questions

> They are very hard questions >> And it's hard to think about these things

like for the future.

> I know I know, so let's talk about

> What that would look like and you don't have to make your decision

today but let's talk about what that would look like

Let's say you get into an auto accident and you hit your head okay and you

got a bruise on your brain and not making a lot of sense you're

talking about things that don't make sense. You're obviously not able to

make your own decisions. Donna walks into the room and

starts talking to the doctor and you say you don't know this

person, you've never seen her before and you want her to leave and not

make decisions for you. With this number 6 power in place

she would still be able to make decisions for you

until that bruise on your brain went away and you were able to make your decisions

again. Without that power it could be

that she could not be able to make those decisions for you

>> Who would make those decisions then?

> Well if you had a successor agent then that person would come in but what if

you said the same thing about him? And then it would go through

legally who might make those decisions for you

And I don't know if you remember the training but if we don't have one of these

in Virginia what happens is that the law looks that your family

>> I remember. > You remember

>> I don't have a lot of control over that

> So when we talked about that since you're not married, you don't have any

adult children, it would fall to your parents

and I know that was a real concern for you. >> Right yeah okay

This one's a little scary too I think I want to give this to her but I'm

not positive. >Well I want you to think about

it because I don't want you to do anything spur-of-the-moment think about it

and we can talk about it again the next time we're together

>>Alright. >You know what I better start

of the ones we need to talk about again because >>That's a good idea

>The first one was the end of life

The mental health facility and number 6 okay

>> Gosh it feels like I'm not ready to answer anything

>Well I'd rather have you do that then give an answer you're not sure about

We can meet as many times as you need to

Number seven and number eight are kind of similar so we're going to do those

together. One they are both about healthcare

research, medication trials, drug trials

experimental treatment. One deals with if you are doing

experimental treatment and the doctor says I think this might help

and the other is well it's not going to be a cure for Bonnie

but we're studying whatever it is we're and we'd really like some information

for our research purposes. >>Kind of like a guinea pig?

>Kind of like a guinea pig yeah. >>So I don't really want to be

a guinea pig for no reason at all but I don't mind having research if it might help me

So maybe yes Can I split those up?

>Yes you can So will say yes if there's a

prospect or chance it may help you will say yes to that one and no to the one that's just

for scientific purposes. >>Wait but that might help someone

else right? >>It might. Any medication that

has been put on the market has gone through this process

but it's done on people agree to have it done and it's a there's no right

or wrong answer it's just what you feel most comfortable with

>>But they wouldn't do research on me that would hurt me right?

>Not if they knew it would hurt you and they have to go through an approval

process and stuff like that to get to the point to experiment on people

>>I like to help people. I will say yes to both

> Okay and if you ever change your mind again we're going to meet again so you

can change your mind at any time. >>You make this easy

>Oh good! That's my job. Just a couple of more to go

Number 9 is to make decisions about visitation if you're in a hospital setting

it would be able to say who can come see you and who can't

There's a couple of options here you can cross out that power and visitation

is more open and anyone could come visit you or if you think there is anybody

in your life that you wouldn't want to come visit and you want Donna to kind of step in

and keep that from happening then we can give her that power

>>So I've been to the hospital before for psychiatric reasons and

I hope that I never have to go again but if I do there's people that I don't

want to know that I'm there but if I'm there because I was

in a car accident and I got a bruise on my brain I want them to come visit me so can

we separate that out? >We can and there's another part

of the document where we can actually put that in writing

That if you're in a medical facility for a medical purpose you want to open visitation

but if you're in a psychiatric facility these are the people that you would want or would

not want to come we can put that in writing

So would you like to give Donna the authority over that to make sure that

happens? >>Yeah I want to make sure that

happens >And number 10 is sort of a catch-all

and it says that Donna can take any

legal action to make sure these things occur and how that comes into play

is that she can make decisions for you by number one

but number 10 says she can actually can sign theconsent form that allows that

to happen >>So I kind of need to say number

10 to make number one work? Okay number 10 is fine

>Okay that is what I thought and then under additional Powers

were going to put down the instruction about no access to therapy notes

>>Right >as a limitation

>>Thanks for remembering because I forgot already

>That is what I'm here for.

>All right Susie so we have talked

a lot about the powers you have chosen to give to Matt your agent

or a couple of them you chose not to.

This is a power that's a little bit different.

Let me preface it with saying in Virginia you can give Matt and you chose

to give Matt the power to hospitalize you for up to 10 days.

In Virginia you can at some point even though you've given him that power object

to it and the state has to follow your

objection, even though you've given your

agent the power so some people know themselves

when they're not doing well that they sometimes object to

things that they really want anyway so if you have an opportunity

we call this the Ulysses Clause. I'm not going to get into why

we call it the Ulysses Clause unless you want me to; its sort of off topic.

It's the option for your agent to do a couple of things even over your objection

and those couple of things you can choose one you can choose

the other or you can choose both. Those couple of things are treat

you over your objection or hospitalize you over your objection.

Can you think of why you might want that?

Some people I know know themselves they seen themselves

when they're not doing well before and they may want something but

they start getting really anxious about it or really not trusting people about it

So they say no even though if they were doing okay they would want that

treatment. And so this is written into

Virginia advance directives to give you the option

of whether if you know yourself well enough that you would say no

even though you want it do you want to give someone the power to treat you

even though you said no. >>It's a really big question

>Its a really big question >>Yeah, I'm just

I'm just not quite sure about it

Cuz you know I just don't want to go into the hospital

no matter what that's like my thing I just

I'm over it I don't want to go to the hospital

>Okay maybe we need to go back to the powers you gave your agent

because you said your agent can hospitalize you for up to 10 days

>>Yeah but like you said that's if I say no he can't right?

If you say no he can't but if you've been make the meet

the criteria to be hospitalized you have to go through the TDO

process and be committed so that can be kinda traumatic

So this is a way to help sort of avoid that traumatic experience for some

people. >>I guess it's something to think

about then but yeah I think I'll just have to

think about it. >It's definitely something I don't

want you to answer today. It's definitely something I want

you to go home and talk to some people who have seen you when you're not doing well

maybe and can hear from them their experience of you

and think back in your own experience what it was like if you have that

>>I have >and talk about it a little bit

with people you trust and we can readdress it next

week. There's two questions so you

can say yes to one or yes to both or yes to the other.

One question is do you want your agent to have the power to authorize treatment

even over your objection and do you want your agent to

have the power to authorize hospitalization even over your objection

>>Right Yeah it makes sense I think I

think I would be okay was treatment over my objection

but I would have to think about the hospitalization a little bit more.

What I'm seeing here on this is what's this box for?

That's a great question, so we talked a little and the

beginning how you can just write your advance directive

You don't have anyone nobody has to tell you your sane

or you're well enough to write it. anyone can write an advance directive

your presumed sane in the state of Virginia. And this still presumes you

know what you're talking about but those two questions are such big questions

do you want to be treated or hospitalized over your objection that the

state wants to make sure you understand the implications of your decision.

So this box if you answer yes to either one of those two this box you need

to get a signature from a physician or a licensed clinical psychologist

that says you understand the implications of your decision.

it doesn't have to say you're healthy or not healthy

you just understand the implications of those decisions you made.

and we can talk about that next week you wanna get back together next week

and talk about your decision on these two questions.

and then if you choose yes we can talk about

who you are thinking would be good to have that signed.

Maybe your psychiatrist or your therapist?

>>Now I'm going to go see my dentist and the next couple weeks

If I want to do this can I get him to sign it?

>Well your dentist is a physician. Maybe

Is your dentist a physician? Okay ask me the

question again. >I think you can go around that

by saying your dentist can can give you

some forms of health care treatment but they aren't the best because

Okay ask me the question again. >>Now I'm going to go see my

dentist in the next couple weeks so should I just get him to sign off on it cuz I'm already

going. >Well your dentist does some treatment

for you some medical treatment for you some dental treatment for you

but this is really better to have a physician who understands these questions

and the implications of them and understands

your your thought processes >>Right okay well I guess that

makes sense. So I could get it done here?

I could get it done at the CSB

>Sure you see your provider is at the CSB so that would be great.

Next time we meet if you decide to check either one of those or both of those

we can make sure that the next step is as good for your provider at the CSB.

You don't even need an appointment I'm sure they can just sit down with you for

2 minutes and sign it. >>And its just this thing? They

don't have to go through the whole form?>They don't have to see the whole

form at all at some point you may choose to file this form with the CSB

but there's no requirement that the person who fills this out and signs it

sees the form. They are just addressing those

two questions particularly. >>Well I have to think about the

hospitalization piece but we talk about that one before I come back

Great, I'm glad you're putting some thought into it instead of just making

a snap decision. Cool

>Okay Michael, so we are done with the agent portion of the advance directive

and we're going to move on to healthcare preferences and instructions

and this is where you can write down

what it is that exactly that you would want in terms of your medical health

care in terms of your mental health

care in terms of your end-of-life care that would inform the doctors

and your agent because you decided to appoint

an agent after all so the first part of that is

going to be current healthcare conditions and treatments

Do you have any physical or mental health diagnoses that we should be aware of?

>>Yeah well I have diabetes and I have high blood pressure

And my doctor told me I have bipolar disorder too

>Okay so we'll make sure to include that

and are there symptoms that usually arise around the time that

you're getting more sick with any of these that we should put down so people

can be aware. >>I get kind of faint when my blood

sugar gets low. I don't really like to be around

people when I start to get depressed I kinda like pull away

>Okay So we'll make a note of that

so when your agent or somebody sees this they know that that's maybe when they should start

intervening. Now as far as medications go

do you have any idea what all the medications and dosage that you're currently

taking are? >>Well, I brought a list I think

this is the most up-to-date one. It changes a lot my doctor change

my medications a lot. >Well if that's the case where

are you have kind of a frequently changing medications

the best thing to do or a good option for you

maybe to not necessarily write it directly on the advance directive

but to have another list of your medications and dosages

as an appendix because otherwise every time you change your medications

you need to come into every version of your advance directive

that anybody has on file and make sure that information has changed

so everybody has the best most up-to-date version of the advance directive.

so that could be something for you to consider

You don't have to decide right now

You can decide to fill it out the advance directive later if you think that

it's important you include that information directly on there

Now other important information regarding medications do you have any that

you are allergic to? >>Any medications that I'm allergic

to? >Yeah

>>No sometimes I don't feel well with some of them

but I have other allergies. Do they need to be on here if

they're not medications? >It's a good idea to put them

on there even if they aren't medications just so your doctors can be aware

>>I'm really allergic to peanuts and if I get stung by bees I could die

so I'm really allergic to both of those

>So we'll make sure your doctors are aware of that

Now, are there any medications that give you side effects that you're not

okay with? >>I can't remember the names of

them but there are side effects that

I don't like to have, like sometimes these medications

make me feel kind of like a zombie and I don't like that at all.

And and I also you know I got a girlfriend

and sometimes the medications they don't let you know so medications that

do that I don't want that either >And that is the case with a lot

of medications used to treat bipolar and that kind of thing

So since you don't remember what medications those are right now

I think it might be a good idea for you to next time you talk to your doctor

see if he can flip back in your medical history and

make and give you a list of which ones those were

that you reported those negative side effects

with so we can put those on there as well as the side effects they

cause so the doctors know why it is you don't want them

not just that you don't want them

>>That would be great >Okay

>So Dana now that we talked about your current health conditions

and your current treatments and allergies and things like that

We also have the opportunity to authorize different groups of people to know

about your treatment in case you get sick in the future

in case you're hospitalized we can let

other people know and you can authorize that right here

One thing that people like to do is to include their primary care physician

which might be a good idea because they kind of have a central location

if they find out about you being hospitalized or you not doing so well they

have information they can send out to other people

other relevant people. So do you want to add your primary

care physician here to let him or her know if you gone help downhill a little bit

>>Sure, do you need address and phone number?

>Yeah, a name and phone number would be great if you have that

>>I have a card >You have a card? perfect

>>Yeah >And this is your primary care

physician, correct? >>Yes

>K great. >>Can you believe his name is Doctor

Hurt? >>That is something else isn't

it. Well we also have the chance

over here to add another treatment provider, not just your primary care physician

but someone else if you like someone else that is one of your doctors

in case you think they need to know if you're hospitalized or if you get

sick. Is there anyone else, any other

provider you think would be good to put here? >>Well I had a heart transplant

5 years ago so I really make sure my cardiologist knows everything

>I think that's a great idea to put your cardiologist down

because it is pretty serious and we'd want to let your doctor know if you're

having any other treatment done. Do you have your cardiologist's

information here? >>I just took the card out of my

wallet this morning and put it on the refrigerator so I wouldn't forget my appointment

so I'll have to get it for you >We can do that at a later time

but let's make sure to put that down that seems pretty important

any other treatment providers, any other doctors you have, a psychiatrist

or psychologist that you want to add to this? >>Yeah I have a psychiatrist I

only see him every 6 months I see my therapist every week so that might be better

>Yeah, it sounds like maybe your therapist would be a good person to add to

the to this list. Do you have that information

with you or do you want to punt that to next week?

I'll have all that information with me when I come back next week

and will add both of those your cardiologist and your therapist right here

so not only can we authorize these providers to receive information about

your hospitalization or any sickness that you have

but we can also add other people too

Anyone close to you that you may want to add to let know if you're not

doing so well? Can you think of any other people

in your life that maybe aren't a doctor but

someone important that they find out if you're not doing well?

>>Well I want my boyfriend to know I want him to know

and I guess my boss because I don't want to lose my job if I'm in the hospital

Let's tackle those one at a time. So, you would like your boyfriend

to know if you have any sort of hospitalization? Mental health or medical and

just kind of be aware of that >>Okay

Well no he doesn't know he knows about my heart and everything but he doesn't

know about the mental health. >Is that something you want to

keep from him or is that something you want to let him

>>Well for right now we haven't been dating that long so I don't want him

to think I'm crazy or anything so I just haven't told him

>Well we can make that happen if you like we can make a little note here

that we'd like for your boyfriend can

be informed if anything goes downhill as it relates to medical care

but if you don't want him to know if anything if you get sick with mental

health issues then we can add a note here to

not be contacted the situation. >>I think that's a good idea for

now until we get to know each other. >And again we can change this

in the future so if you get to the point where

you feel comfortable with that then we can add him to know about both

Do you want to put his information down now or later?

>>Well I can give you his name but his contact information is in my phone

I don't have it memorized. >Got it so we will add him when

we do the two other treatment providers we talked about

and then you said your boss the second one you mentioned

That sounds great just to let your boss know when you're not available

I'm curious to know is just to verify your boss is someone

you do want to be aware if you are sick both medically or mentally

if you're hospitalized you want your boss to know both of those is that correct?

>>Well I don't want to lose my job so I feel like he has to be told something

I don't want to just not show up for work

>But do you want him to be aware of why exactly that is why you're not at work

or do you just want and to be aware

that that you're not at work for some sort of health reason?

>>Yeah I mean he doesn't have to know everything just that I'm not coming to

work >Well I think we can add that

in the same way that we kinda made a note about

your boyfriend we can make a note about your boss too

that your boss should be contacted without many details given

so if you want to hold back some information

just let him know that your boss know that you will not be in

we can do that but leaving out these other details if you feel more comfortable

with that. >>Who would call him though?

>Your agent is the person we would hope to call

and if there's actually someone else you'd rather have call your boss for

you we can add that in as well, we can add them in as a contact

person to be contacted if you get sick and then make a note that that person should call

your boss. How would you like to navigate

that? >>I'm okay if my mom calls

>Is your mom your agent? So she'll already get the information

Anyone else you can think of that you want to have notified if you get

sick? >>Well, my friend Linda and then Becky

at work she's really worried about me and my cousin Melissa

but if Melissa gets call then somebody needs to call Shelly

because she'll feel really bad if she doesn't get a phone call

so it seems like you have a lot of people that you like to keep to be aware

if you're not a doing so well. Is your mom your agent is she

may be a good person who would know all of those people

and we could get her to make those calls rather than relying on the doctors

who are pretty busy in the hospital to make the call for you

>>Mom could do that Mom could do that

>I think that would be good if we had your mom do that

just because we want to have the doctor's place the fewest calls and then

from your mom as an agent

just calling other people like Linda and Shelly and those people

>>Okay we can do that >Okay I think that's all proceed great

>In this next section is going

to cover medication preferences and refusals. So here is where you can let your

doctors and your loved ones know if you're having a crisis which

medications you would prefer be tried first and which medications you refuse

outright. So let's start with medications

that work especially well for you when you're having any kind of

crisis or illness. >>Well you know I have anxiety

attacks and when I get this anxious feeling

sometimes if I smoke a little weed it really helps it calms me down

makes my anxiety go away

Can I include that on there as a medication?

>>Well here is where the options in your advance directives meet reality

You have the right to include that if you feel very strongly about

that. You can write that down in your

advance directive but the thing is that medical

marijuana isn't legal in the state of Virginia so your doctor's wouldn't be inclined to follow

that instruction. So you can choose to include

it but most likely it would not be followed. So are there any other medications

here any other medications you would prefer be tried first that you want to include?

>>In the past sometimes they've given me Valium

and if I just take a little bit of that it as long as they don't put me on

it too long I feel okay and it helps some okay

>Alright so how about medications that you would not want to be administered

for any reason? >>Thorazine. I really really don't

like Thorazine.I've taken it in the past and I really don't like what it does to me

>So, what are the side effects that you don't like?

It makes me feel like a zombie. I just wonder if I refuse on

the form if I say I don't ever want to take Thorazine does that mean that they can't ever

give it to me? >Well, here is the difference between

medication preferences and refusals. As we were saying before the first

category of medications we were talking about those are medication preferences

Those are what you want to be tried first during a crisis

Those are are not legally binding they're just to guide your treatment and to

inform your doctor about what works best for you

so your treatment goes more efficiently but medication refusals are legally

binding so the only way that if you refuse a medication such

as Thorazine in your case that a doctor could administer it

would be if there's an absolute emergency

you had to be given a medication in that category and

Thorazine was the only one available to them

>>Okay so that means there is a possibility they would give me Thorazine

>There is a possibility but in my experience working with people

Most of them have said that there are usually more than one medications

available to the physicians at the hospital

>Okay Dana so we will kind of get to this next part

and this one is called mental health crisis intervention because it kind

of covers a couple of different areas of information that will give your

doctors or your agent important information

to know about what helps you when you're in crisis,

what doesn't help you when you're in crisis

so they can make good decisions for you

so does that sound do you have any questions?

>>No >Well we'll kind of get started

>We'll work through it like we have the other sections

The first bit here is kind of talking about stuff from the past

what you know about how you are when you're in crisis

so first there are symptoms. It asks about symptoms you might

experience during a period of crisis so things you think or how you

behave maybe people have mentioned stuff to you about how

you seem different when you're in crisis

>>When I'm in a crisis? You mean when I'm not feeling

good? >Yeah

People tell me I well I don't like being around people

when I don't feel good and people tell me I do things with

my hands. I play with my hair and

I just like being at home >Well those are good things to

put down those are kind of good description. You're shying away from people

kind of busy with your hands playing with your hair all that

Is there anything else that you notice about yourself when things are getting

worse and you're not feeling good? >>Well, I definitely don't like

taking my medicine when I don't feel good because I feel like it makes

me feel worse >Well, we can put that down here

too and then people know and that's why you're going to

say no to your medications but they'll kind of know that's a sign actually that they need

to get some help for you. Are there any things that people

can do or that you do for yourself that help you feel better when you're feeling bad like

that? >>Well, the only thing that really

helps me is my dog Baxter >Yeah?

>>Baxter really understands me and he's better than medicine

or a therapist or anything >So, then we can put that down

spending time with Baxter. We'll put down that he's your dog

so people know who he is and they'll know that something

that can help you when you are >>Do you have a dog?

>I don't have a dog but I know a lot of people who have dogs they really

like when they are feeling down they

can be really helpful so we'll put that down and then

they'll know about that and they might be able to help

get a hold of Baxter and >>Well, you know if I'm really bad

then I'll probably be in the hospital and no hospital has ever let

Baxter visit. >You're right about that the hospitals

usually have some sort of rules that don't let animals

that hey don't know on the grounds but a lot of hospitals to have

pet therapy type programs so still having that information

down would you be interested in maybe a temporary dog friend

There might be one that is allowed to come in each week and you could spend some

time visiting maybe so it would still be good information

to have down >>Yeah, if I can't have Baxter

but I don't want a cat >Okay we can make that clear

>>Or ferrets >I wonder if they would have any

ferrets at a hospital. Not sure but we'll put down about

dogs for sure about that that you would be interested in maybe a pet therapy dog

>>Okay >Are there anything so those are

things that are helpful is there anything that makes

it worse for you anything that people try to do when you're not doing

so well? When you're having a bad day or you're in the hospital that actually

makes it worse though >>I hate it when people sound like

Hallmark greeting cards or something you know >>Yeah

>Smile is just a frown turned upside down you know

Look on the bright side of life you know

That's not real that's you know that doesn't help

and on the other side I really

don't like people up in my face and yelling at me and telling

me what to do and that happened to me at a hospital

one time and

and I didn't want to go to group and

they just kept telling me getting in my face telling me I have to go to group

and then I just went off and then

I ended up in the restraint chair and that certainly didn't help

me calm down any so you know so getting up in my

face and yelling at me, telling me what to do I don't like

that you know I'm a grown up and they

don't have to yell at me like a kid. I'm a grown up you can talk to

me like that >Yeah, that makes a lot of sense

not being talked down to like a kid being respected like a grown up

So we'll put all of that down we'll put down about not any of those cheery

Hallmark phrases but also not being pushy and

talking down to you like you're a kid and that will let them know what

sort of tone works best, what's helpful to you when you're in crisis

>>You would think that these people go to school forever

They would kind of know that already but they don't

You know they have all of these letters after their names and everything and

it's like just common sense >It can be frustrating I know

I've definitely worked with people and but people have different

things they like so that's part of what makes this so helpful is

as far as getting it down just so that it's clear as day for them hopefully

>>Okay >Anything else for that section?

>>Well you know I don't really that Hospital

you know it was General Hospital and

you know I went in the restraint chair more than once and I I just don't want

them to do that again >Well then maybe what the next

section will be could be good to talk about that because this next part is actually about

crisis units or hospitals or facilities or places that you

might end up when you're having a crisis so you can put down ones that

you prefer to go to and then we can also put ones that you prefer not to go to.

So, we'll put down General Hospital as one you prefer not to go to

Does that sound good? >>Yeah I definitely don't want

to go there >And then there is sort of even

a spot to explain why so you had a bad experience

Is there anything else you want to kind of explain about why you don't want

to go to General Hospital? >>Well they're mean and they treat

patients like kids and they love their their restraint

chairs I mean they just love them and you know

that doesn't help me at all >Okay so really not a good fit

for you with the restraint chair for sure and then the way they kind of

treated you so we can put that down here as to why

Are there any places that you would like to go

or that you're at least more comfortable about going to if you need it?

>>I went to Sloan Grey once and it was okay

>Okay so is it okay to put that down as a place you would prefer to go to

if needed? >>Well, I went there for my gallbladder

I don't know if they have psychiatric or not but if I had to go back to a hospital

well not for my gallbladder because I don't have it anymore

if for something else I would like to go there

>So maybe before we put it down because this is kind of about help mental

health care it'll be good we'll check out

to see if they have a psych unit before we put it down but maybe

that will be something we can put in that one as a place you prefer to go

Okay so we'll keep that in mind and we have General Hospital

down as a place you prefer not to go >>Does that mean I'll never have

to go back there again? Well this section kind of works

like the last one about medications where there's preferences

which are things that are going to kind of guide the doctors

or the case managers or whoever's helping you get treatment but it doesn't bind

them. The fact is none of us really

have control when there is a bed available at different locations but this

information does at least tell them don't

try General Hospital first. Try some other places first and

make that a last resort kind of option so you know there's the possibility

that there wouldn't be a bed anywhere else but at least they won't try General

Hospital until that's the only option left >>Okay

>Okay So now in this last bit

Sorry there's one more bit here about what staff can do to help you when when

you're in crisis. We talked about things that are

not helpful. Is there anything in particular

that they can do that are helpful when you're having a bad day?

>>Leave me alone just leave me alone

and if they let me go to my room or go outside that's good

I like music but they won't let me have my iPod

if I could have my iPod then I could listen to my music and that really

helps and I love crossword puzzles but

most of them don't have crossword puzzles around

They just have a old magazines. >It's still good details to put

down though because if they do then they can make them available for you

or maybe if you do end up somewhere where you're allowed to have your iPod

for some time each day or something like that then they know

and they can bring it so we'll put it down about being left alone

and either going to your room or being outside

having time to yourself and then music and crosswords

>>Okay >And so now this last section

is about behavioral emergency interventions, so that includes things like

medications in pill or liquid form or injections

but also things like restraint or seclusion

and this is sort of when things are really bad in crisis in a crisis moment

and the section has a listed here so that you can

kind of rank them in order of 1 to 4

and that's to kind of say which one if they had to happen

which one would you prefer over another

>>Well I don't want any of that and

I won't get in the crisis if they just you know leave me alone and stay out

of my face you know

That's the only time that I go off

>Okay so hopefully with some of the information

we put down that will help make that not even happen

but the thing is and you don't have to feel this section out

just like other any of the other sections

but it's one of those that it's kind of good to think about

filling out because a lot of hospitals you know have some sort of procedure

in place for crises and emergencies and so they might they are set up to do one

of these things so hopefully it doesn't happen

but if it did it's kind of nice to be able to have that information for them

>>You know if they offered me medication and

said it might help close call me down

then I would probably take it but they don't

you know they say you know you have to take this

and if you don't we're going to to stick it up your butt or

we're going to put your in the restraint chair and then that doesn't work

then I just like you know whatever > Okay so what we'll do is for this

one that says medication in pill or liquid form we can put that as one

and we can kind of even include a little bit that says if it's offered as

something to help calm down instead of forced on me

>>Yeah [>Okay

and we can make it more specific like that

What about some of the others I know you mentioned that at General Hospital

you were in the restraint chairna lot and that was not a good fit for you it

didn't sound like so would that maybe be sort of

the last resort if you had to number them in order

>>Oh yeah but I don't like the shot either

but I guess restraint is worse than the shot

>Okay and you don't even have to do all one, two, three and four

if you don't want if you just wanted to do clearly one and clearly four

>>What is seclusion? >Seclusion in when they kind of

put you in a room alone and it's usually the door is locked or something though

>>Oh no no no no no. I don't want that I'll go to

my room and be by myself and calm down but I don't want the door locked.

>Okay so we can kind of put that down as something that would be okay

with the specific instruction of if I'm allowed to be in my room with the

door unlocked, not a locked door kind of situation >Yeah I don't like the door locked

so we can kind of make that a little more clear so that we can say

Seclusion would be okay in the sense of time alone in my room

>>Okay >And there's this space here and

We can always add more about why you put them in the order that you did

that is where we will get all those details down so they understand why

you put them in the order you did. There's also a spot here that

you can kind of check off about having had a about having had a traumatic experience

in the past and that's why it's really stressful

and not a good fit at all for you to be in one of these sort of situations

so I'm wondering would it be important to check that off for you?

>> Well I don't like seclusion because my mom used to lock me in my bedroom when

I was bad and I was bad a lot

and I don't like to hear the door lock

and General Hospital when they put me in restraint it was really awful I

don't ever want to do that again. >Okay so we can check that off

and that will give them a heads up that there's some really important reasons

why it's not just that you don't like it

but it's there some really stressful and inappropriate sort of things that happened

for you if you're put in those situations

and that will hopefully help them to make sure they don't use that unless it's absolutely

necessary. >>Okay.

>Okay

>Okay great Heather the next section

it's just talking about sort of general health care instructions

besides the mental health care instructions

The first question is really broad its in general do you have any other

healthcare situations or conditions or allergies some

people have some food preferences that really impact them

>>Yeah, I'm allergic to bee stings >Okay I'll put that in there I

think we put that in there earlier but it's good to have it here

too >>And then I have a condition I

take something for it every day. It has to do with my thyroid.

>Oh okay

>>I can't remember what it's called

>I'm going to write down just thyroid

>> Okay > And elsewhere in the medication

piece I think you put down your thyroid medication >>Yes

>So I'll make sure they're aware of the thyroid piece too

Anything else just general medical information

people need to know about if you are in a situation where

you're unable to take care of your medical needs

yourself is there anything else people need to know?

>>Can I put down about a hospital that I like before only for medical hospital

>Sure >>Because I went to one one time

for something and they were really nice there

so if I could go there if I needed to go to a hospital

I'd like to go there again. >Great, which hospital was that?

>>Sloan Grey.

>Can you tell me what was good

about that hospital? >>They were just really nice

The nurses and everybody they talked to me

and they told me what was going on which made me feel better because I didn't

know what was going on and that was scary so I just

thought that they did a good job of talking with me

instead of just telling me to do this or do that

>You know I don't think we touched on that earlier

Let's put down here that things that help you are people that tell you what's

going on. >>Yeah

>So you have some insight into what's happening

>>Okay that would be helpful yeah >Great sounds good

>>Thanks. >Anything else in the general

health care instructions? >>I don't think so

>Okay. The next piece is visitation

You get to decide who can come visit you when you're in the hospital and

who can't and some ways this is a good

piece because there may be people who

[like my agent doesn't like my best friend

so I want to make sure my best friend is allowed to come

so this might be a good place to put down things like that

>>I want to put down my best friend too

>Does your best friend have a name? >>It's Claire Jones

She's great. I want her around when I'm if

I'm not doing good and then

I should probably put down my girlfriend too

That's Samantha Hotchkins. >I think that's an important one

too. Anyone else see when I give permission

to, specifically give permission to? >>Should I tell you like all of my

cousins names? I have a lot of cousins and they

could all visit me and that would be fun my aunts and

my uncles >We could just get like a phone

book and put it in. It might be more appropriate

to just list the people that people

might not think of or that it might be kind of controversial to have them there

>>Okay, then probably my friend and my

girlfriend covers it those would be the ones that I want to make sure

>And the second question is you don't give permission to certain people

There may be somebody you don't want to have there

>>One of my cousins actually I don't want him to be there because he doesn't like

my girlfriend and and is a real jerk so I don't

want him to be in the hospital > It would be a stressful to have

someone visit you when they're a jerk >>So, I really don't want Terry

to be there. >Great, how do you spell Terry?

>>T E R R Y >What's his last name?

>>Hughes H U G H E S

>Okay, is there anyone else you don't

want to visit you? >>No, I get along with everybody

else besides Terry. >Okay great

I know when I was in the hospital, it's been awhile since I've been

there thank goodness, but when I was in the hospital

someone came and they brought flowers. They were so nice they were

from my church and I was so annoyed and irritated

by the whole thing but they thought they were being

nice so I actually put in mine that

I don't want anybody for my church to visit because it was just too stressful

for me there might be a category of people or

>>I didn't really think about that I was just thinking of family

I guess I wouldn't no I wouldn't want people from

work coming by. I mean it would be nice but I

would be embarrassed and stuff and I don't want them to come

when I'm in the hospital. >Alright, let's put that people

from your job. Where do you work?

>>I work at the ABC packaging company >Alright

Cool, so the next question is about

ECT or electroconvulsive therapy. Do you know what that is?

>>I think so. >Yeah some people call it shock

therapy. >>Yeah, that's what I was thinking of

>So you get two options here in

your advance directive: one is that you don't consent

to ever no matter what or that you authorize your agent

to make that decision for you at the time. >>Do I have to get it?

>You don't have to get it. You can say you never want it

or you can give that authorization to your agent who you know

its like usually a second or third line treatment if other things aren't

working and your agent might say I really

want to try this even if you authorize your agent

[during the time your advance directive is active

if you change your mind you're allowed to say no I changed my mind

I don't want it then they won't be able to give it to you.

>> Snd then that doesn't mean my agent�

>>Would my my agent talk to my doctor or would my agent just decide?

>Iif you choose that option then I think you and your agent need to have a

really good heart to heart talk about what ECT means to you and

what kind of treatments are helpful to you and what any concerns or fears

you might have about it and then if you check that

should you be in the hospital and the situation arises

that it's one of the treatment options presented to your agent if you check

this your agent then has to decide yes or no

>>Okay. I mean it looks scary but I know

they've talked about it for me before and I didn't have it

but it sounded like it might be something that I shouldn't say no to

so I'm going authorize my agent and then I'll talk to her about it

>Okay. I heard one thing in what you

just said I shouldn't say no and I want to make sure that's a shouldn't

from within you. Its like oh yeah I think that's

probably a good idea I don't want to say no and not a shouldn't that somebody

else is putting down on you. You shouldn't say no to that

I just heard that in your language

>>Yeah no. When they told me about it before

and they said if things got bad enough it might work for me

and so it would be something that I could consider

and think about and so I don't want to say no

I don't want to say no no no and not consent

so I'd rather leave that open for my agent to decide

>That sounds great. We're moving right through here

We're just about done. So the next section is just

on general life management instructions like some things that come up

are when you're going to be away

from home for a while sometimes it's nice to have someone

taking your mail so it doesn't look like you're gone

or you might have a dog or plants that need to be watered or the dog need to

be watered or walked. Maybe he can go to someone else's

house I don't know. Lots of things that you might

want to have just taken care of for you while you're

away. Some of those questions have

already come up if you've done a WRAP in your WRAP crisis plan.

Have you done a Wrap? >>I did yeah I did I answered all

those questions about that kind of stuff before. >Great, do you have a copy of that?

You don't have to have it with you but do you have a copy of that somewhere?

>>Yeah >Good yeah before we finish all

this all up let's make sure you get your

copy of your crisis plan and we'll just attached this

at the end and I'll put see attachment A WRAP crisis plan right here

>>Great yeah it's got a lot of information in it

>That's actually really good to have it as an attachment

because then you can make some changes to it if you want to it without having

to change this whole thing. >>Okay good

>Yeah >>Good great

>Hi Jane >>Hi

>So we're almost there we're almost done

but we're going to talk right now about

what sort of care or treatment you want or don't want if you're at that point

in your life and a lot of us don't like to

think about or talk about but you're at the end of your

life so either you have an injury

or an illness and there's no cure

The doctors aren't going to be able to fix it

and you might have heard this as a living will it's what it's called in

Virginia, where can say whether you

would want extraordinary care. Things like a respirator to keep

you breathing, a feeding tube

if you can't take food and liquids by mouth anymore,

if you'd want those things to keep you alive for as long as possible

or if you're at the end of your life and you would rather not prolong it

and just kind of let nature take its course and

not have those things. Is this something that you've

ever thought about or experienced with a family member or?

[>>Well yeah I thought I really don't want to have any

of that stuff. I try to live naturally

Eat natural foods so that would go right along with my wishes would be not

to have any of those things done to me

>Okay, so you wouldn't want any treatments

to prolong your life any further? >>No

>Then we can put that down as your choice for that

>>Is this the same thing as a DNR? >You can put on here that you

don't want CPR to restart your heart that's that thing they do to

restart your heart once it stops but if you really truly want

a DNR like if you're in the hospital

and your heart stops and they don't start it again by any means

then you need to talk to your doctor

and your doctor can actually write an order

it has to be written on specific form

and it has to be signed by your doctor

so you can put your preference here or if you wanted to be absolutely followed

legally then you'd have to take that

extra step and talk to your doctor. >>Okay

>to get that do not resuscitate order

>>Okay >So the other part of this section

talks about and it's very similar

to what we just talked about but it has to do with

you're not at the end of your life

you don't have a terminal illness but

if you get injured somehow and you're in like a permanent coma

what they call a persistent vegetative state

I don't know if you've ever heard of that like Terri Schiavo

was in the news a few years ago, if you would have the same options

that you had before, whether you want them to prolong

your life with the extraordinary measures or or not

but there's one other option which is to try those things for a certain

period of time to either see if there's any

improvement or like for me I have family in

California so I said it's okay to try it for a week or two

even if I'm not going to survive my family has time to get to

the hospital and say their goodbyes. >>I hadn't thought of that that's

a good idea to let people get there because

I know when one of my friends was dying there was relatives out of town

and it was good that he was on

the life-support stuff for a while so his relatives could get there

>So is that something that you might want to put in your advance directive?

>>I really have to think about it this is a scary thought to think

I might go out of here and maybe get hit by a bus or something and be like

that like right now I wouldn't

I wouldn't want them to give up on me right away

>Sure >>But I also don't like to be like

the thought of being hooked up to machines so

I really I think I have to think about that a little bit

>So you can think about whether you'd want the option of trying for certain

period of time and then if you do think about

how long do you think that period of time should be

to either give it a try or to give relatives time to get here

and then after that period of time say

remove those things and let me go

so you're right it's something that you definitely want to think about and

it's not an easy decision that's nothing we want to think about all.

Do you have any questions about that at all?

>>No I think I understand >Okay

>Okay Jane so we've made it just about the entire way through

and we're down to the last section here

and it's just about anatomical gifts so that's donating organs and things

like that and this section kind of lets

you give some instructions to your agent or whomever

about what you would like to donate and you have a couple different options.

So did you have any interest in donating organs after you pass?

>>Well I'm interested in donating some things but I'm not real sure exactly

what it means to donate like my organs or my eyes or

my tissues or donating my whole body. I mean what does that mean?

>Yeah it's kind of weird to think about

and kind of weird to think about it happening afterwards but

this kind of the first one; there's sort of two boxes and

the first one talks about organs, eyes, tissues and then it list for because

it can be used for different things for so lot of times we think of about transplantation

so if somebody gets a donor organ that helps them

or therapy but also sometimes they're used

for research and education and so the thing with this list

is like with other places if you kind of say well okay

>>I feel okay about donating my organs because maybe somebody needs

a kidney and I think mine are pretty good but I don't know about my eyes

or other tissues. >Tissues would be like skin or

something like that. You can cross those out and just

leave the ones that you're comfortable with and then the same thing for if

you only really want it used for transplant or something like that

or if you're kind of like no I don't want my organs used for research you

can cross those out. You can kind of tailor it just

like the other sections if there's something you're kind

of not too sure about. Donating your whole body is sort

of like medical students or researchers will sometimes use whole bodies

because it helps them. They are still discovering things

and teaching about how the body works and stuff

so that would be generally speaking I don't know the specifics but kind of what

it would be about. >>Okay

>>Yeah I guess I would donate some of my body parts for transplant but

that kind of weirds me out to think about people taking my body

and studying it after I'm dead. It's gross

>Yeah different people some people are all for it and

some aren't but that's great. So what we can do is we'll just

check off the box that's about organs and just organs or eyes and tissues

too? >>Yeah for transplant

>So then we'll cross out the research and education part but we'll leave the transplantation

and the therapy I think is sort of like that medical use kind of thing

as well so that'd be okay?

>>Okay. >Great so then if there's anything

specific maybe there's an organ that you

think just wouldn't be good to have transplanted we can kind of put down any specific

instructions here or... >> No I think I would be okay

>Alright then I think that takes care of that section

so we're ready to get it all signed and

then we'll have it all ready for you

>>Alright

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