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Hello, my name is Priscilla Arellano and today I will be talking to you guys about a topic
discussed in module 9 Dramatism.
The topic that I choose to use for my application assignment was the two ways of off-loading
guilt.
So in the book, they mention a first way that is called mortification.
Here is where you confess of sin and request for forgiveness.
You take away the guilty feelings that you have by saying, okay yes I did something wrong.
You admit something that you did was not okay.
And then what you went and did was that you requested for forgiveness, which is what you're
asking someone to take into consideration that you're actually saying you're sorry for
something that you did, either to them or in a situation that happened.
That is the first way the book mentions mortification.
The book also mentions victimization.
Which is putting the blame on someone else.
It's basically saying that you're in denial.
You say no I didn't do anything wrong.
No it was someone else's fault.
There's always someone else to take the fault because you put the guilt on them.
You don't feel bad because you're like, oh it was someone else.
That's basically not taking responsibility for your actions.
Personally I like to do the first way of off-loading my guilt, which is the mortification way.
Because that just allows for you to be at peace with yourself.
You know you can always go the easy way out, which would be the second way, victimization,
and blame somebody else for your problems.
Always say that this stuff happens to you because of such and such, and you know stuff
is always gonna go bad because you're not taking the responsibility you need to be taking
in you own lives.
So to not feel guilty about something that you've done, you know, take the big road,
put on your big boy pants, and say okay I admit what I did was wrong, acknowledge it
to start off.
And then you go ahead and say, well will you forgive me.
You already admitted what you did was wrong, you wanna go ahead and say lets move past
this bump in the road and continue on.
If you're gonna go and put the blame on someone else then that person is gonna remember, hey
you blamed me for something that wasn't my fault just so you could feel better.
You're always gonna have that rough patch between you and that person because you created
the barrier that didn't have to be there in the first place.
My advice would be to go for the mortification path.
Take the responsibility of actually owning up to what you did if you did something wrong
and move on, move forward, don't stay stuck in the same path, in the same road block because
you're not gonna be able to live a happy life that way.
In conclusion, we must always look to the golden rule.
And that is to treat others how you want to be treated.
So if someone did something wrong, you don't want them to blame you for it which is the
victimization way.
You would prefer them to take the mortification way, which is for them to say okay, they did
wrong and then ask me for my forgiveness.
Thank you guys for watching!
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