Les Brown: this thing is avoid people and situations that upset you
hello see there's some people that know just how to push your button they know
just what to say so you know what I don't even deal with them I just serve
or excuse me hey um I want to talk about something I understand excuse me I'll be
right back here now you might call that cowardly but I'm not going to expend any
energy arguing with anybody life is too short ladies and gentlemen and
unpredictable I don't want to spend my time arguing with anybody so I bought
situations that will get me upset I don't argue with people I bought things
I don't look at movies that that frightened me last right movie I saw was
the Exorcist I never saw another one after that I never forget going home at
that time I was married and I was blowing the horn going up into the
driveway I said open the door
I pull up over the door to get out and I saw Lord together so I blew in the horn
my wife said unfasten your seat belt fool I said oh all right that movie
scared me out of my wits so I don't look at scary movies I'm one of the people in
the scary movie like this tell me tell me what's happening out n17 I threw
popcorn all over everybody that girl's spitting on those people I don't do that
no no no no no sorry that I slept in the house of lights on all over the house
for two weeks I was embarrassed but your children said daddy turn myself No
so I don't do I just avoid things I go see comedies I love Danny DeVito and
Steve Martin I like things that make me laugh make me feel good but like the
little boy in me life is just too serious here's something else that can
help to increase your self-esteem draw the line ladies and gentlemen there are
certain things that we just go through life just taking it at some point you
just got to draw the line and just say enough is enough you got to do that with
yourself just draw the line you know see when I manage my food choices I get
on scale every day but I get to a certain level that's a crisis level I
just get down stop doing setups right this don't press look hey right away if
I if my income drop to a certain level I go crazy I started working like you see
this callus on my ear you see that callous right there that's how that
countless got there yes my income drop and I made 200 calls a day as punishment
don't you ever let this happen again because I'll never never never be broke
again so you got to draw a line you just got a drunk there's certain things that
you just don't permit if you got negative people in your life just one so
look here I was talking to someone who loved very much had a just dynamic
relationship with us look here I can't grow from that
if you persisted and saying those kind of things to me I'm saying to you right
now I won't tolerate that and I will terminate this because I'm
not going to expose myself to this type of humiliation I don't like that I don't
like to get in calling names and putting each other down like that come back to
them I'm sorry no I won't get it so you put a nail in a hole you make that
impression you pull a nail out that mark is still there
that's not for God we can't subtract that from the record so don't don't say
that to me so we were talking about something else person said again boom
you'll loser very good and you are too because you just lost a very good friend
I don't choose to be around you anymore and that was it I say that's cold maybe
it is but I get people out of my life that aren't good for me one negative
stroke is 16 times more powerful than a positive stroke and if you have people
around you who are not sensitive to who you are and the people that can hurt you
the most ladies and gentlemen are the people that you love that you love
they're the ones that you're vulnerable to they're the ones that can get to you
and they're first insensitive I don't care who they are
see if you don't draw the line with people if you just let them run rampant
in your life and you let things happen to you that you don't feel good about if
you continue to allow it to happen you won't feel good about yourself your
image of yourself will erode so you've got to draw the line in the conditions
that you find yourself in here's a jarring question why are known Hills
preferable to strange heavens why would people live in a known hell a lot of
people just go to a job where they're miserable day in and day out why do
people stay together and they're miserable sleeping in separate rooms
arguing are the only thing they have in common is paying the bills don't talk
don't communicate don't share anything together day in and day out is short and
unpredictable that life is being mean to each other what do people do that known
Hills are preferable to strange heavens because it's familiar see life is rough
ladies and gentlemen it's rough and it's scary it's scary growing it's scary
taking a chance it's scary acting on your intuition on your guts it's scary
it's frightening there are people that just tolerating things right now and
they're immobilized by fear they can see the hammer coming and they afraid to
even move because it's scary
federal White said something to go against the dominant thinking of your
family friends and those people you associate with every day is perhaps the
most difficult act of courage you will ever perform see when you start growing
when you start changing the way you walk the way you talk the way you act the way
you respond to things the way you use your time when you start saying no I
can't do that why you do you're too busy you don't have the time - I have my own
agenda all right got something that I'm doing not lying to try and get out of it
just said no I'm busy doing something that I want to do or I don't want to do
that and I'm not going to do it
I'm not mad not upset about it I just don't want to do it why well I
don't have to give you any reasons why I don't want to do it but listen thank you
so much for asking me take it easier hey I thought you were all right is that all
right oh boy ask me do I care about that see if people can put you on a guilt
trip they will and use you and abuse you over and over and over again you got to
draw the line you have to draw the line on them don't go through life feeling
like you're powerless victims of people that are powerless you're not powerless
you are powerful you direct the power in your life whatever your life is right
now it is a duplication of your consciousness it's result of how you
have decided to use your power that's all it is
that's not who you are that's just a perverted use of your power that you
aren't satisfied with and you've got the power to change that wherever you are
huh I don't know but I know you've got the power to do that but you don't know
what has happened to me it really doesn't matter what has happened to you
see the only thing that really matters is what are you going to do about it
that's all that matters that's all that matters you can allow it to destroy you
or you can allow it to bill you up John Powell a book called why I'm afraid to
tell you I am and he went to get a newspaper guy was very discourteous too
and he was very courteous to the guy the guy who was with him said why would you
be as courteous to this guy as you were considering how Rudy was to you he said
I'm not going to allow that man to determine how I'm going to act the
things that's going to happen to you in life ladies and gentlemen make it okay
Lord grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change I cannot
change the fact that when I ask my son to go that I will no longer take care of
him then he became angry and perhaps hate my guts the change of things that I
can I can change how I respond to it I can become
set nervous tense about it weak about it or I can say it's okay
he who cares less wins you now to make it okay
become comfortable with it
what's the next thing learn something new
and tackle it in a spirit of adventure and love
somebody said that we are not stricken by the things we do but we're stricken
by the things that we don't do the songs that have not been sung the forms that
we have not written the work that we have not done the ideas that we have not
developed the dreams and we have not acted on
that's what can stricken you that's what can block your power
that's what can rob you of your piece of your satisfaction of your self-respect
of this special joy that you can get out of life of special achievement see one
of the things that contributes to too high self acceptance or self approval is
self achievement when you achieve something when you've done something and
you can stand back and look at it say I did this what if it doesn't work out you
can stand back and look at and say I tried it I want up in there I went with
it didn't work out no no but I the experience I loved just the experience
of doing it I love that so that's why I said wait a minute I've been fantasizing
about singing
so I'm gonna do this who says that when I first stand up I got to sound like
Pavarotti what's the guy's baby I don't have to sound like him I don't sound
like this that's right maybe Browns boy si si you've got to look at you and look
at your life and find something that you can tackle and do it with love only that
which you love only that which you love let me tell you something when you do
that you're doing it in a spirit of love just love it me
can you can you tell I love this I love it
see I know that there's greatness in you I know that there's something in you
everybody has something I don't know what it is but you know it's something
you know it's something in you that you want to do everybody's got some ideas I
say to you that as you focus on something as you go into action as you
hold that thought in consciousness persistently you begin to develop the
consciousness to manifest and create all kinds of things you will begin to
realize powers and abilities you have you will realize you have
miracle-working power in you that that when you move that when you walk fuck
will see you when you come in the room and say yeah I don't know what it is but
there's something different about you there's something about the way you look
it's it's a glow about what is it huh what we're doing now
I'm just being Who I am I'm just living out my greatness I'm I'm approving
myself and giving myself permission to pursue my dream ladies and gentlemen
pursue your dream pursue your greatness it's there I know it today I'm waiting
on you to come on out here and join me this is mrs. Mamie Browns baby boy
Leslie Calvin Brown saying it's been a plum pleasing pleasure as well as the
privileged thank y'all here
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