5 Signs you are not ready for a relationship
No.1, YOU HAVE TRUST ISSUES.
All of us develop a lot of trust issues at one point in time, based on our past experiences,
we all go through "Trust Experiences" that make us either give up on trust completely,
or be very cautious of how and who we trust.
But life isn't as bad as we think, life has ups and downs.
We often let our downs hurt us a little too much.
So, if you have trust issues, work on yourself, regain hope in trust, do not commit to someone
if you're going to kill them with insecurities.
No.2, You aren't happy living the single life.
You can't be in a relationship just so you can treat it as an escape from the single
life.
You have to develop a certain sense of happiness, and contentment even though you're single.
You can't use a relationship as an escape rope from unhappiness.
You have to learn how to be happy alone, before you can be happy in a relationship.
No.3, You're Using It As A Distraction.
Maybe you're having a rough patch, and can't find a job that fulfills you, and instead
you're stuck in a slightly-depressing dead-end job.
Or maybe you can't find anything you're passionate about, or maybe you're trying to distract
yourself from being hurt by someone in particular.
If you find yourself hunting for dates, to distract yourself from a big worry, then you're
definitely not ready for a relationship.
You're just using it as an escape.
No.4, You think a relationship will make you feel less lonely.
Short-term relationships will never fulfill long-term loneliness.
Before you get yourself into a relationship with someone, you first need to find out where
your internal loneliness is coming from.
A relationship will only fulfill you for so long, until you then try to fill the void
with someone new.
Seek fulfillment in God alone, before trying to seek the heart of someone else.
No.5, You Aren't Over Your Ex.
Until you find some sort of peace inside yourself about your breakup with your ex, it will be
tough to move onto someone else.
Furthermore, if you're still pinning for your ex, and afraid to move onto someone else,
because you know that will close the door on your ex for good, then you should not be
getting seriously involved with someone new.
It's important that everybody takes some time, after one relationship ends to process
the breakup, figure out what lessons they learned, and what they need to change for
the next relationship, and also to spend some time alone to heal, and move on from that
relationship.
If you're recently out of something and thinking about dating again, it's important
to have an honest conversation with yourself, about where you're at with your feelings
about your ex
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