emotions are a habit if you say I don't
told myself out of my own funk of my own
frustration overwhelmed you got to first
own the fact that you've identified that
as the way that you live you actually I
always tell people you get what you
tolerate and so you've got used to
tolerating that and you start thinking
this is me when all it is is a habit
it's a habit of the way of looking at
life that's a habit and how you use your
body it's a habit of language that you
use concerting words when you use them
you become now I really believe what
you've got to do is train yourself train
yourself physically it's like working
out you know people say don't you have
bad day of course I get pissed off I get
frustrated I feel sad I don't think but
I don't stay there I used to live there
I used to be depressed all the time I'd
never get depressed now because my coz
I'm so positive my not fake it's like a
muscle you know you can train yourself
to get frustrated by doing all blah you
can train yourself to be stressed out
you train yourself to feel sad by doing
it so often we get wired the more we do
something more wired we get you can
train yourself to feel passionate you
can change yourself to feel strong and I
tell people don't settle remember you
get what you tolerate put yourself in
gear go for a workout start to train
your body and your mind and also find
something you want to serve greater than
yourself because if you're just doing
this for you you're going to probably
have that day but if you do it for your
family if you do it for the community if
you're doing it for humanity you really
are and it isn't bullshit you're going
to find a level of energy inside you
you're going to get insights you never I
really believe motive does matter if
your motive just for yourself you don't
get much insight life supports you
because you're part of life but if
you're going to support more than
yourself when you get a vision that's
how businesses grow that's some
movements happen right find something
bigger yourself to serve and make sure
that you don't tolerate weakness in
yourself that doesn't mean enough to
feel sad but you're not just going to
stay there because you made that
decision life's too short to feel like
crap I've decided I want to live in a
beautiful state for the rest of my life
that doesn't feel bad it means I won't
stay there because I'm in control and I
can't change it so can you
is the breakthrough by the way so we're
clear if you say you're having a break
you who'd ever had a breakthrough you
fought you fought and then here to break
you lose add will this happen before say
aye
a breakthrough is when there's something
you struggle with for a long time you
say you're going to change you say
you're going to make it happen you're
going to lose that weight you're going
to grow your revenues you're going to
make that profit you're going to make
something happier to find that
relationship you're going to stop
smoking and you start to get right near
the edge and then you pull back who's
done this multiple times before but then
finally how to break through you broke
through and actually change it say I so
jot down what a breakthrough is and let
me give you the three steps of it a
breakthrough is a moment in time that's
what it is it's a moment in time it's a
moment where suddenly what was
impossible becomes possible and what
makes it possible is you take immediate
massive what immediate massive life
action so that to happen for the
impossibly compatible and for you to
have action that's going to get results
really I found over the years any kind
of breakthrough you're going to have
requires three things to it and if you
never see me again and you're ever in a
place you say I'm sick of fighting this
I'm sick of not getting results I want I
don't want to just learn more I want to
break through if you remember this and
go back to the simple formula and by the
way I've made this simple purposely you
know why complexity is the enemy of
execution the more complex you make it
the less likely you're going to execute
I'm so good at getting people to do
things because I make it so damn simple
you can't miss it
so let's do it what's it going to take
to have a breakthrough before I tell you
let's have you think of an area where
you once fought and you finally had a
breakthrough for you personally what's
an area we pushed in pushing for she
couldn't do it couldn't do it and you
finally made yourself do it and broke
through
how many can think of a specific area
life where you actually did create a
breakthrough say I became m'boy
oh say it's wrong say I say I
what was that area say it out loud what
was here just say it out loud what area
did you break through and set out what
was the area okay so now you've had
success before let's do it again
I'm going to show you the three things
you need for breakthrough any one of the
three can do it all three of them
together you will absolutely
breakthrough and I'm going to give them
to you in reverse order of importance
meaning I'm going to tell you the least
important thing first because it's the
first thing most of you go through it's
not the most important but it's very
important now before I do it I want you
right now to think of it area you want
to break through right now
what's an air your life right now that
you'd like to create a breakthrough how
many can think of something you came
here for I want to change this I want to
rip this open I want to transform this I
want to master this who's gotta marry
your life right now great sit up in your
chair of some energy right now zip your
chair make sure the people on either
side of you in a peak state right now
come on get them up all right right now
pick an area you want to cry to break
through it what scenario you want to
pray to break through it money finance
great what specifically do you want to
create breakthrough about money in
finance I like some money here's the
problem ask and you shall so if she says
I'd like some money I could give her a
dollar and go okay now you got some
money let's move up if you're that
general you're probably getting what
you're asking for you just don't realize
because you're too general
what's the breakthrough you want with
money to be able to travel the world
what prevents that from happening now
money eat so we now know what a real
problem is I'm going to show you what a
real problem is in a moment somebody
else what's the breakthrough you on
what's the bracelet
tell me raise your hand what's the
breakthrough what's the break do you
want sir what is it to be a leader for
my family what's preventing you from
being a leader for your family my
mindset what specific mindset what focus
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I'm just not focused enough I want to
listen to people's answers because
you're going to see why people aren't
changing is it so general someone else
be honest what's the air you want to
break a good guess we have what do you
want to break through it she goes I want
to break through in clarity of what I
want to do is my career what do you want
to do with your career you don't know I
know you don't know but if you did know
and how does tell me right now what
would you say I want to be up there
talking to thousands of people she
doesn't know and then when I say I know
you don't know what's the answer she
fucking tells me the answer insulin she
just has a habit of saying I don't know
when you say I don't know I don't know I
don't know over and over again you tell
yourself a story you begin to believe
that story and once you believe it it's
manifest how many of you have ever had
when you're a kid you're eating dinner
your parents says to you could you get
me the salt and you're enjoying your
meal you don't want to get up so you
don't why you say I don't know what the
salt is it's not a lot you don't know
its exact position in this moment of
time and your parent says you know where
it's in it's in the kitchen you know I
don't know what it's Altis you go get me
I don't know if you've given it salt
right now what are you saying your head
as you walk in the kitchen out of the
salt is out of their sauces I know the
salt is yoga cabinet really still look
it's not here it's on the second shelf
they tell you you stay out of the salt
is on the softest you look it's not here
they come storming the kitchen they
reach right for you basically go what is
this who's ever has one who's
experienced to say I here's my question
did your eyes see the salt yes or no yes
your eyes saw the salt but your mind did
not allow you to perceive the salt
because you told yourself a story over
and over again I believe over and over
again and it didn't want to make you a
liar with yourself
so you created what's called a scotoma
or a blind spot now if you list all the
people here they're all searching so let
me give you the answer three keys to a
breakthrough make of the error you want
to provide you in right now your body
your money your relationships your
career your business your joy your
happiness and let's look at what your
choice is our first element there are
three assets for a breakthrough first
element most people looking for is
they're looking for the right strategy
you're saying if I could find the right
strategy I could get this result right
now and by the way my life I am a life
and business strategist all I do is seek
out the world for finding strategies I
find people been together for 60 years
and they don't just love each other
their intimate they're passionate they
make love and I want to know what do
they have different than other people
and I don't think it's luck and I know
it's not luck and I figure out what
these strategies are they do things that
excite each other and I find out what
those things are and you can put them in
anybody's relationship that's reignited
I find people I just got done doing a
four year project where I interviewed 50
of the most wealthy human beings on
earth the greatest investors in history
and these are all people that started
with nothing and became multi
billionaires and I interviewed them put
it inside the book the very best of what
I've learned I learned I got a PhD from
the people to control the world economy
from the warm buffets of the world and
the raid al use of the world once I knew
what their strategies are like right now
one of the strategies I put in my book
it's called money master the game I
believe it's an Australian I think it's
comes in here yet you have your senior
in this book I got one of them to
actually give me a strategy and in a dis
man named Ray Dalio he's the largest
hedge fund in the world this is a guy
that rich people they have money to give
to a hedge fund guy the big hedge funds
are 15 billion ray is 160 billion he's
ten times larger than anyone on earth
you have to have a billion dollar net
worth and give him a hundred million
dollars ten years ago to even begin
investing with him now he doesn't care
how much money you have you won't take
your money and I got him to give me the
strategy that he has all of his personal
money and he's never told her anyone on
earth and I put in the book if I
convinced him you're not taking
anybody's money anyway so you're not
getting all the money you could ever
take you're taking you're giving up
after Network I wanted to give this the
average person anybody to follow the
strategy last year beat the stock market
stock market the US was 13.2 it did 15.6
in October last year his strategy not
mine I just got it from him the stock
market the Dow dropped a thousand points
in one month
it drops six percent this went up point
two percent first seven days of this
year the market was down 3% this is up
1% right now it's up three and a half
the markets up by two and a quarter and
in the last 75 years it's made money
eighty-five percent of the time imagine
and when it lost it only lost one point
six percent and when it wins it wins an
average of 10 percent if you go to Vegas
and when 85 percent of time at 10
percent and there's one point six fifty
percent of time honky fucking flag it's
in the book that's strategy you do once
a year you rebalance it and you're done
that's how powerful it is and it's only
not work twice 2008 and in 1932 and in
both cases it did twice as good as
everything else but it did was money now
that's the power of a fucking strategy
but getting it from the best on earth
that's what I do now to do that it's a
time energy money effort it didn't
interrupt me I to pursue it and expect
no answers that I want the answer and I
got it so I know the power of strategies
for anybody else does but I want to tell
you most of you want to lose weight
you're looking for the strategy one
relationship you're looking with the
strategy look at business you want your
strategy all good things the right
strategy save you years save your
decades convert results in minutes that
you would have struggled for forever so
I know the value strategies but with all
that I just said about strategies
they're not the most important piece to
a breakthrough
let's think about it 70% of the United
States is overweight I don't know the
current number in Australia but it's
starting to catch up to the US most of
the world is catching up to the US you
polluted everybody else for the same
lifestyle and so guess what is it really
that hard to be fit and strong is it's
so complex that you'll never understand
it is that why the strategy complex or
Fitness strength to be fit and strong
yes or no is it like so unique and
special that only the 1% can afford it
no in fact don't you have to work your
ass off to avoid the information that
could make you fit and strong in fact
today god forbid if you wanted to go
work out and be trained how far would I
have to leave this building to get to a
place where they were trained me how far
there's one right over there isn't it
and we'll probably thrive there God
forbid we'd actually walk to the place
we're going to workout in shed right and
oh by the way you don't have to do that
now you can take out your phone or your
iPad right now and download ten books we
live in a world where the strategies are
all around you so strategy may be your
problem often it is but more often
you're missing the number two thing you
need and that is the right story because
the story you have about your life about
your business about the area life that's
not where you want the area breaking
through your story is with making you be
stuck what's a story it's a belief that
you tell yourself over and over again
like I'm gonna solve this out of the
stall this you tell the story so often
you believe it this man once said you
tell a lie big enough loud enough and
long enough sooner or later people will
believe you who said that
Hitler and most of us are Hitler in our
own minds we convince ourselves with
challenges so when person says well you
know least I tried somewhat it hasn't
lost weight they'll say I've tried come
on well they say I tried everything
bullshit if you tried everything you'd
be fitting strong well I've tried
thousands of ways name them well tried
hundreds name them well I've tried
dozens name them why did do these two
stupid things that don't work over and
over again
mine was on big boats I am big-boned but
I was 38 pounds heavier with the same
bones so we often say things that are
true to back things up they are true
you're big-boned but that is not why
you're fat right so the story keeps a
sermon if you know the relationship you
want what's the story all the good ones
are gone and they're gay and I'm not or
they're not gay and I am the story the
story is there got write this down the
only thing keeping you from getting what
you want the only thing keeping you from
getting what you want is the story you
keep telling yourself about why you
don't have it the only thing keeping you
from getting what you really want is the
story you keep telling yourself about
why you don't have it yes here's what I
said divorce your story and marry the
truth divorce your story and marry the
truth and don't make it one those
divorces where you revisit with your old
past belief system again divorce it cut
it off and marry the truth the truth
will set you what but you got to develop
the empowering story without that now
some of you think an empathic story is
the one that allows you to be keep going
at what doesn't work I'm not talking
about a story where you cover your ass
and explain that you're still going to
achieve you want some day in the future
because no one can argue with that
because the futures not here but really
you're not doing anything to change
significant who knows what I'm talking
about here say I so you've got to find a
story that's going to empower you to act
a story that's going to get you to find
the breakthrough because otherwise with
a lousy story you'll never find the
strategy or you'll come up with a reason
why it's too expensive you can't get
there you can't access it or you'll even
get the strategy and then half-assed
apply it just so you can reward your
story that says it doesn't work as I
tried it I thought bullshit boasted as
opposed to the bullshit
jumping and doing something different
your head of course it's not going to
work
not doing it it's self fulfilling how
many following say I so I want you to
get this is the secret
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