Waching daily May 2 2017

Hey my happy shiny puppies.

This is Melody Fletcher, author of Deliberate Receiving: Finally the universe makes some

freaking sense!

And boy do I have something slightly different for you guys today.

As you may have noticed, unless you're brand new to this blog and this is the first video

of mine that you're watching…

I haven't really been posting lately.

It actually kind of started at the end of last year when I really just lost the inspiration

to create new content for my blog.

Which was really weird, because I've been blogging for I think about 6 years now - since

2011 I think?

Possibly even the end of 2010; I'm not sure anymore…

So, for me to run out of things to talk about, especially on this subject which is something

that I can talk for days about without even taking a breath, it was really weird.

But something was clearly off and in my last blog post, which was a while ago, I was trying

to figure that out.

I was trying to share what I was going through and I thought maybe it was the whole video

thing, that I just didn't really want to be doing video anymore.

And I didn't want to be standing in a little room, you know, by myself with camera equipment

and lights, and the camera, and just sort of talking into the ethers.

And I thought maybe that was a problem, so let me get back to writing, because writing's

always been my inspiration.

And then I wrote that one blog post and then I wasn't inspired again.

So, most of you know that I went to Peru on one of my annual big spiritual leveling up

trips this year, and I'd obviously had a lot of insights from that.

And one of the insights that I had from that has actually been coming in, in deeper and

deeper layers and it's finally dawned on me what this is all about.

Because I love creating content.

I love talking about the law of attraction and reality creation, and I love helping people

to be empowered.

And yet for some reason I wasn't able to publish.

And it really kind of got frustrating, which is always a good sign, because just as you're

hitting frustration, you know that you're about to pop, so…

I got frustrated and then, FINALLY, I popped, so…

My blog has gone through a lot iterations, and for those of you, bless your little puppy

hearts, who have been with me for years, you'll have seen this.

And I did this quite publicly.

So when I first started, I published 3 times a week.

And then at some point, I couldn't keep that up anymore so I went to twice a week.

And a lot of people kind of went thank God, because my blog posts were really long and

really in-depth.

And it was a little hard keep up to keep up with, apparently.

And at some point I had to scale back and go to once a week, because my coaching practice

was just hoppin' to the point where I just could not… did not have the time to publish

that often.

And then I went to videos, which was another challenge, but also really, really fun.

And I started to kind of do more Q&A things where I was actually publishing answers to

peoples' direct questions, which was also really, really fun.

And at some point, I had to stop answering emails directly.

I brought in somebody else.

You guys, most of you, know Tina, my lovely sister.

She works in my business and she's also coaching.

But this was the start of her journey.

I kind of brought her in to help me answer a lot of those emails, and I just had to scale

back and scale back and scale back.

Because there was just no way to keep up with it all and so, I had to make some tough decisions.

But what has really occurred to me, is that I scaled back a little too much on something

really important.

Or rather perhaps it wasn't too much at the time, but it is now, and I want to scale it…

front again?

I don't know.

[laughs] Scale back, scale front.

So, and that is the engagement.

The engagement with you guys, you know, because after a while you sort of take a step back,

and take a step back, and you have to, like I said, because the overwhelm-ment of like

too much stuff, too much work, too many emails, too many questions.

You have to try to create some kind of a way to handle as much as possible and serve as

many people as possible.

But, I kind of missed you guys.

Oh, not even kind of.

Like super SUPUER missed you guys.

And so, it isn't realistic that I answer every single email that I get.

It isn't realistic that I do all one on one work and that I can talk to everybody

one on one.

But something that dawned on me is that it is realistic that I can do this through video

in a different way from how I've been doing it.

And this is what has been bothering me – it's that I was sort of talking at you, I guess.

I was teaching.

I was so in the teaching mode that I wasn't really having a conversation with you.

If that makes sense.

So, I wasn't really sharing myself completely.

I was sort of in the teacher mode, hoping to convey information.

And I'm not down on myself.

I'm not saying that I was doing a bad job or anything like that.

But taking it to the next level means that I want to have more conversations with you.

I want more back and forth.

And I want to let you guys in more than I have been, which means that I'm not going

to be in my little video studio talking about some specific topic.

I'm just going to be talking with you about whatever's going on, and whatever insights

happen to come in.

And whatever I feel like talking about.

And, you know, what I've discovered…

I was at this conference a couple of weeks ago.

It's a business conference, but a very soulful one.

And there was a wonderful woman, I didn't catch her name, but she was just a wonderful

soul who was there for me.

She thought I was there for her, but she was really there for me.

And she was having a really tough time.

She'd been triggered by something, and she came up to me, and she said "will you help

me?", and she was crying.

And I said, you know, "of course", and I was able to kind of talk her through it.

I gave her a big hug and she felt a lot better.

For me, since Peru, it's all been about opening up more and letting go of all kinds

of walls that I might have, all kinds of defensive mechanisms.

Which, as an energy worker, is kind of a scary thing to do.

I kind of had to figure out, you know, what's the difference between letting go of all defensive

mechanisms and not having boundaries.

And I can talk more about that, if you want, in a subsequent video.

But…

I found more of that balance.

Because, as I was talking to this woman, and after I hugged her and sent her on her way,

I realized just what an absolute privilege it is, I reconnected with the feeling of what

an absolute privilege it is to be the person, to GET TO be that person for a lot of people.

The person that you come to, the person that you listen to, OMG, the person that you know

is going to make you feel better.

That is…

Ok… that is just such a privilege for me.

I was not expecting that.

And so I want to thank all of you guys.

For being that… for being that mirror for me.

For being there for me.

You know, I'm not just there for you, you're there for me.

And I need you just as much as you need me.

If not more.

And um, I think I kind of lost touch with that a little bit.

[Laughs] Yeah, none of this is getting edited out.

[laughs] So, I am challenging myself, it's part of a business master mind that I'm

a part of, I'm challenging myself to do a 30 day video challenge.

Which means that I'm going to publish a little video like this once a day for 30 days.

They're not going to be long videos, necessarily.

I'm not going to cry in every single one of them [laughs], don't worry.

But I think we're going to have a lot of fun.

And this is the direction that I really feel is the one that I want to take now.

It's to let you guys in more.

And hopefully you'll do the same.

Well, actually, a lot of you do let me in, so, it's kind of up to me to let you in

more.

But, hopefully you're in, you know?

And so, let me know what you think about this new direction in the comments.

I can't wait to hear from you guys.

Because, I want to have more conversations with you.

I want to have more engagement with you.

I'm showing up in a bigger way.

And you know what?

Maybe you what you can tell me is how do you want to challenge yourself to show up in a

bigger way?

I know that's not an easy question to answer.

God knows.

But, how do you want to show up in a bigger way.

I'd love to hear it.

Or any other thoughts that you have.

So… phew!

So, this is Melody Fletcher signing off a very unexpected little release of a video.

Thank you guys.

Thank you for bringing your light to the world.

I'll see you tomorrow.

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The Goth Mum Tag by Avelina De Moray & ReeRee Phillips - Duration: 11:43.

It's Avelina De Moray here &

welcome back to my channel today is a

exciting video because we will be

starting the Goth Mum

TAG, now this kind of was conceptualized

by ReeRee Phillips And I, so you will see

me (and shortly on her channel) ReeRee

doing this video , and we're hoping to

kind of spread it out to the Goth

subculture and allow all mothers to do it

and we're very curious for everyone jump

aboard and see what their views are on

being a mom in this gothic subculture as

well so let's get right into it the

first question we've written us

handwritten questions here by what if do

we force our kids to wear black either

and I think my kids are a little bit too

young I could steal who is two and a

half and London is 10 months old so no I

don't force them to wear black they they

are very colorful at the moment with

what they wear and black is hard to find

and occasionally when I go into a store

and I see some like kind of Halloween

baby like romper sort of they call

onesies I kind of go nuts and fire them

up sorry I see like a black guy Tamayo

puts it because I think it's cute their

entire water is not black contrary to

popular belief question number two is do

we force our children to listen to metal

or rock and rollers you kids are calling

it the you see I won't use the word

force that's a little a little harsh but

obviously they're going to be influenced

by what they hear around the house apart

from Type O Negative which is the only

thing that we allow in our jukebox

we like to listen to a lot of different

types of music so to answer the question

again I'm going to say no I don't but

yeah they hear a lot of cool music

because we're obviously into metal and

rock and roll but it's not force hey

I've seen Wiggles

you know that shit's contagious I get in

a big black car that's not black is it

if I wrote it it would be to Jennifer

Joseph secret when we put our son to

sleep we Johnny on life at the Acropolis

in Greece that is phenomenal he loves

that me Falls to sleep really well it's

got a lot of interesting instruments a

lot of weird time signatures so I like

to think that we're broadening his

thousands and musical tastes too not

only to speak metal and recommend

question number three is what is my

favorite alternative clothing brand for

my children um I can't really like I can

name a few but I've only bought like one

item from them and that would be from

spiral direct I think they are somewhere

in Europe possibly Germany but I bought

a little black onesie that had a baby

fat on earth drinking a little a little

bottle filled with blood and it looks

like wrong and as soon as I found out I

was pregnant I coaches out into school

oh sorry you didn't work to my inner

Scott but yes usually that's the only

thing I bought I just like to dress my

kids cool you know I buy a little

leather jackets and stuff like that yes

but it's black that's the one black item

I have but the specific alternative

clothing brands for children are very

very few we're talking four five six

times the price of things that you can

buy your local western US or whatever

your supermarket is in your country so

yeah I just prefer to survive and all

things that are available at

supermarkets okay the next question is

do we want to have any more baby backs

in our family

and I feel like we're not done so I

guess the answer is yes although I'll be

completely honest and that I did not

enjoy being pregnant at all

I think it's glamorized by a Hollywood

and there's a lot of things that I don't

enjoy about it so give me wrong I love

being the baby kick inside and

everything but there's a lot of elements

that I would just like to fast forward

to see I don't think we've done well I

think we might preserve licensing

schools but right now I am enjoying not

being pregnant

question number five is have you or have

your children at our experience

negativities due to the way that I dress

I can't say that I have people in the

new town that I'm in a very friendly

they will start up a conversation with

pretty much like a poll I haven't come

across anything like that in my new son

in my old town um I did get a few

comments so that was pretty like having

babies so it was more that the way that

I dressed

I forgot in general

not really relating at all to seeing a

mother or having children I can't say

I've ever been out with the kids and had

any negative experience I know when I

was facing two very Philip she said

there has been a career situations that

I've really bugged her and I'm sure

she'll speak about when she does her

video but so far I haven't had any next

question do you hope that your kids will

follow in your stylistic footsteps when

they come of age oh yeah I mean raka

Ralph's cool right I kind of like fusing

gothic with rock'n'roll it's like my

favorite movie Queen of the Damned is

the perfect vision of vampires and rock

and roll and that's kind of the

aesthetic that I like you know like new

gothic welcome holders a jacket set yes

I definitely heard that that is

something that they're in third but

again I weren't pushed upon them and how

I found it was very natural and organic

I would prevail it would be the same for

them as well again it's on quite a lot

I'm going to have to read it without the

paper here Sequoyah eric draven from the

crow if you haven't watched that movie

watch it immediately immediately mother

is the name of God on the lips and

hearts of all children do you think it's

important to be a positive strong role

model for your children we kind of

weren't sure we should include this

question because it's like of course the

answer is yes and that's for all mothers

not just like classic ones I think we

included it because they might be able

to speak about about that the steamer of

depression and drug use and alcoholism

being attached to this look apparently

which isn't the case so I'd like to

break those molds those pigments right

away by saying I do not I hardly drink I

don't like the taste of alcohol I will

occasionally have some absence so what I

when I do what I go hard or go home

I can't drink bourbon I just supplies

the smell of the air I didn't drink

coffee I've seriously never tried any

hardcore drugs I've never even tried

weed I tried smoking when I was 14 and

completely hated it I've had it for a

week so to try to fit in with these

girls of school but

so I'm about as left the field of that

stereotype as you can get maybe that's

why my complexion is so nice because I

am a drug-free alcohol-free individual

but yeah it's incredibly important to be

a strong female role model for kids

especially with the technology era that

we're in right now is like texting and

like texting from my childhood it's

sexting that is something that worries

me when my kids again come of age and

how do we control that and when is it

the right time for them to get mobile

devices there's a lot of things that

worry me but I think just trying to have

a close relationship with your child and

showing them love and affection daily

and telling them that they have strong

independent creative creatures is a step

in the right direction and just be

involved in their life you know never

ever make them feel like what you're

doing is more important than what they

need you know if they come up to your

mother no mind me I always drop what I'm

doing and I turn my attention to steal

for London they're everything again next

question is what do children think is

that the way that you dress well I can't

really say for London because there's

any ten months old and I think he's a

little bit too young to afford some

opinions I'm not just yet but still I

guess at the same time it's kind of hard

to know what he thinks because like this

is normal this is how mommy looks but it

is really cute when I get all done up so

when I'm like barefaced putting my

makeup on he's just suddenly taking an

interest to make up a sick you and

you're going right in like then you come

up and like try to take my matte

lipstick off and like put his fingers on

my lips and I try to put it on his lips

and and just yesterday while really was

here he went over to my makeup covered

which he called the laundry my makeup

says and opens the sock drawer started

to get out the lipsticks and this is

embarrassing for his 26 but he put some

red lipstick I just thought that was

adorable and he wanted black eyes like

mommy so again to them it's normal but

like

I've seen some people were really

inappropriate clothing where the grooves

and butts are hanging out and you know a

little bit of black has never killed

anyone right okay the next question is

have your children ever felt well do you

ever feel like you embarrass your kids

again mine might be a little too young

to kind of answer this so this would be

more appropriate if you have older

children so this would be fun for weary

because I know Misha is six years old

and is communicating better and things

like that but still love this I love him

so much so I think he knows that like

mummy and daddy drill a little

differences some other mummy and daddys

but he doesn't think it's a weird and

like even that's true he sees through

that you know it's about how we interact

with each other it's not about what's on

the outside and I already think that

two-year-olds so the very nice

personality traits I have to see what's

inside and the last question number ten

is as a cough mother in the subculture

community can you offer any advice to

other mothers out there that's true to

one I could kind of go in a bit of a

rant that I don't want to just love your

kids be yourself

let them know that it is okay to be

yourself and that everyone needs to find

their own path in life you know if

that's applying a little bit more black

makeup then than other people and if

it's listening to Marilyn Manson that's

fine just love your children teach them

that it's okay to be independent to

teach them that it's okay to be

themselves and really support their

creativity see if they show a flair for

years ago whatever the interest I'll

just take an interest in their interest

and support them and I think you'll

never tell your child that you love them

enough to tell them everything yes it is

more it will in their 30 I'm never doing

at the scale I'm go to be like a big man

let me hug you okay so this is so much

fun it's really quite strange to think

that RiRi and I are starting a tag video

from scratch so I know that to start is

we need to tag three people I didn't do

my homework because I can't come up with

three other women that I'm or have

children

friends with our in the golf subculture

that's terrible I need to make your

friend so obviously number one that a

tag is RiRi Phillips you'll see this

figure on her channel very soon

the second one I would like to tag is a

very interesting character absorb that

breath I love you girl and I hope you

either see my video or various video and

that you do this tag we will put the

questions below I seriously cannot think

of a player so please comment below if

you know some of the girls ones that you

think might be interested in doing this

video if you are one yourself if you're

going to start up a YouTube channel or

you have a channel please do it please

tag us in it or send it to us I'm RiRi

and I would love to watch it we'll post

the questions below so you can easily

start the tag video yourself I think

it'll make a very cool tag video would

be lots of fun if it went viral so yeah

please comment below if you've enjoyed

this video remember to press that like

button that algorithms important share

the video and let me know what else

If you're an alternative parent, why not

Enjoy the Goth Mum Tag

And maybe do the Goth Mom tag yourself!

you

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DIY pearl and gold bead earrings |How to make designer party earrings|Home tutorial| - Duration: 5:21.

Medium size flower caps

Ear stud/earring extender

Ear end caps

Eye pin

flower caps

Gold beads

Metal hoops medium size

jump rings

Pearl loreals

Pearl

Lets get started

Take a jump ring and add pearl loreals

cut the extra part

Open the metal hoop and add pearl and gold beads

close the metal hoop

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Video: Possible morning shower, skies clear later - Duration: 2:21.

ERE IS THE

WIND OFF THE WATER AT EIGHT

MILES AN HOUR.

THIS TIME OF FEAR WITH THE COOL

OCEAN YOU GET AN EASTERLY WIND,

IT CANNOT BE THAT WARM SO YOU

SEE ALL ACROSS EASTERN MASS IT

IS COOL.

PLYMOUTH SOUTH IS WARMER.

HARFORD IS A LITTLE WARMER.

SO IS ALBANY AND THE BERKSHIRES.

THAT IS HELPING SOME

THUNDERSTORMS TO SURVIVE TO

ABOUT THE BERKSHIRES BEFORE THEY

RUN INTO COOLER AIR IN EASTERN

MASS.

THEY WILL WEAKEN QUITE A BIT.

THAT IS THE WIND DIRECTION

THERE.

TEMPERATURES WILL GO UP TOWARD

DON AND -- TOWARD SUNRISE AND

THE AFTERNOON SHOULD FEATURE

SUNSHINE AND NICE WEATHER.

STILL 76 IN THE NATION'S

CAPITAL.

THERE WERE TORNADO WATCHES AND A

FEW WARNINGS, A SEVERE

THUNDERSTORM WATCH IN EFFECT

TILL MIDNIGHT.

ALL OF THIS WILL NOT TRANSLATE

THROUGH ALL OF OUR AREA BECAUSE

OF THE WEAKENING AFFECT OF THE

STORMS.

FOR THE MOMENT, THEY ARE PRETTY

HEFTY.

RIGHT THROUGH RUTLAND, NEWMONT

-- VERMONT, AND ACROSS SOUTHERN

VERMONT AND THE BERKSHIRES WE

COULD STILL HAVE LIGHTNING,

THUNDER, GUSTY WINDS WITH THOSE

DOWNPOURS.

THE LIGHTNING IS FOLLOWING THOSE

STORMS.

AS IT MOVES EASTWARD IT WILL

HAVE A WEAKENING AFFECT.

THE FRONT WILL COME THROUGH

BEFORE TOMORROW AFTERNOON,

TOMORROW AFTERNOON WILL FEATURE

WARMER AND DRIER WEATHER AND WE

TURN COOLER AND BREEZY FOR

WEDNESDAY.

HERE COME THE STORMS THAT THERE

IS THE WEAKENING TREND.

THEY WILL BE SCATTERED SHOWERS

AND IF YOU'D -- A FEW DOWNPOURS.

THERE IS YOUR AFTERNOON SUNSHINE

AND THE TEMPERATURE RESPONDS

MOVING UP INTO THE 70'S.

TOMORROW WILL BE AN ABOVE

AVERAGE DAY.

POLLEN COUNT LOWER BUT BACKUP IN

THE DRY WEATHER WEDNESDAY AND

THURSDAY.

WEDNESDAY BREEZY AND COOLER.

THURSDAY A BEAUTIFUL DAY.

NEXT WEATHER HEADACHE, FRIDAY.

A GOOD DEAL OF FRAME -- RAIN AS

THIS STORM COMES UP.

THAT WILL GIVE US AN INCH PLUS

OF RAIN.

SATURDAY A SPOT SHOWER.

COOLER ON SUNDAY AND SIGNS OF

COOL WEATHER FOR NEXT WEEK AND

POSSIBLY A LITTLE BIT INCLEMENT

AT TIMES AS WELL.

IT WILL BE READY HARD TO LOCK

INTO A BEAUTIFUL WEATHER

PATTERN.

WE WILL HAVE TO DREAM OF NICER