Hey my happy shiny puppies.
This is Melody Fletcher, author of Deliberate Receiving: Finally the universe makes some
freaking sense!
And boy do I have something slightly different for you guys today.
As you may have noticed, unless you're brand new to this blog and this is the first video
of mine that you're watching…
I haven't really been posting lately.
It actually kind of started at the end of last year when I really just lost the inspiration
to create new content for my blog.
Which was really weird, because I've been blogging for I think about 6 years now - since
2011 I think?
Possibly even the end of 2010; I'm not sure anymore…
So, for me to run out of things to talk about, especially on this subject which is something
that I can talk for days about without even taking a breath, it was really weird.
But something was clearly off and in my last blog post, which was a while ago, I was trying
to figure that out.
I was trying to share what I was going through and I thought maybe it was the whole video
thing, that I just didn't really want to be doing video anymore.
And I didn't want to be standing in a little room, you know, by myself with camera equipment
and lights, and the camera, and just sort of talking into the ethers.
And I thought maybe that was a problem, so let me get back to writing, because writing's
always been my inspiration.
And then I wrote that one blog post and then I wasn't inspired again.
So, most of you know that I went to Peru on one of my annual big spiritual leveling up
trips this year, and I'd obviously had a lot of insights from that.
And one of the insights that I had from that has actually been coming in, in deeper and
deeper layers and it's finally dawned on me what this is all about.
Because I love creating content.
I love talking about the law of attraction and reality creation, and I love helping people
to be empowered.
And yet for some reason I wasn't able to publish.
And it really kind of got frustrating, which is always a good sign, because just as you're
hitting frustration, you know that you're about to pop, so…
I got frustrated and then, FINALLY, I popped, so…
My blog has gone through a lot iterations, and for those of you, bless your little puppy
hearts, who have been with me for years, you'll have seen this.
And I did this quite publicly.
So when I first started, I published 3 times a week.
And then at some point, I couldn't keep that up anymore so I went to twice a week.
And a lot of people kind of went thank God, because my blog posts were really long and
really in-depth.
And it was a little hard keep up to keep up with, apparently.
And at some point I had to scale back and go to once a week, because my coaching practice
was just hoppin' to the point where I just could not… did not have the time to publish
that often.
And then I went to videos, which was another challenge, but also really, really fun.
And I started to kind of do more Q&A things where I was actually publishing answers to
peoples' direct questions, which was also really, really fun.
And at some point, I had to stop answering emails directly.
I brought in somebody else.
You guys, most of you, know Tina, my lovely sister.
She works in my business and she's also coaching.
But this was the start of her journey.
I kind of brought her in to help me answer a lot of those emails, and I just had to scale
back and scale back and scale back.
Because there was just no way to keep up with it all and so, I had to make some tough decisions.
But what has really occurred to me, is that I scaled back a little too much on something
really important.
Or rather perhaps it wasn't too much at the time, but it is now, and I want to scale it…
front again?
I don't know.
[laughs] Scale back, scale front.
So, and that is the engagement.
The engagement with you guys, you know, because after a while you sort of take a step back,
and take a step back, and you have to, like I said, because the overwhelm-ment of like
too much stuff, too much work, too many emails, too many questions.
You have to try to create some kind of a way to handle as much as possible and serve as
many people as possible.
But, I kind of missed you guys.
Oh, not even kind of.
Like super SUPUER missed you guys.
And so, it isn't realistic that I answer every single email that I get.
It isn't realistic that I do all one on one work and that I can talk to everybody
one on one.
But something that dawned on me is that it is realistic that I can do this through video
in a different way from how I've been doing it.
And this is what has been bothering me – it's that I was sort of talking at you, I guess.
I was teaching.
I was so in the teaching mode that I wasn't really having a conversation with you.
If that makes sense.
So, I wasn't really sharing myself completely.
I was sort of in the teacher mode, hoping to convey information.
And I'm not down on myself.
I'm not saying that I was doing a bad job or anything like that.
But taking it to the next level means that I want to have more conversations with you.
I want more back and forth.
And I want to let you guys in more than I have been, which means that I'm not going
to be in my little video studio talking about some specific topic.
I'm just going to be talking with you about whatever's going on, and whatever insights
happen to come in.
And whatever I feel like talking about.
And, you know, what I've discovered…
I was at this conference a couple of weeks ago.
It's a business conference, but a very soulful one.
And there was a wonderful woman, I didn't catch her name, but she was just a wonderful
soul who was there for me.
She thought I was there for her, but she was really there for me.
And she was having a really tough time.
She'd been triggered by something, and she came up to me, and she said "will you help
me?", and she was crying.
And I said, you know, "of course", and I was able to kind of talk her through it.
I gave her a big hug and she felt a lot better.
For me, since Peru, it's all been about opening up more and letting go of all kinds
of walls that I might have, all kinds of defensive mechanisms.
Which, as an energy worker, is kind of a scary thing to do.
I kind of had to figure out, you know, what's the difference between letting go of all defensive
mechanisms and not having boundaries.
And I can talk more about that, if you want, in a subsequent video.
But…
I found more of that balance.
Because, as I was talking to this woman, and after I hugged her and sent her on her way,
I realized just what an absolute privilege it is, I reconnected with the feeling of what
an absolute privilege it is to be the person, to GET TO be that person for a lot of people.
The person that you come to, the person that you listen to, OMG, the person that you know
is going to make you feel better.
That is…
Ok… that is just such a privilege for me.
I was not expecting that.
And so I want to thank all of you guys.
For being that… for being that mirror for me.
For being there for me.
You know, I'm not just there for you, you're there for me.
And I need you just as much as you need me.
If not more.
And um, I think I kind of lost touch with that a little bit.
[Laughs] Yeah, none of this is getting edited out.
[laughs] So, I am challenging myself, it's part of a business master mind that I'm
a part of, I'm challenging myself to do a 30 day video challenge.
Which means that I'm going to publish a little video like this once a day for 30 days.
They're not going to be long videos, necessarily.
I'm not going to cry in every single one of them [laughs], don't worry.
But I think we're going to have a lot of fun.
And this is the direction that I really feel is the one that I want to take now.
It's to let you guys in more.
And hopefully you'll do the same.
Well, actually, a lot of you do let me in, so, it's kind of up to me to let you in
more.
But, hopefully you're in, you know?
And so, let me know what you think about this new direction in the comments.
I can't wait to hear from you guys.
Because, I want to have more conversations with you.
I want to have more engagement with you.
I'm showing up in a bigger way.
And you know what?
Maybe you what you can tell me is how do you want to challenge yourself to show up in a
bigger way?
I know that's not an easy question to answer.
God knows.
But, how do you want to show up in a bigger way.
I'd love to hear it.
Or any other thoughts that you have.
So… phew!
So, this is Melody Fletcher signing off a very unexpected little release of a video.
Thank you guys.
Thank you for bringing your light to the world.
I'll see you tomorrow.
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The Goth Mum Tag by Avelina De Moray & ReeRee Phillips - Duration: 11:43.It's Avelina De Moray here &
welcome back to my channel today is a
exciting video because we will be
starting the Goth Mum
TAG, now this kind of was conceptualized
by ReeRee Phillips And I, so you will see
me (and shortly on her channel) ReeRee
doing this video , and we're hoping to
kind of spread it out to the Goth
subculture and allow all mothers to do it
and we're very curious for everyone jump
aboard and see what their views are on
being a mom in this gothic subculture as
well so let's get right into it the
first question we've written us
handwritten questions here by what if do
we force our kids to wear black either
and I think my kids are a little bit too
young I could steal who is two and a
half and London is 10 months old so no I
don't force them to wear black they they
are very colorful at the moment with
what they wear and black is hard to find
and occasionally when I go into a store
and I see some like kind of Halloween
baby like romper sort of they call
onesies I kind of go nuts and fire them
up sorry I see like a black guy Tamayo
puts it because I think it's cute their
entire water is not black contrary to
popular belief question number two is do
we force our children to listen to metal
or rock and rollers you kids are calling
it the you see I won't use the word
force that's a little a little harsh but
obviously they're going to be influenced
by what they hear around the house apart
from Type O Negative which is the only
thing that we allow in our jukebox
we like to listen to a lot of different
types of music so to answer the question
again I'm going to say no I don't but
yeah they hear a lot of cool music
because we're obviously into metal and
rock and roll but it's not force hey
I've seen Wiggles
you know that shit's contagious I get in
a big black car that's not black is it
if I wrote it it would be to Jennifer
Joseph secret when we put our son to
sleep we Johnny on life at the Acropolis
in Greece that is phenomenal he loves
that me Falls to sleep really well it's
got a lot of interesting instruments a
lot of weird time signatures so I like
to think that we're broadening his
thousands and musical tastes too not
only to speak metal and recommend
question number three is what is my
favorite alternative clothing brand for
my children um I can't really like I can
name a few but I've only bought like one
item from them and that would be from
spiral direct I think they are somewhere
in Europe possibly Germany but I bought
a little black onesie that had a baby
fat on earth drinking a little a little
bottle filled with blood and it looks
like wrong and as soon as I found out I
was pregnant I coaches out into school
oh sorry you didn't work to my inner
Scott but yes usually that's the only
thing I bought I just like to dress my
kids cool you know I buy a little
leather jackets and stuff like that yes
but it's black that's the one black item
I have but the specific alternative
clothing brands for children are very
very few we're talking four five six
times the price of things that you can
buy your local western US or whatever
your supermarket is in your country so
yeah I just prefer to survive and all
things that are available at
supermarkets okay the next question is
do we want to have any more baby backs
in our family
and I feel like we're not done so I
guess the answer is yes although I'll be
completely honest and that I did not
enjoy being pregnant at all
I think it's glamorized by a Hollywood
and there's a lot of things that I don't
enjoy about it so give me wrong I love
being the baby kick inside and
everything but there's a lot of elements
that I would just like to fast forward
to see I don't think we've done well I
think we might preserve licensing
schools but right now I am enjoying not
being pregnant
question number five is have you or have
your children at our experience
negativities due to the way that I dress
I can't say that I have people in the
new town that I'm in a very friendly
they will start up a conversation with
pretty much like a poll I haven't come
across anything like that in my new son
in my old town um I did get a few
comments so that was pretty like having
babies so it was more that the way that
I dressed
I forgot in general
not really relating at all to seeing a
mother or having children I can't say
I've ever been out with the kids and had
any negative experience I know when I
was facing two very Philip she said
there has been a career situations that
I've really bugged her and I'm sure
she'll speak about when she does her
video but so far I haven't had any next
question do you hope that your kids will
follow in your stylistic footsteps when
they come of age oh yeah I mean raka
Ralph's cool right I kind of like fusing
gothic with rock'n'roll it's like my
favorite movie Queen of the Damned is
the perfect vision of vampires and rock
and roll and that's kind of the
aesthetic that I like you know like new
gothic welcome holders a jacket set yes
I definitely heard that that is
something that they're in third but
again I weren't pushed upon them and how
I found it was very natural and organic
I would prevail it would be the same for
them as well again it's on quite a lot
I'm going to have to read it without the
paper here Sequoyah eric draven from the
crow if you haven't watched that movie
watch it immediately immediately mother
is the name of God on the lips and
hearts of all children do you think it's
important to be a positive strong role
model for your children we kind of
weren't sure we should include this
question because it's like of course the
answer is yes and that's for all mothers
not just like classic ones I think we
included it because they might be able
to speak about about that the steamer of
depression and drug use and alcoholism
being attached to this look apparently
which isn't the case so I'd like to
break those molds those pigments right
away by saying I do not I hardly drink I
don't like the taste of alcohol I will
occasionally have some absence so what I
when I do what I go hard or go home
I can't drink bourbon I just supplies
the smell of the air I didn't drink
coffee I've seriously never tried any
hardcore drugs I've never even tried
weed I tried smoking when I was 14 and
completely hated it I've had it for a
week so to try to fit in with these
girls of school but
so I'm about as left the field of that
stereotype as you can get maybe that's
why my complexion is so nice because I
am a drug-free alcohol-free individual
but yeah it's incredibly important to be
a strong female role model for kids
especially with the technology era that
we're in right now is like texting and
like texting from my childhood it's
sexting that is something that worries
me when my kids again come of age and
how do we control that and when is it
the right time for them to get mobile
devices there's a lot of things that
worry me but I think just trying to have
a close relationship with your child and
showing them love and affection daily
and telling them that they have strong
independent creative creatures is a step
in the right direction and just be
involved in their life you know never
ever make them feel like what you're
doing is more important than what they
need you know if they come up to your
mother no mind me I always drop what I'm
doing and I turn my attention to steal
for London they're everything again next
question is what do children think is
that the way that you dress well I can't
really say for London because there's
any ten months old and I think he's a
little bit too young to afford some
opinions I'm not just yet but still I
guess at the same time it's kind of hard
to know what he thinks because like this
is normal this is how mommy looks but it
is really cute when I get all done up so
when I'm like barefaced putting my
makeup on he's just suddenly taking an
interest to make up a sick you and
you're going right in like then you come
up and like try to take my matte
lipstick off and like put his fingers on
my lips and I try to put it on his lips
and and just yesterday while really was
here he went over to my makeup covered
which he called the laundry my makeup
says and opens the sock drawer started
to get out the lipsticks and this is
embarrassing for his 26 but he put some
red lipstick I just thought that was
adorable and he wanted black eyes like
mommy so again to them it's normal but
like
I've seen some people were really
inappropriate clothing where the grooves
and butts are hanging out and you know a
little bit of black has never killed
anyone right okay the next question is
have your children ever felt well do you
ever feel like you embarrass your kids
again mine might be a little too young
to kind of answer this so this would be
more appropriate if you have older
children so this would be fun for weary
because I know Misha is six years old
and is communicating better and things
like that but still love this I love him
so much so I think he knows that like
mummy and daddy drill a little
differences some other mummy and daddys
but he doesn't think it's a weird and
like even that's true he sees through
that you know it's about how we interact
with each other it's not about what's on
the outside and I already think that
two-year-olds so the very nice
personality traits I have to see what's
inside and the last question number ten
is as a cough mother in the subculture
community can you offer any advice to
other mothers out there that's true to
one I could kind of go in a bit of a
rant that I don't want to just love your
kids be yourself
let them know that it is okay to be
yourself and that everyone needs to find
their own path in life you know if
that's applying a little bit more black
makeup then than other people and if
it's listening to Marilyn Manson that's
fine just love your children teach them
that it's okay to be independent to
teach them that it's okay to be
themselves and really support their
creativity see if they show a flair for
years ago whatever the interest I'll
just take an interest in their interest
and support them and I think you'll
never tell your child that you love them
enough to tell them everything yes it is
more it will in their 30 I'm never doing
at the scale I'm go to be like a big man
let me hug you okay so this is so much
fun it's really quite strange to think
that RiRi and I are starting a tag video
from scratch so I know that to start is
we need to tag three people I didn't do
my homework because I can't come up with
three other women that I'm or have
children
friends with our in the golf subculture
that's terrible I need to make your
friend so obviously number one that a
tag is RiRi Phillips you'll see this
figure on her channel very soon
the second one I would like to tag is a
very interesting character absorb that
breath I love you girl and I hope you
either see my video or various video and
that you do this tag we will put the
questions below I seriously cannot think
of a player so please comment below if
you know some of the girls ones that you
think might be interested in doing this
video if you are one yourself if you're
going to start up a YouTube channel or
you have a channel please do it please
tag us in it or send it to us I'm RiRi
and I would love to watch it we'll post
the questions below so you can easily
start the tag video yourself I think
it'll make a very cool tag video would
be lots of fun if it went viral so yeah
please comment below if you've enjoyed
this video remember to press that like
button that algorithms important share
the video and let me know what else
If you're an alternative parent, why not
Enjoy the Goth Mum Tag
And maybe do the Goth Mom tag yourself!
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Video: Possible morning shower, skies clear later - Duration: 2:21.ERE IS THE
WIND OFF THE WATER AT EIGHT
MILES AN HOUR.
THIS TIME OF FEAR WITH THE COOL
OCEAN YOU GET AN EASTERLY WIND,
IT CANNOT BE THAT WARM SO YOU
SEE ALL ACROSS EASTERN MASS IT
IS COOL.
PLYMOUTH SOUTH IS WARMER.
HARFORD IS A LITTLE WARMER.
SO IS ALBANY AND THE BERKSHIRES.
THAT IS HELPING SOME
THUNDERSTORMS TO SURVIVE TO
ABOUT THE BERKSHIRES BEFORE THEY
RUN INTO COOLER AIR IN EASTERN
MASS.
THEY WILL WEAKEN QUITE A BIT.
THAT IS THE WIND DIRECTION
THERE.
TEMPERATURES WILL GO UP TOWARD
DON AND -- TOWARD SUNRISE AND
THE AFTERNOON SHOULD FEATURE
SUNSHINE AND NICE WEATHER.
STILL 76 IN THE NATION'S
CAPITAL.
THERE WERE TORNADO WATCHES AND A
FEW WARNINGS, A SEVERE
THUNDERSTORM WATCH IN EFFECT
TILL MIDNIGHT.
ALL OF THIS WILL NOT TRANSLATE
THROUGH ALL OF OUR AREA BECAUSE
OF THE WEAKENING AFFECT OF THE
STORMS.
FOR THE MOMENT, THEY ARE PRETTY
HEFTY.
RIGHT THROUGH RUTLAND, NEWMONT
-- VERMONT, AND ACROSS SOUTHERN
VERMONT AND THE BERKSHIRES WE
COULD STILL HAVE LIGHTNING,
THUNDER, GUSTY WINDS WITH THOSE
DOWNPOURS.
THE LIGHTNING IS FOLLOWING THOSE
STORMS.
AS IT MOVES EASTWARD IT WILL
HAVE A WEAKENING AFFECT.
THE FRONT WILL COME THROUGH
BEFORE TOMORROW AFTERNOON,
TOMORROW AFTERNOON WILL FEATURE
WARMER AND DRIER WEATHER AND WE
TURN COOLER AND BREEZY FOR
WEDNESDAY.
HERE COME THE STORMS THAT THERE
IS THE WEAKENING TREND.
THEY WILL BE SCATTERED SHOWERS
AND IF YOU'D -- A FEW DOWNPOURS.
THERE IS YOUR AFTERNOON SUNSHINE
AND THE TEMPERATURE RESPONDS
MOVING UP INTO THE 70'S.
TOMORROW WILL BE AN ABOVE
AVERAGE DAY.
POLLEN COUNT LOWER BUT BACKUP IN
THE DRY WEATHER WEDNESDAY AND
THURSDAY.
WEDNESDAY BREEZY AND COOLER.
THURSDAY A BEAUTIFUL DAY.
NEXT WEATHER HEADACHE, FRIDAY.
A GOOD DEAL OF FRAME -- RAIN AS
THIS STORM COMES UP.
THAT WILL GIVE US AN INCH PLUS
OF RAIN.
SATURDAY A SPOT SHOWER.
COOLER ON SUNDAY AND SIGNS OF
COOL WEATHER FOR NEXT WEEK AND
POSSIBLY A LITTLE BIT INCLEMENT
AT TIMES AS WELL.
IT WILL BE READY HARD TO LOCK
INTO A BEAUTIFUL WEATHER
PATTERN.
WE WILL HAVE TO DREAM OF NICER
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