men and women are two different types of creatures that can not be separated to build a civilization. Without
good cooperation between them, the new generation may not be there. as the word of God that he created man
pairs:male and female. "The best among you is the most kind to his wife, and I was the
best to my wife. "(Hadith History. Bukhari and Muslim) women are better said in one hadith is that
shalihah, but on the other hand also described the that the good man is able to treat his wife (woman) well.
From here we are able to understand that God is Just One is majestic. Men are not created to torture women
or vice versa. But often, in the real world we meet a man (husband) can not treat her well.
Whatever the reason, it can not be justified. Is not his mother is also a woman. Whether the relevant
like if her mother or sister or daughter treated inhumanely as he treats his wife?
So, what are the signs of a husband who does not appreciate his wife? .. 1. Feeling "male" Feel superior just because he was male.
Though no one knew would be born as a male or female. That it means anyone not entitled to feel
arrogant. Everything is because of Allah. 2. Do not make a living when able
providing for clothes in a good way. "(Abu Dawud)
"Men are in charge of women because Allah has preferred some of them (men) over others
(Women) and because they (men) spend out of their property. "(Annisa:34)
"Let the person who is able to give a living according to his ability. And the narrowed rizkinya let give
a living from what God has given him. Allah does not impose the burden to someone but (just) what you have
God gave him. Allah will soon give spaciousness after narrowness. "(Ath-Thalaq:7)
Liabilities husband gave the family income ACCORDING TO CAPABILITY is MANDATORY. If in a mediocre condition that men should
responsible for feeding their families, especially if excessive.
Thus, a husband who will not give a living when the husband is not able to appreciate his wife more so himself.
Na'udzubillah...
3. Comparing his wife with another man's wife or ex
"Look at that deck, he could make money at home despite only wrote,"
"You really can not get white as he is, anyway," For a wife who feels so smooth
words husband as it was a slap. Wives feel unappreciated when it was trying to give the best. When Bila
also want to provide feedback to the wife should not have to carry the names of third parties ... 4.
Always say, "That's really your job!" aka not want to know
The husband and wife are a solid team. It should be complementary and understanding, and not being bodo very "well, I've
my job, already point! ".. 5.
Do not keep yourself and your heart Photographs selfie both so familiar with
Another woman, a reply-reply message using the words of affection, even to go out alone with the opposite sex
whereas baseball is no matter anything. Some of these are examples of husbands who can not keep themselves and heart, did not appreciate his wife.
In fact, not only the wife who should have been prosecuted for keeping themselves, but also her husband.
6. Galak with my wife, kind and considerate to strangers
Yet the logic that with someone else should be good, especially with my wife . 7.
Rehash gift to his wife
whereas the husband's success can not be separated from his wife prayer. Proverb says "behind a great man, there is a great woman,"
And again, all just deposited. Why cocky just because given the opportunity more. What if the condition several years
the next turn:bankrupt husband, wife triumphed. What a shame baseball husband?
"Unto him the keys of the heavens and the earth, He enlarges rizki for anyone He wills and narrow it,
Indeed, He is Knower of all things, "(Asy- Syuura:12) .
8. Do not want to work, slacker, and see the entire affair to wife
"Verily, Allah likes the servants who work and skilled. Anyone who bothered to make a living for his family then
He is similar to a mujahid in the path of Allah Almighty wajalla. "(Hadith History. Ahmad)
"Among the sins that can not be deleted (redeemed) with the reward of prayer, pilgrimage and alms but they can only be redeemed
with in making a living. "(Hadith History. Athabrani)
9. physical and psychological violence Two things are obviously could be fatal. When
Physical violence may still could soon disappear, but not with the psychic. Trauma wounds caused by psychological violence can not be
easily lost in an instant. It could even affect to children.
10. Do not let his wife go forward, underestimate wife
Well, how. No wonder her husband's baseball air-attitude like that? During the positive and wife do for the good of the family, the husband should
support.
Ummi companions, if today we are a mother, I hope we can educate our boys well in order to someday be
glorify his wife.
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