Thứ Tư, 22 tháng 2, 2017

Waching daily Feb 22 2017

I would like to talk about death. Death...I

bet you're dying to talk about this.

I am dying to talk about this.

Somebody emailed... one of the Free

Members and he was saying that his

father has been trying to die for a long

period of time and he just can't seem to

let go. So this man was asking how can

I help my father leave? Death is a really

interesting topic. It's to great extent not what

most people think it is. But in this case

it's a very interesting thing because

people are trying to get out of their

body. But to get out your body you need a level of

energy... your energy to spark you out of

the body. And what happens

life... being really simple is we give our energy

away. It's I love you and so we give energy way

you love me, you get in my space, I get in

your space. But more specifically it's an

aspect of why did she do that... and he

shouldn't have done that... and I think

this... and

you're bad and this is good. It's actually very

interesting, it's like throwing little

darts with strings on them that says you

should do this

and somebody throws a dart back at me

and says you're not a nice person and

these exchanges of energy go back and

forth all the time all through our life. But

when you get to the point of dying

you need a certain amount of energy

in your space. So a lot of times people try

to get out of the body but they are

weighed down. By all these little darts. By

these energies of other people and can't

get out. And their weighed down because they

don't have enough

of their own life force in their body to

make the decision to step out of the

body. And so one of the things that a

person can do is actually really

important is call your energy back from

that person.

Now this gets complicated because people

say, but I loved and I don't want them to

go. Well it's the I don't want them to go

that in their space that becomes the

weight that they can't out of. So there

is a set of things that you can do to

begin to step out of this. It's not complicated, like

anything else, if you don't know the

answer the question becomes very

complicated. But once you know the answer

it's rather straightforward and simple.

I'll talk about that in that next section.

Ok, so in other words this man can do the

work on his end and can make separation from

his dad even though his dad doesn't know anything

about tools or how to make separation and

that will still work to help his dad to let go.

Oh absolutely, it's beginning to understand

what it's all about.

Once you understand how death works in this

context giving somebody room and even

helping them as their body is something that

becomes very accessible to a person in

that space of assisting.

Good, that's helpful. So if I have someone

in my life is dying and they're

struggling and they can't seem to leave

the body what can I do one my side to

assist them. Well you can get out of their space.

Now that's a funny comment to make

because most people don't recognize

'space' or being in somebody else's space

in this content. And it's my mother, father, wife,

husband so you're telling me to get out

of their space. Yes, actually

so what happens is I love you so much,

well most people don't understand from

an energy standpoint that a lot of times

you're you're feeling is different than

your energy in a way and so we try to

project that feeling over into another

person. Oh love you... but we put our

energy over there,

the reality is I love you is over here

not over there but once we start giving

and then we get angry after awhile, you

did this

so all of those variations of energy we

throw at people, we put in people, we give

to people, but its our energy in their

space. And so when somebody's right at

that point dying they're trying to get

out of the body but all of everyone

else's energy in their space is a weight, so

as an individual understanding that you

loving them, in fact in this case

isn't helping them. So it's not about

stop loving them

it's simply about call your energy back

and in Mastering Alchemy there is a tool, you just

create a rose and allow...

I mean very simply give the direction

to the rose to start collecting you up,

call you back.

It doesn't mean I don't love you, I don't

care about you.

It simply means I'm getting out of your space

so you can begin to step out of the body.

So Jim, how does forgiveness fit in with a

person process of dying?

Forgiveness is a very interesting

word... in kind of in our walking around

three dimensional space where most people walk

this concept of forgiving relates to

guilt and blame to a great extent

also so people people feel guilty or

people blame somebody and they hold on to

this concept of their wrong or I'm wrong

and then the next question is if I could

forgive myself I would be freed up of this.

So what happens though it's hard to

consider forgiving yourself is something

that many people have a challenge with and so

when it comes to dying... again you need a

certain amount of energy of your own in

your body to create the spark that

allows you to leave.

And so when you hold on to words like

guilt and blame and can't forgive

yourself

you've got this turmoil of energy going

on in the body that begins to be

inconclusive and so when you watch

somebody just lying there for a long

time they are trying to get out of the

body but they're really in their

consciousness and very much in there

unconscious wrapped up in... I didn't do it right or

if they only... my life life would have been

better if she would have married that one

instead.

And so you've got all this motion going

on of which most of it has absolutely

nothing to do with your reality other

than your more or less carrying these rocks

in your backpack. And so this question of

forgiveness begins to come up very much

right at the last minutes of death and

how that basically happens is your now

starting to leave the body, the souls

calling you out of the body, and as you begin to

do that many of the non-essential,

unimportant little moments in life start

to evaporate, disappear you start to

become more focused on you, how you have

your life, what's going on in a way. But

even more you begin to step into these

layers of the higher realms where you go

home. And in those layers forgiveness,

blame and guilt and judgment they mean nothing,

they don't even play out in that space. So the

person starts to leave the body

well before they look like they're

actually at the moment of death and they

begin to get out and they begin to see

let's call it heaven and they begin to

start to have their beauty of heaven, it's a

smile and wonderfulness of heaven and

it's so exciting... that energy... that paying

attention to my ills, and my I didn't

forgive, and I was a bad person,

this all fall away and that person

starts to leave the body more and more.

But many times it's like I can't go until

I am complete, or I can forgive them,

or they come and say they forgive me.

That's where you watch somebody just

lying there lingering, lingering and

lingering and so again that tool of

creating a rose in your mental image

making and starting to call your energy

back from that person space. You don't

know what it is necessarily sitting in

their space but if you are one of those

burdens in their space and if you were

sitting there saying I should forgive

them and I want him to forgive me.

What happens is you're an anchor

to not allowing them to get out.

It's really calling your energy back. Give

back to them what is theirs, take back

what is yours...

forgive them for their trespasses as its

said and forgive me for mine and you

create this separation to where they can

begin to choose how they wish to move on.

Very good. So I understand the importance

of making separation from someone as

their dying. I can do that but what

about my other my sisters and his wife

and friends and everybody else that has

these hooks in him? That's a challenge

and it's kind of called life. Your

obligation is about you. Period. You can't

fix,

heal, change, direct another person if

they don't want to be in that changed

space. Same thing with the person dying you

can't fix them. What you can do is remove

your energy from their space, continue

loving them, you know of that's your issue but you're

not unloving them, you're not taking away

from them,

you're not withdrawing from them, you're

not abandoning them in that case you are

simply calling back what is yours but in

regard to other people

there's you can communicate that to

other people that you're in their space

and that's causing them a challenge...

mostly people don't understand that. But

especially for people who are beginning

on this journey and starting to

understand what we're talking about here,

starting to recognize that you can

change your own life in lots of

different ways. As you begin to become

more conscious of being conscious in

your own evolution the ability to then

communicate that to the person who's

dying allows them to begin to make an

understanding in their space. See, if a

person is dying... you're dying and you

understand that giving back to others

their energy and taking back yours is the

doorway to stepping out of the body comfortably.

Then you can choose to give back to them

what is theirs. But trying to teach somebody

else that or do it for them... doesn't work

that way, you can't do this for them, you

can't help them die by staying in their

space or wishing everybody else would

get out of their space. It's

really where you can educate the person

dying or where for yourself you can

understand how this is working. There is

other opportunities here were you... as you

begin to understand these higher

dimensions and your relationship with

the higher dimensions the

ability to call in the angels of death at

that point which people hear is a bad

thing, it's actually quite spectacular.

They're there to help that person let go

of their burdens, their guilt's, their

blames, their judgments, their bad deeds,

if you would... and really forgive

themselves to the place call back their

energy to assist them stepping out of

the body. They're very, very important to

dying and yet most people can't have

enough awareness to simply connect with

those angels of death and have that

experience of these higher realms and the

beauty that's there and simply step out

the body. So it's a very involved thing

on one hand, death is very simple on the other.

Nice, nice.

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How to Coloring and Drawing Ashima ♦ Thomas and Friends ♦ Coloring pages with Thomas and Friends - Duration: 12:50.

My little friends, today we have a special lesson!

Why?

Because we are drawing a lady train - Ashima!

She works in India under very dangerous conditions!

But Ashima is always happy, cheerful and ready to help!

Ok, let's get to drawing!

First of all, let's draw Ashima's platform.

First line...then another one and then we connect the lines together.

Yeah, good job!

Platform is ready!

Ok, then i will go on and start drawing Ashima's cabin at the back.

Line after line… connect them together.

And there is also a door right here.

THere we go!

Next move is drawing the roof of the cabin.

A couple of smooth lines and then a small window.

After this I will add a special yellow box on the right side.

It will just look like several small squares.

One by one.

Don't stop, keep on drawing…

Good job!

Now i will draw a small area of her body right before the engine.

And here im about to draw Ashima's face.

IM starting from the contour of an oval shape, then her eyebrows, beautiful lady's eyes,

nice nose and smiling mouth.

So, right above her head i will draw a big headlight.

Then right behind it we have a smokestack.

And after this i will draw a sand dome.

Some more corrections on the bottom…

And here i am switching to Ashima's couplers on the front…

Just two circles.

Nothing difficult.

And below we have a buffer.

Some more line…

Here we go…

And now i will draw Ashima's interesting ornaments on the front and on the left from

the couplers.

Yeah, I keep on drawing…

Here i am returning to Ashima's engine.

I will just add some fancy lines on it.

My following move is to draw the land and then Ashima's driving wheels.

Not just two or three but five nice round wheels!

Here im connecting them together.

Great job!

So, here im coming back to the cabin to add some more details.

Then some fancy lines on the sand dome and on the chimney.

Alrighty!!!

It seems like we are all ready to start coloring Ashima in various bright colors!

ok, the first color is blue.

BLUE. iLL use it for the platform, contours of the cabin, couplers, driving wheels and

the sand dome.

Alright, next color is a very bright pink.

PINK.

Some people call it fuchsia.

It will go for the cabin from both sides, upper part of

the cabin, a little for the headlight, then for the smokestack, sand dome, under Ashima's

head, then under the couplers.

Well, this not it.

I am going to use some more pink for the engine and, finally, for the body.

хух!

We are done with pink color.

My next color is orange.

ORANGE.

I'll make a little curve on the engine, then just a bit on the front, for the special

box on the side, sand dome and for the engine.

Alrighty!

We finished with orange and let's go on with a grey color.

GREY.

Where do you think we have to use it??

Right!

For Ashima's face!

Good job!

After grey i am using black color.

BLACK.

i WILL use some of it for the engine, smokestack, for the engine again.

Then for the roof, cabin, cab door, area jsut above the wheels and the very front part.

Ok, done with that!

Yuhoo!

Now im ready to use green color.

GREEN.

First i will use it to make Ashima even more beautiful.

Then orange again, but just a tiny bit.

Some dark blue for the wheels.

Can i use some more black color again?

It's just for the smokestack.

Excellent!

Yellow color comes next!

YELLOW! it will go for the headlight, a tiny bit for the cabin, front part and the smokestack.

Ok, my young ladies and gentlemen!

We are all done at this point!

Ashima is looking fabulously beautiful thanks to you!!

So, stay with us and we will teach you to draw all your favorite trains!!!

Good bye!

Ill see you in our next videos!!

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The Evolution of the Selfie - Duration: 6:49.

>> ALEX: Hey guys!

I'm here, let's get technical.

Did you know that the average millennial could take over 25,000 selfies in his or her life?

It's one of the most popular... oh, one sec, let me just post this to my story.

But, in the midst of all these duck faces and Kardashians, have you ever thought to

yourself, what is the history of the selfie?

What was the first selfie, and how did it get to what it is today?

Well, today, we'll answer that question by looking at... the evolution of the selfie.

<MUSIC>

So, a good place to start is "What is the First Selfie?"

Well, depends.

As you might have guessed, what constitutes a selfie is pretty loose, so depending on

your source, you might get a couple different things, so I'll just go as far back as I

can.

The first self portrait was made by a guy named Parmigianino in 1524.

It was a oil painting of himself in a mirror in his studio

There are two types of mirrors: concave and convex mirrors.

Concave mirrors curve in, sorta like a bowl, and convex mirrors bulge out, sorta like a

ball.

In this painting, Parmigianino is looking into a convex mirror.

We can also see his hand near the outside of the frame, really adding to that selfie

vibe.

You know what, it kinda looks like a photo taken by those new Snapchat Spectacles.

Huh.

Huh.

HUH!

It's amazing the similarities between this photo and the modern day selfie.

For example, Parmigianino was 21 years old when took this selfie, a typical age for a

selfie taker, and, since it was made, the painting changed hands many times and many

people have seen it.

The og social media.

And with that, we are thrust into the age of the drawing selfie.

Leonardo Di Vinci sketched this lit selfie in the 1512.

It's known as the Portrait of a Man in Red Chalk.

Leo was 60 when he made this selfie, which makes sense, because if you're a selfie

taker over 40, you're empirically more likely to male.

Next we have Rembrandt in 1630, whose etched selfie is particularly famous for being, well,

duck faced.

Rembrandt is famous for making tons of other pictures in this style, even other selfies,

but this one is famous because of that sweet, sweet duck face.

I guess we now know that Rembrandt isn't Rembland.

AhhhhhI'm so sorry.

Everyone told me I should do that, but what is life you can't make cringy puns?

>> BO BURNHAM: #Deep

The first photo selfie was taken in 1839 by a guy named Robert Cornelius, who is credited

on Wikipedia as, and I kid you not, "an American pioneer of photography...

and lamp manufacturer."

To take this famous selfie, Cornelius had to set up his camera in his family's store

in Philadelphia, take off the lens cap, run into frame, stand there for a minute, and

then put the cap back on.

Can you imagine having to stand still for a minute just to take a selfie?

I mean, that would be like

Sidenote, Robert Cornelius raised 8 children.

What have you done today?

*singing* Famous Vincent Van Gogh selfie from 1889 yea!

And with that, we enter what I like to call, the lowkey age of Selfies.

No big advancements, and we're just kinda stalling until we get to the turn of the century.

It is important to note, though, that a lot of these selfies were taken with the help

of mirrors.

It's kinda like a forced motif.

It's a common thing that comes up in all of theses selfies, but because they kinda

have to be in them.

Sure, there were a couple handheld ones like selfies we know today, but those weren't

common because, well, old cameras were big, and were heavy, and, as shown in this photo,

took two hands to hold.

auss

Also, I want to shout out to this JKF selfie.

Beachy vibes my man.

The first selfies on a lightweight, handheld mobile device was taken on gameboys like this

one.

They have a high quality 256×224 camera, so you know it's team crispy approved.

The first camera phone was released in November of 2000.

It was the Sharp J-SH04, and granted, the camera wasn't great, but it definitely pioneered

the technology.

It was also around this time when the world "selfie" was created.

Now, as Ben Zimmer for Slate explains "it's very likely that there was no single moment

when the word was created, no Ur-selfie."

Right?

It's not like someone was magically like...

SELFIE!!

While we don't know exactly when it's from, we do know where it's from.

Australia!

In Australia around that time, it was popular to add the suffix -ie to things, like, someone

from Australia is an Aussie, or a barbeque is a barbie.

Thus, if you combine self with the suffix -ie, you get selfie.

The first phones with a front-facing camera were the Motorola A835 and Sony Ericsson Z1010,

man how phone names have changed.

These phone were released in the second half of 2003.

And, now that that was established, one thing led to another, and selfies blew up.

As this Google trend graph shows, between 2013 and early 2014 was the time when selfies

really blew up.

Selfies are, unsurprisingly, most popular in Australia, the birthplace of the word,

and America.

Selfies have been all over the place in recent years.

The most retweeted tweet of all time is Ellen Degeneres's Oscar selfie.

National Selfie Day is June 21st.

Yes, that's actually a thing.

Apparently.

50% of male college students and 77% of female college students have shared selfies on Snapchat.

On the date this video was made, over 288 million pictures have been posted to hashtag

selfie on instagram.

14% of selfies have filters, and 36% of selfie photographers have confessed they've altered

or edited their selfie.

And, as you probably know, Selfie was Oxford's infamous word of the year in 2013.

Currently, everyone from political figures to celebrities, to everyday people take selfies.

Selfies, whether you like 'em or not, are part of popular culture, and for good reason.

Not only are we innately fascinated with ourselves, humans are also very social animals.

We have to share ourselves and our lives with other people, and other people have to do

the same with us.

So, the next time you hit that button at the bottom of your phone, remember the rich and

extensive history behind these digital self portraits.

Until next time, DFTBA, thanks for watching, and explore on.

<MUSIC>

Congrats to Sugar Slice & A Pizza Slice for winning the Bruce biography giveaway.

I think I sent you a DM, but if you didn't get it, shoot me an email and I'll get this

shipped out there right away.

Thanks!

Congrats!

This video is part of a massive collaboration between a ton of educational youtubers.

Together, we look at the evolution of amazing things in our world.

Draw Curiosity asks "Why did two sexes evolve?", Conjecture asks "Why do facial expressions

evolve?", Alliterative asks "Why do word meaning evolve?", Art Explains asks "Why

would land animals evolve returning to the sea?", Soliloquy asks "Why does homosexuality

evolve?", and, of course, I look at how the selfie evolved.

If any or all of those video topics sound interesting to you, boom, there's a link

on screen to a playlist for you to check out.

There's also some other shenanigans and sub button and videos and see ya bye!

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Matching Tattoos Laten Zetten | Bianca - Duration: 5:44.

Hi everyone!

A Dutch spoken video for the first time.

I still have to get used to that.

I truly hope that you like the language change.

We think that it sounds much better like this, because our English wasn't perfect.

I also sounded like I came from Amsterdam somehow, which isn't really the case.

As Scy said, please let us know what you think!

Do you like our Dutch videos or would you rather see us talking English again?

Let us know, because we can use your feedback.

But my video isn't about the language change and what's going to change.

Last weekend I went to a tattoo shop with Jochem to get ourselves some 'matching' tattoos.

Take a look at how that went.

This is Jochem's tattoo and it's still wrapped in plastic.

Tonight we can wash it a bit with some water.

Tomorrow we can show you what it looks like.

Aaand this is my tattoo, also still wrapped.

We have unwrapped them now.

It's a couple of days later.

They don't look so gross as before.

I'm super happy with my tattoo!

We really wanted to get matching tattoos, but we didn't want to get the same thing.

We still wanted them to look unique and have a connection at the same time.

So I've chosen a Taurus with a mandala background.

I actually wanted to get this tattoo on my inner arm

but because I already have on right here it just wouldn't have looked good at the end.

And that's now what we want, so I was like okaaay just put it on the other side of my arm.

So yea that is what happened, as you can see..

I'm totally happy with this placement after all.

I think it looks cool here.

When he was tattooing near the inside of my arm it was really hurting me a lot

so I think the pain wasn't too bad with this placement.

What is actually the story behind this?

It's not important to me that every tattoo I get has a real meaning.

I also like to get tattoos that just look pretty to me.

It doesn't need to have a story.

This does have a story though.

I'm really into astrology stuff and Jochem and I are both Aquarians.

Why didn't we get Aqua tattoos then?

That is actually, because I have a lot of Taurus influences too

and Jochem has Aries influences

My moon and ascendant are in Taurus and Jochem has an Aries moon.

That's why I chose a Taurus who's planetary ruler is Venus.

The planet of love, the feminine.

Jochem chose an Aries who's planetary ruler is Mars, the planet of war, masculine.

So this is why we really liked this matching tattoo idea for us.

At the end we both got the same placement.

I think we were at the shop from 11 a.m. till 4 p.m. and it took 2 and a half hours for me

and Jochem 2 hours I think.

We're really happy that we've got them now and we can't wait to get another one.

I think that we'll be somewhere before summer begins.

I really hope you liked this video in Dutch!

Tomorrow is Renate's turn, for the first time on our channel aaand yea..

I will see you guys next week.

Byee!

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Q&A - Duration: 10:34.

- [Vanessa] Huh?

- Are you ready?

- Yeah, but I have to, I was...

Yeah, I'm ready. (laughs)

I'm ready! (laughs)

(upbeat music)

- I didn't want anything-- - Guys, welcome

to The Mom Files! - Yay!

Hi, guys!

Sorry. (laughs)

But look at my arm, my muscle.

- Yeah.

- It's pretty good right now.

- I see arm hair. (laughs)

- You do?

Is there arm hair?

- Is that deodorant working?

- Is it?

Do I stink? - Smells good.

This is our Mom Files.

We (laughs) obviously haven't filmed one

since the baby was born.

- Oh my gosh.

- But for that reason, we thought--

- We're having camera fever!

- For that reason, we thought we would do a Q&A,

'cause it's been a while,

we haven't done a Mom Files,

and it's gonna make a comeback right now.

- And we have a lot of new friends on social media, and--

- We have new friends.

- We have new friends, thanks for being our friends!

And so we want to share more about ourselves,

so you guys know what we're up to and who we are

and how we became who we are. - Okay, stop talking.

- All right.

- She talks a lot, so that's,

we're gonna roll right in the questions.

So who keeps things in control?

I do.

- No.

Please.

- What did you do before you were Vanessa and Melissa?

This is good.

- I don't know how you existed

before you were with me, but... (laughs)

So I worked in advertising sales for years,

so, in the film and TV industry,

and I sold advertising,

and I was in media sales, always.

- Yeah. And I was a sales manager for Blackberry.

Research and motion, it used to be known as.

I traveled all over the place doing that,

and then realized I couldn't do that anymore.

- We also both moonlighted in front of the camera--

- I love that you use that word, "moonlighted."

- I was a moonlighting actress and a host on...

That was always my passion, I wanted to be an actor.

- So that's why this works out.

- Yeah.

Well yeah, I mean, I wanted to be a VJ when I was in school,

but I just didn't think I'd be cool enough,

so this ended up working out. - You aren't.

- I wasn't cool enough. - Just kidding.

Yes you are!

Look at your hair! Look at this mama!

She's got a newborn and look at her hair.

She's cool.

- Yeah, I'm just trying.

- Yeah, you're cool. - So that's what we did

before we were Vanessa and Melissa,

and now we are just Vanessa and Melissa. (laughs)

- And now we don't know anything other than

Vanessa and Melissa. - Vanessa and Melissa.

- It defines every inch of our being.

- It's true. - Yep.

Who is bossier?

Well...

That's debatable, though.

- No it's not debatable! - Yes it is,

because you, when you were pregnant with Malachi, I--

- You can't use hormones.

- I know, but I'm just saying.

I can say it now, you have never been so bossy in your life.

That pregnancy, like, I was like,

I just kept my mouth shut the whole time.

- I wasn't that bad, babe.

- You were just really...

- And so now that I'm not pregnant,

she took the title back again.

- No, I think that we flip it a bit.

I think it goes back and forth,

and we're both strong personalities.

I just am more of like a outward person,

as far as like verbalizing everything,

and you're more of an inward.

- I give the look.

- (laughs) Yeah.

And when you're on the other end of the look,

(laughs) you run for your life!

- Do you podcast?

We don't, but we're gonna be doing some joint podcasts

with some cool people soon,

so we will make sure to share that on our site.

- Yes, watch the space, because we haven't done them,

but we will be.

- Yeah.

How do you juggle work-life balance?

You don't.

- Well, we do, we juggle it-- - I'm just kidding.

- But...

Like, it's just hard when the kids are sleeping,

so bedtime, nap time,

if our husbands are home,

if we can get a babysitter that day,

it's like every week, we don't know how it's gonna work,

but it ends up working.

- Go with the flow.

- Yeah.

We go with the flow, and we ask for help.

We get help.

- Yeah, and I think as well,

to be conscious of that balance,

because, you know, if social media

or work creeps into your life, you'll pay for it.

Husbands and kids will not like that.

- Yeah, and that's the one thing for Melissa and I,

our kids and our husbands always come first.

- Numero uno. - So no matter

what happens, we both know that.

They always come first.

Obviously, our business is a priority and really important,

but family first.

- But it's gonna mean some late night emails,

late night work. - Yeah.

- That kind of stuff for sure.

- There are some sacrifices, but we find it totally worth it

'cause we love what we do.

Texting me: Cereal, yogurt, egg, should I give her cereal?

My husband is texting me, (laughs)

'cause he doesn't know how to feed the baby,

so it's a lot of texting when

your husband's watching-- - That's work-life balance!

- Yeah, right there.

I'm like, "Feed her--

- We're trying to film right now.

"a yogurt and a hard-boiled egg."

Next question: Who is our mentor?

Well, I'll let you go first.

Do you have a mentor?

- I've definitely had some amazing mentors in my life.

There's this one gentleman named Vick,

and he's definitely sat with me for hours

for breakfasts and lunches and dinners,

and just talked me through things,

and I think it's important to talk to somebody,

and he's given us some-- - Yeah!

- great connections. - We've been lucky

with a lot of people who wanted

to mentor us in, well, our lawyer

has been a really good mentor to us,

- and talked a lot about-- - Which is crazy,

you wouldn't even think a lawyer is your mentor, but--

- Yeah, he's been amazing about different business aspects.

'Cause we got into this, we did have business background,

but this started as such a mommy love project

and the business element came afterwards,

and he really educated us a lot.

- And I think that that goes to that state that

if you are gonna be jumping into a business

and you don't know a lot,

we've definitely had some situations that were sticky,

and its been beneficial to have somebody

who's been there, done that

to talk you through. - But we've been very lucky.

We had a really good lawyer early on,

and we had a really good, we had Vick's help early on,

so we had some people in great positions mentoring us early,

and I would also say for me, I have two older sisters

who are really successful in media,

and, you know, we're sisters,

so we have our off moments and our on moments,

but in general, they've been good mentors for me.

- And really true, big picture,

all of the people in our world of social media

and mompeneurs and everything,

we feed off of all of those moms.

We get together and we have mom dinners and talk--

- Totally.

- With other women in this industry, and--

- Like, when we have our group girl dinners,

we leave feeling so inspired.

And, like, we learn stuff from them,

from their experience, we share our stuff,

so never devalue the community

that you have on social media

because you can learn so much from your peers.

- Any good learning games for your kids?

I don't play with my kids.

- You're not a player, huh?

- (laughs) - What do you mean?

What?

Actually, we just bought my daughter, for her birthday,

the, what's it called, the Leapfrog Epic Learning Device.

- Yeah, we have the Lilypad, yeah.

- Leapfrog Epic, and she really likes it

and it has a lot of cool learning apps on it.

- We're a big fan of games, like game night and stuff,

and I think you guys do too, right?

- Yeah.

- So we bought like Monopoly,

we have like a kids' version of that.

Another really good one is Pictionary

because it's really about imagination, play,

and I find like at any level,

the kids really get into it, so.

- I also love Scholar's Choice.

I don't know if there's-- - I don't know

if there's games there, but go to Scholar's Choice.

- No, I'm saying the workbooks, you know me and workbooks.

- That's not a game. She asked for games.

- Okay, I'm saying, but workbooks can be fun.

I give my kids workbooks

all the time. - Her daughter said

they're not fun.

- I'm a workbook mom. (laughs)

- They're only fun if you give them a treat

after the workbook.

- Do we ever fight?

We, we bicker.

(music drowns out speaking)

People, when they're around us sometimes,

will be like, "Do you guys really like each other?" (laughs)

We're like a married couple.

We love each other, but we bicker a lot.

(music drowns out speaking)

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And I'm so sorry.

(music drowns out speaking)

My sisters do it, too.

It's like a hereditary thing,

I cannot hide how I feel.

- And then I get mad.

- But if somebody is saying something

I don't agree with, or is just wrong,

it really comes over my face.

It's horrible, and it's just the way I am.

But we've had a couple of blow-outs.

- We definitely have.

- We've had some blow-outs,

but we survived,

and also, I will give you a tip.

(music drowns out speaking)

Don't text, stop texting...

(music drowns out speaking)

Yes, texting is so bad.

(music drowns out speaking)

But it's all good,

and you know--

- We're not gonna survive! (laughs)

- The thing is, though,

we started off not knowing each other,

and we started this business,

and it's been years now.

We've had to learn about each other,

and we did it,

and we still love each other. (laughs)

(music drowns out speaking)

- You don't.

(music drowns out speaking)

- But, I also did formula,

so I would give a bottle of

formula before bed. - Did that work?

- Yeah.

- Oh.

(music drowns out speaking)

The reason why it fills up

is because it takes longer to digest,

(music drowns out speaking)

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- I loved co-sleeping with my first,

I did it for six months.

I didn't do it with my other two

'cause they weren't interested,

but it's a beautiful thing if it works

and you do it safely.

- Ooh, post-baby body questions.

Exercise, how to get back in shape.

I'm gonna say that high-leveled answer

is consistency for both of us

- Okay, yes, yeah. - Right? Would you agree?

- Yes.

- There's no quick fix.

- No.

- It's like habits and it's behaviors.

- Yeah, like I think that we,

I exercised during my pregnancy, so did you,

not excessively, but walking.

But with my first two pregnancies I didn't exercise,

but I think it's just getting back on the wagon

and eating well and eating whole foods

and not denying yourself things

and getting into a yo-yo cycle, just be balanced.

- Yeah.

- I also think, though, post-baby body,

sometimes it can be a little harder

'cause you're breastfeeding

and you need more food and fuel,

so it's always, you have that, what's the input-output?

- Well, yeah, like you need to intake the same amount

that you're outputting in energy, right?

- But I don't think you should mess around

with your diet when you're breastfeeding.

- No, I agree. - In my opinion,

there's no such thing, and I hate

the word dieting anyway. - And I think if you're

working out too much,

if you're working out too much,

that can be too much. - Yeah,

you can affect your milk.

You shouldn't be doing like hot yoga

while you're breastfeeding.

There's certain things you shouldn't be doing

while you're breastfeeding,

but I just think it's balance, right?

And also for your mental health, with all the hormones,

just exercising: cardio, weight.

The one thing I found

that affected my body the most post-baby

was lifting heavy weights.

- Yep, I would agree with that.

- Honestly, I did my first--

- You're not gonna get bulky.

- No, you won't.

I did my first fitness contest ever in my life,

probably the only one I'll ever do,

right before I had Minnie,

and after I had Minnie,

I continued on with those kind of workouts,

and I, like, got firm-- - Bounced back.

- Really quickly.

- I think that I wanna close with:

it took you nine months to create that baby,

do not think it's going, ten months,

do not think that that baby weight's gonna fly off;

and do not compare yourself to other women

that maybe didn't gain that much weight

or it is flying off them,

'cause everyone's body's different.

- Everyone's different.

Like, you could weigh a hundred pounds normally,

and then when you're pregnant, you're two hundred pounds.

Like, everyone's just different

in the way their body metabolizes

and deals with pregnancy and breastfeeding.

So be kind to yourself.

Just be healthy.

- Totally.

Okay, that's our Q&A for our Mom Files this week.

- That's it, that's all.

- Yeah, we'll see you guys next week

on our Mom Files.

Bye! - Bye!

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Why does Homosexuality Evolve? - Duration: 7:03.

Gay people, they're falling in love, getting married, living happily ever after

or having kids.

Well not having kids in the conventional way,

they might adopt or make use of a surrogate or sperm donor

but their intimate behavior isn't conducive to reproduction.

The fact that homosexual sex doesn't lead to reproduction implies a cost on an individual's

fitness, defined in an evolutionary biology context

as the individual's ability to reproduce

and this presents an 'evolutionary paradox

So why does natural selection not drive homosexuality to extinction?

First we must realize is that being homosexual necessarily doesn't mean that you won't

have any children and pass on your genes.

Throughout history, and even today,

in many societies homosexual activity was fiercely discouraged.

Countless individuals with a preference for members of their own sex have entered

into heterosexual marriages, keeping their homosexuality

and associated activities, a secret

all while raising a family, passing their genes on to the next generation.

But if we eliminate culture and look towards animals we still find plenty homosexual activity.

From ducks to lions, to fruit flies, if a species has sex, members of that species have

homosexual sex.

For example, nine out of ten mountings in Giraffes have been observed between two males,

and in sheep research has found that eight percent of rams prefer a male partner

when given a choice.

It is very clear, that the presence homosexual behavior in a species is the norm

and not the exception!

However, if evolution is to be involved we must first ask ourselves;

does same-sex sexual behavior have a genetic basis?

To answer this we can turn to twin studies; if we compare genetically identical twins

with non-identical twins and pairs of identical twins are more likely to share a trait,

be it height, eye colour, or sexual preference, than non-identical twins are

we have found evidence of a genetic component.

And indeed, in the case of sexuality we do find that identical twins are more likely

to share sexual preferences than non-identical twins.

So the consensus here is that homosexuality does have a genetic component.

But before we look at why, a few caveats to keep in mind.

Human experimentation is … well … complicated … and animal studies are not much easier

when it comes to understanding the motives behind the behavior.

Furthermore, it's difficult to separate whether traits are caused by genetics

or the effects of such things like the pre-birth environment.

One last caveat before we look a little deeper, most of the research here has been concerned

with male homosexuality, we might assume that female homosexuality works in a similar way,

but that is just an assumption.

But that won't stop us from trying to understand this conundrum,

and we have a few hypotheses to look at.

To understand this you must know that you have two copies of each gene in your genome,

one from each parent, different copies of these genes have subtly different effects;

such as the difference between blue and brown eyes;

the different possible versions of a gene are called an alleles.

So today I want you to think about genes encoding for sexuality with differ variants,

alleles, encoding for homosexuality and heterosexuality.

For our first hypothesis we can suggest that

the genes involved may encode for other things too.

The reproductive losses due to homosexuality are then offset

by other positive benefits to the individual.

It's been suggested that alleles encoding for homosexual behavior could be beneficial

in terms of an individual's ability to form social bonds and build alliances.

For our hunter gather ancestors, the social benefits of bonding with other members of

your hunting party might be crucial to survival

therefore being selected for as a survival strategy rather than a reproductive one.

Second we come to the Inclusive fitness hypothesis.

Under this hypothesis even though homosexual individuals are less likely to reproduce themselves

their siblings and relatives can and, according to this hypothesis,

with the help of their homosexual relatives

are able to raise more children than they would have without that Help

Since these relations share some of the homosexual's genes

these genes are passed on to the next generation.

Maintaining them in the population.

Our next hypothesis for the maintenance of homosexual alleles is called over dominance.

Under this scenario an individual with two copies of a homosexual allele

suffers a fitness penalty due to their homosexual behaviour.

However, an individual carrying both a homosexual allele and a heterosexual allele

would have a fitness advantage over an individual with two heterosexual alleles.

That advantage that people with two different types of alleles have maintains the homosexual

allele in the population even though those with two copies of the homosexual allele

reproduce less frequently.

The final hypothesis I will introduce today is sexual antagonism.

This suggests that while an allele might confer a fitness cost in one sex,

for examples in males' resulting in homosexuality - in the opposite sex this same allele confers

a fitness advantage, resulting in those females reproducing more,

thereby maintaining the allele in the overall population.

So which of these hypothesis is the most likely to be true.

Well, research in fruit flies has demonstrated same-sex sexual behavior is a complex trait

with many genes involved as well as significant environmental causes.

And with this complexity in mind, these hypotheses are not mutually exclusive;

it's quite possible that there is an element of truth in all of these ideas.

but it has been shown that those with both the homosexual and heterosexual alleles

of some genes involved do have higher rates of reproduction,

thus supporting the over dominance hypothesis;

however sexual antagonism is not eliminated either

as females with a genetic makeup associated homosexuality

also have a higher reproductive rate.

The exact evolutionary reason behind the presence of homosexuality might not be particularly clear,

but one thing is agreed upon however.

There are many factors determining sexuality, including some out of the control of the individual

such as the genetic component;

and no about of electroshock therapy, or religious studies, will change these genes

maybe we could play god with CRISPA-CAS, but I'm not sure the religious folk will love that solution.

So, as far as we can tell, that is why homosexuality evolves, but what about how other things evolve?

Well, it just so happens that a few other YouTubers

have just uploaded videos on the how and why things evolve,

from the evolution of the sexes themselves to facial expression

So check out this playlist, I made, of all the videos.

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