what did I learn from this modeling
experiment
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as a meta state part 3 this is the final
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what do I want from this experiment
first of all let me recap the other two
videos video one identified comedy and
humor as a resource state and as a meta
state resource state and that it's so
much easier to solve problems when you
can bring the lightness of humor to it
you also come up with more solutions you
come up with more creativity even if
you're not trying to solve a problem
overall humor usually is a great
resource to add almost any situation
comedy and humor is also a meta state
because it takes stepping back observing
yourself observing yourself in a
particular situation not taking yourself
too serious and reframing it with humor
and comedy
so in a sense to conjure comedy to
conjure humor you have to step into a
meta state how do you think or feel
about yourself or a situation in part 2 i
identified where I go to find comic
relief and what do I find funny
well I find YouTube pranks to be really
funny especially when you're out and
social settings around the public and
one of my favorite pranksters is a guy
by the name of Vincent Valentine also
known as limitless exp one of the things
that limitless exp is known far is
walking up to women
and saying these really corny really
funny pick uplines he even created an
app for your phone too difficult for
these pickup lines and when Logan
Christopher my friend Logan
Christopher was giving me these
challenges to bring more humor in my
life and take myself less serious i came
up with this challenge for myself to
download the app and actually go out and
cold approach women using these really
corny and funny pick uplines in order to
not take myself so serious
which is exactly what happened this was
also a bit of a modeling experiment
knowing that in order to do these things
in order to pull this off
limitless exp must have certain
resources like courage like a sense of
humor like not being able to take
himself too seriously or not taking
himself too serious and I wanted to get
a sense of that I wanted to model that
so this was also a modeling experiment
finally what did I learn well women in
santa cruz either are really lacking in
a sense of humor
not a single woman laughs when I
approached and said things like I bet
you a hundred dollars you're going to
turn me down or things like I never
thought we would meet this way and that
was the first thing that I said to them
I did get a few laughs when I approached
a few women and ask them to marry me
again I was the first thing I said to
them just walking straight into the desk
asking them to marinate i did get a few
laughs out of that I'm perfectly willing
to admit that this could have been all
my fault that because i tend to look
series and because i tend to sound
serious that these women may have
thought that it was serious and they
want to laugh because they may be
thought that they were defending or
maybe they just weren't lacking a sense
of humor because quite honestly I could
not take myself series by saying these
things and that brings me to the other
thing that I learned is indeed saying
ridiculous things to strangers will help
you are- and definitely help me
take myself so serious and it actually
was quite empowering to be able to do
this you felt like I was overcoming a
limitation and we felt like I was
overcoming a self-imposed boundary that
I was breaking through some sort of
social matrix i was doing something
you're technically not supposed to do
and I was doing it anyway and it didn't
army wanted army and didn't Carmen the
woman who i was saying these ridiculous
things to that brings me to the other
interesting thing that experience so I
said it didn't harm me yet I have to
admit when I got rejected which was most
every time I it did sting and that's a
strange thing because how does that even
happen when you're not even taking
yourself serious yet I felt that sort of
duality happening where I was not taking
myself serious at the same time
rejection did sting a strange thing
it only lasted for a few minutes though
I didn't take this to heart
I didn't walk her home for the rest of
the day feeling bad about myself but for
a few minutes kind of hurt
what were the results actually I did get
two phone numbers and with one of the
women who gave me her phone number i did
go out on a date
the woman who gave me her phone number
and didn't go on a date with me i'm
assuming just realized what a turd I was
for using a pick-up line to begin with
even though it wasn't a serious pickup
line what did I learn from the modeling
experiments of part of doing this what i
wanted to give that limitless exp AKA
Vincent Valentine is a well practice
video youtube prankster and it makes
sense to me that if he's been doing this
for years and it's no accident that he
has over a million followers is because
he does this a lot
he knows how to do this in such a way
that he projects charm charisma and not
taking himself too serious and that
comes across and it makes people laugh
this is something i would definitely
need to practice a lot more to have the
intended effect i think for example just
because I may be able to recite routines
from
comedian louis ck doesn't mean i can get
the intended effect our response from an
audience because he knows his routine he
created the routine and he's been a
comedian for several years and he knows
how to work an audience he knows how to
get the effect from the audience that
he's looking for
I do feel like I tapped into a sense of
what Vincent Valentine experiences or
what he conversar relies on the
resources that he experiences I courage
that sense of lightness not taking
himself too seriously sense of comedy
I do feel like I tapped into a little
bit of that when i was doing this
experiment so I would classify this
experiment is a success like anything
else
this is something i would have to
practice a lot in order to be really
good at and I don't find on becoming a
YouTube prankster anytime soon i'll
stick to self-help and personal
development at least for now I have a
new challenge for myself and a new
challenge for all of you if I get a
hundred likes on this video by march
first 2017 i will redo this experiment
on I'll go out and do it again and on
videotape myself life doing it so i can
post these videos real-time of me not
taking myself very serious and saying so
really silly pickup lines to win so
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