Sharon do you want to say anything to the camera?
Okay, hi Bill, I'm doing the I'm doing the test run for the camera back there
So one of my cousin's is gonna be doing the video. Okay. I'm just testing it out. Hello. I'm gonna get you on camera
Julie you want to say anything to the camera? I don't like cameras. Okay.But I'm happy for you guys. Thanks
Alaina, we're going.
*music*
Stay together as you go down. You can hold hands if you want to, but you don't have to.
Jeff here's a perfect, hold on, it's a perfect time now we're doing the chorus so now go.
I don't think we're stopping...we'll talk about that.
Bryan: try not to talk when you walk down.
Alaina: oh hey, hey everybody.
Brian: This isn't part of it you guys so don't pay attention to me.
Here's the end of the chorus right here.
If we could just let it get to the end and fade out.
Just walk a little slower
You have to get your pictures taken too
So Bill will get finished with his talk and then he's going to introduce me. And I'm going to come up here and say at this time we'd like to have the bride and groom stand.
We'd also like to invite up the maid of honor and the best man.
So they'll-
Megan: Do I stand here?
Jeff: No you'll come up and stand behind them.
You can the two of you could just stand behind the chairs. That would be nice like that, just like that.
And then you'll be doing the rings
And then basically you know, you'll be signing the marriage license, so you are the official witnesses.
I'll give the rings tomorrow.
Ok
Well, I don't have pockets.
*everybody talking at the same time*
Jake: I am smiling
Alright, everyone know where we are going?
All right, I'm recording the day of
Would you like to say anything
Hello
Congratulations to my beautiful oldest daughter. Thanks. Looking forward to it. I think it's gonna be fun.
You're taking this quality time to film, no! That's not how-
I'm filming you!
Great, I'm not decent at this moment so that's just lovely. That's a shame. Don't film me I don't have make up on.
I am well rested today.
Oh that was a mistake
I done screwed up.
When in doubt blend it out.
I'm just gonna keep adding.
That'll fix it.
Yeah, I like that.
Don't have any great words of wisdom
Just I hope you have a good wedding and a happy marriage and a good honeymoon and all the years afterwards are good
And that's about it.
I certainly hope that both Alaina and Jake have a wonderful life together
Not only here but on into Jehovah's new world
so that as a family there's no end to our togetherness.
Hi Jake and Alaina
We just wanted to offer our congratulations to you
And I know that this is a day that you've been looking forward to for a long time
We just hope that you keep Jehovah in your marriage
and if you do
We know that everything will go great for you
And we look forward to doing some things with you as a couple and getting to know you both better as a married couple
Love you. Bye-bye.
How we doing? Good on schedule?
Kind of we might need a few more minutes
You're fine.
We got but you still have about 10 minutes 15 minutes anyways, so you're gonna walk until oh, yeah
We're gonna we're gonna start like five ten minutes after people can yep?
What I'll do is add for I'll kind of gather people have them get their seats
Right to give them five minutes, and then perfect
Good afternoon, everyone
Welcome to today's happy event a couple quick announcements
If everyone could please make sure that their cell phones and electronic devices are set to the silent setting
the
Ceremony are beginning under way very shortly
so if anyone has not already taken a seat, please find one as we will need room for the
procession to enter at the back of the auditorium
So thank you very much and we'll be getting, we'll begin momentarily
*song #131 - What God Has Yoked Together*
Now all can take their seats.
Certainly on this beautiful occasion to celebrate the marriage of Jakob and Alaina to be here to share their joy
We want to make this one of the most memorable nights of their life. Well, we thank Jakob and Alaina
Brother and sister Jeff and Kelly Heinz sister Julie Wright and brother Brian Buehler for their efforts to get them to this point in life.
It started out years ago if you looked at the pictures you might have seen
they were together many years ago, but nothing happened that point
few years to develop
Later developed into very good relationship first leading to this wedding day
that's what are talk is going to be honorable marriage in Gods sight.
Certainly Jehovah has the highest regard and respect for the marriage arrangement. So he made this provision
So of course the Bible gives the outline the plans
The details the guidelines how can we have a good marriage. We practice these things.
We lived this way, as His servant.
Jakob felt something like Adam at some point Adam went around and he said hey, I'm not complete
I need a complement, that's what Jakob said to himself, hey something's missing. I need a complement.
Something that that's good to my life beauties in my life all the things that I need and we can share them
That's really they are a complement to each other
And Jehovah brought the first couple together that we see in Genesis second chapters
Was his very intention for people
We see that in Genesis 2 22
And Jehovah God built the rib that he had taken from the man into a woman, and he brought her to the man.
Then the man said: This is at last bone of my bones, flesh of my flesh.
This one will be called Woman, because from man she was taken.
So that's why Jehovah brought them together says in Genesis verse 24
That's why a man will leave his father his mother and he will stick to his wife and they will become one flesh
Meshing and uniting of working together
in enjoyment
United
And since of course Jehovah God is a God of love and happiness. Well, they're gonna reflect that in their marriage and treatment of one another and follow Jehovah's example.
We might ask the question, how can you make marriage last?
Well, somebody asked Jesus, what's the most important thing to do in life Matthew at the 22nd chapter verse 36
That question was put to Jesus. What do I base my life on, how do I got about these?
He gave a very important answer.
Second chapter verse 36 a person said that Jesus teacher which is the greatest commandment in the law
Jesus said you must love Jehovah your God with your whole heart and your whole soul and with your whole mind
So our religious faith isn't an addition to our life it's the core we build our lives on, it's the whole foundation
So, of course we want Gods advice in all that we do. And this marriage discussion is what it's about
Marriage, of course is like a two fold cord
But when you add Jehovah to the braid cord it's strengthened. It won't unravel
Certainly marriages need that strength
Of course we can put our trust in Gods advice, why?
He knows our physical and emotional makeup better than anyone, better than your parents, better than your mate
Better than ourselves even ourselves or your question sometimes what's the right decision? How do I go? What do I really accomplish?
God's advice coming because his way will always be good
So thee Bible says to study together
Pray together worship together
And you draw together closer as a couple and of course closer to Jehovah God so if you're wondering how can I be closer to God
we just do the everyday things that He says is good for us spiritually and theocratically
The Bible gives the outline
So, what does the husband want usually he wants deep respect
How does he earn that? How does he gain that? He can't demand that but appointed as the head of the family
What does that involve us involved sound decision sound judgment leading with loving kindness
How do we lead our family? We have to behave
And there's a lack of leadership whether we see today difficulties in turmoil
Not only taking the lead
He is expected to supply the material and emotional
Spiritual and recreational needs of this mate the more you can do things together
Life will be and when you go your separate ways, well, it won't be that. Happy United
Man has to take the lead in worship. You can't say I leave religion to my wife. We hear many people say that
That's not the thing to do for a Christian man. Take the lead make the decisions do it in loving kindness
Do it God's way and it can work out well together
And of course it doesn't allow for a man to be a tyrant, we hear those experiences
Today the Bible so there's no reason for excuse ever
That treatment of your wife not physically not verbally and spiritually not mentally
Never should it get to that point
Why?
How do we treat our mate just as Jesus Christ with people back to the fifth chapter?
Verse 25, we see those all important qualities
How do we want to be able treat one another today, which we know will work out good
When we follow Jesus' example
Allows the husband to gain deep respect at Ephesians 5:25
Husbands continue loving your wives just as Christ also loved the congregation and gave himself up for it
What does a man need to do verse 28?
The same way husband should love their wives as their own body a man who loves his wife loves himself
For no, man had ever hated his own body, but he feeds it and cherishes it just as the Christ does the congregation
So if Jakob loves his own body, well he has to love his wife.
That's important, that's what Jesus Christ would do, how do I treat this person everything think of these qualities
We said any abuse, what does that do? Well it destroys the relationship
That's why it has to be people live in such a way that you feel good and accomplishment good
Every day everything you do everything you say
It all matters it all adds up
What was Jesus like? What was he will to sacrifice?
He was unselfish
Mild tempered. He never got violently angry. He didn't downgrade the disciples if they had a problem
We didn't hear an outburst from Jesus now did we, this is the way to spoke with them encouraging upbuilding
Let's keep doing accomplish this together
Good things to do in the marriage arrangement
So again, we have examples in Gods word the Bible. So that's how a husband gains deep respect
Doesn't tell the wife she has to do it. He earns it by the way he treats her.
And then of course was the wife wonder, she wants to be dearly loved for herself
And the person said that she is so she has an honorable role the dignified
it's two equal halves that has to be met where they come together and blend and
Be one person and thinking and output they're not identical
They're very different but one in there accomplishment
great achievement over encounters
And so what does a Christian husband have to do if she's going to be dearly loved 1 Peter 3:7 says
Man must treat the wife this way
Each day each time.
What is expected
1 Peter 3:7
You husbands in the same way
continue dwelling with them according to knowledge
assigning them honor
That's all she wants doesn't she, feel loved and appreciated
Make her feel that way. All through her life
And of course that's a valuable feeling for her to have.
And of course she has to recognize the headship to make the marriage a success
Without leadership. What do we have in life today?
You've got a work or look at the government or go to school or anywhere you look
You don't have good leadership because you work for a boss. That isn't a good boss. He's tough to deal with
What is that like every day? It's just terrible is it we might have experienced that?
Well Jake has to take the lead
and Alaina has to cooperate
That's her part to do in Ephesians 5:33
Husband must do his part
Alaina has to do her part
Very important behavior to cooperate Ephesian 5:33
Nevertheless each one of you must love his wife as he does himself on the other hand the wife she should have respect for her husband
So we said that Jakob earns that and he has it and dearly loves her. We see how that can work well
Something we can't do is belittle each other when there's a problem which will come up every day
Difficulties misunderstandings, we can't belittle each other we have to protect their feelings
if you'd belittle person that last for a long time it's hard to work with
So if the wife is dearly loved she makes the home a pleasant effot
Makes life succeed who said isn't that what we want when a man and woman come together and marriage?
What do they want a loving peaceful home to come together?
come to their mate share life together good things together, all of their lives
Wonderful accomplishment
If the man earns deep respect his wife is dearly loved that's truely a Christian couple
What do we have to do especially
says we have to cultivate deep love and there are certain qualities we need every day of our life
This is the person we are. How should we clothe ourselves Colossians the third chapter
and verse 12 gives us thoughts
and the principles
This is what we need to do
This is the way I can be Colossians 3:12
Accordingly as God's chosen ones. Holy and loved clothe yourself with tender affections of compassion
kindness humility
Mildness and patience continue putting up with one another
And forgiving one another freely, even if anyone has a cause for complaint against another
Just as Jehovah freely forgave you
You must also do the same but very importantly in verse 14, but besides all these qualities clothe yourself with love
for it is a perfect bond of union
Here together as man and woman and a
beautiful marriage
Again, we said we practice these qualities. It's our adornment just like our clothing protects and beautifies us tonight
We all have our finest on tonight don't we
It's a wedding arrangement we want to present our self in a good light.
Well, our behavior presents ourselves to our mate this is my adornment this is the kind of person I am and we want to be beautiful just like our clothing
It will add luster them to the marriage provision
Of course and a good marriage is seen you realize you have it others see it in you, it's a wonderful accomplishment
And so what can we do in the little ways every day how we behave
How do we treat each other? What's the Bible suggestion?
well, it says look our ways to show love for your mate commend their efforts, especially what they're doing as a person for you
Appreciate the efforts they've given every day and be concerned about their welfare. We see how that can help us get along together. If you behave that way.
You have to set aside time every day to
Communicate and listen and to talk with one another and not allow the rush of life to just go by
They can't communicate. Why is that so important? Well everything we hear about men and women they think differently
How are they going to get on the same page?
They have a peaceful discussion. What's our goals?
What do we want to accomplish together, how can we cooperate with the community the loving communication will add to doing that more
A small thing but every day take a few minutes to show your mate that you care for them and want to accomplish good things together
The little things you do daily in small ways have tender words and acts of affection
You have to remind yourself to do that this important person that we need to treat them this way all the time
These things will strengthen the marriage bond together
True love as defined in the Bible
Listen to that in our concluding thought
This is the definition of true love and treatment
First Corinthians the thirteenth chapter
And verse four
Gives us all the important things on how we want to live and behave
Treatment
verse 4
Love is patient and kind
Love is not jealous. It does not brag does not get puffed up
It does not behave indecently does not look for its own interest does not become provoked it does not keep account of the injury
It does not rejoice over unrighteousness but rejoices with the truth
This is what love is. Picture this in your mind if I behave everyday this way with my mate will it work good? Of course it will
verse 7
love bears all things believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Why? Verse 8
Love never fails.
So certainly the outline in the Bible gives us the thought
Loving marriage agreement
Husband wants respect the wife wants to be dearly loved. We can accomplish things things by our behavior together
So practice these things
Do as Jehovah directs. And you'll have a good outcome all your life.
Appreciate going through that now we're going to invite brother Jeff Heinz he's going to do the marriage vows for us.
You guys nervous?
Me too.
Well, that's nice. We want to thank brother Bennett for the nice talk
It's a nice basis for importance of having a marriage that has Jehovah God in it.
That's nice to keep responsible but we're going to take a few moments now and really go through the
Requirements become husband and wife and that's the vows.
States you too are going to take each other in marriage
so what we're going to do is we're going to
Ask Jake and Alaina to stand up and we are going to invite up
Chad and Megan as well as witnesses
And I'll try to speak up a little louder since they'll have the microphone
Jake we'll ask you this question and we'll see what your response is
So do you Jakob Byran Buehler in the presence of Jehovah God and these witness take Alaina Claire Heinz to be your wedded wife to love and to cherish in accordance with the Divine Law outlined in the Holy Scriptures for Christian husbands for as long as you both may live?
I do.
Alaina, do you Alaina Claire Heinz in the presence of Jehovah God and these witnesses take Jakob Bryan Buehler to be your wedded husband to love and to cherish and deeply respect in accordance with the Divine Law as outlined in the Holy Scriptures for Christian wives for as long as you both may live?
I do.
Thank you.
So, who gives this woman to be married to this man?
Oh, I guess I do and her mom.
Alright, so now we will complete the wedding vows.
So I'm going to break this up into smaller segments and if I need to repeat anything that's fine just ask.
So Jake we'll start with you. I Jakob Bryan Buehler take you Alaina Claire Heinz to be my wedded wife.
I Jakob Bryan Buehler take you Alaina Claire Heinz to be my wedded wife.
To love and to cherish in accordance with the Divine Law
As set forth in the Holy Scriptures for Christian husbands.
As set forth in the Holy- can you repeat that?
As set forth in the Holy Scriptures
For Christian husbands
For as long as we both shall live together
On earth according to God's marital arrangement
Alaina is that a good break? Not too much?
I Alaina Claire Heinz take you Jakob Bryan Buehler to be my wedded husband
To love and to cherish in accordance with the Divine Law
As set forth in the Holy Scriptures for Christian wives
For as long as we both shall live together on earth according to God's marital arrangement
Very nice.
So are there rings to be exchanged?
So
The rings that were exchanged are an outward and visible sign
signifying
Unto all of us here the uniting of this man and this woman in the bonds of matromony
For as much as Jakob Bryan Buehler and Alaina Claire Heinz have coveted before Jehovah God and these witnesses to accept each other in wedlock
I as an ordained minister and by the authority conferred upon me by the Holy Scriptures in the state of Michigan. Pronounce that they are husband and wife together.
What God has yoked together let no man put apart.
So it would be appropriate then that we ask Jehovah God for his blessing on this union.
Jehovah God we come before you through your son
Jesus to thank you that we were able to be here and be
able to reflect upon the wonderful arrangement that you've put in place and that is the marriage of man and woman together
So may we have your blessing and guidance upon Jakob and Alaina as they've now embark on this journey together
And certainly as was brought out having you and their marriage
Will be a strengthening agent and really wil help them to be successful and happy in doing so
So we ask that you be with them
Help them to look to you for the guidance
They need you know, we live in a world that demands much but with your assistance in your help, truly
They will be a happy and successful couple
So please be with them and all of us may be able to reflect upon the wonderful things that you do for us as your
human creation, so once again when you thank you
We ask for your forgiveness for our mistakes as well that we do this in Jesus name, Amen.
So it is my happy pleasure to announce to all of you the marriage of
Mr. and Mrs. Jakob and Alaina Buehler
And you may kiss the bride.
We thank Bill for the nice discourse, that's Jake's grandfather in case you didn't know.
And also our friend Mark Junor as well for translating. We have a few friends here that are deaf so isn't it nice for them to be a part of that.
We'll give our attention back to my brother, brother Brian Heinz
Well wasn't that beautiful? One more time Jakob and Alaina Buehler
There is going to be a receiving line right here at the front of the auditorium, so
Jakob and Alaina would invite everyone if you'd like to to come forward and offer your congratulations
We ask that
immediate family go first parents and grandparents followed by the rest of the family and then
The rest of the well-wishers are more than welcome to come forward
After you offered your congratulations to the bride and groom. We ask that you make your way to the main reception area and
Feel free to enjoy some refreshments appetizers and beverages
Until dinner service is called so at this time everyone is excused to congratulate the bride and groom.
Michael Jackon woo
Do you want to do individually?
Oh that was good.
No more
We're almost done
The bridal party
First off, make some noise for groomsman Max and bridesmaid Ivonne
And now please welcome best man Chad and maid of honor Megan.
Ladies and gentlemen brothers and sisters family and friends. Making their first public appearance as husband and wife.
Jakob and Alaina Buehler
As the share their very first dance as husband and wife even up once to get it for Jakob and Alaina
*More Than Words - Extreme*
All right, one more time one more time for Jake and Alaina
Doing all that nice beautiful fancy stuff on us
*My Little Girl - Tim McGraw*
That's Alaina and her Dad Jeff everybody
That was great
Okay. So Jakob and Alaina were earlier talking about they said you've been to those weddings when the dance floor isn't full they
Think that's terrible
So now this is a special request
They want
Every married couple to please come out on the dance floor. We have kind of a special thing happening
so every married couple in the building please make your way to the dance floor.
Regardless of how long you've been married.
*What a Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong*
I'm seeing people who have been married for a short time I'm seeing people who have been married for several decades.
At this time we would like anyone who's been married for let's say less than a day to leave the dance floor.
There goes Jake and Alaina
Do we have anybody here that's been married let's say 5 years or less
Now we have a bit more room
Anybody out there married 10 years or less?
Married less than 20 years
Now anybody married for 30 years or less
Jeff and Kelly are out
Ok so now we're having a little more room here.
Anybody married for 40 years or less?
Please make your way off the dance floor
*Have I Told You Lately - Rod Stewart*
Now, anybody married 50 years or less? Please leave the dance floor.
Ok so you mean to tell me we have 5 couples that have been married for more than 50 years?
53? Ok that's Kelly's mom and dad
Jake's grandparents
We have 2 couples left on the dance floor
54 years?
Jeff Heinz's uncle Forrest and aunt Yvonne
Here we have it everybody. I have to ask how many years have you both been married?
59 years everybody. Give it up for the couple right here.
What a beautiful thing. Thank you very much.
Smile
I think that's the board
*Footloose - Kenny Loggins*
Good job there girl
I need a fork
Need a fork stat
Thanks
Can I get another fork?
*drops cake*
No one saw that
It didn't get on the dress
*Can't Stop the Feeling - Justin Timberlake*
I'm a pro at this
Jeff: Get in there and grab that thing
Alaina: I can't
Ta-da
Got it
Should we look at the camera?
No
Ok
Everyone get some cake
Congratulations Alaina and Jake
Congratulations Alaina and Jake. Love you guys.
Good job
Alaina and Jake <3
*True - Spandau Ballet*
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