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When World War one comes to a close

a battle of a different sort begins. Only this time, the weapons are

words and the soldiers are scientists. This new battle will rage between two

diametrically opposed views of human behavior. On one side are the scientists who

see our personalities as unchanging, fixed at birth,

biologically determined; and on the other side are those who believe we can change-

that we are influenced by our experiences, and what we learned along

the way. When the debate heats up in the United States, life is changing rapidly

and dramatically. It's an unsettling time for most people who yearn for stability

and normalcy and certainty. What scientists have to say about human behavior- whether

it's fixed at birth and predictable or shaped by the environment and

changeable, will have a profound effect on how people view the future, how they see

each other, and even how they live their lives.

But not everyone believes that biology is destiny. For many scientists, it's your experiences in life that count-

your upbringing, your education, your environment.

Chief among these scientists is psychologist John Watson, who offers a

theory that is the mirror opposite of eugenics.

Over the years, Watson studies the behavior of babies- hundreds of them!

To Watson, we arrive in the world a blank slate - tabula rasa.

Nearly everything is learned, even things we think are instinctual, like fear. To prove that environment

is more powerful than genetics, Watson designs an experiment for an infant

known as little Albert. He's so confident, he films it for posterity. At

first, Albert shows little fear, even when Watson places a burning newspaper in front

of him. Albert is also unafraid when he encounters a white rat for the first

time in his life, but then Watson shows Albert the rat accompanied by a loud

clanging noise- one of the few things that upsets little Albert.

Then he does it again, and does it again. Eventually, Albert learns to fear not just the rat,

but all furry things, even without the loud noise. In Watson's mind, the little Albert

experiment is a success, because it proves that fears are learned not inherited.

Watson calls his theory behaviorism and begins to popularize it.

He urges parents to take active control of their children's upbringing by shaping

their environment-

to think of the home

as a scientific laboratory.

Science was increasingly important in the popular mindset. If science said

something, if scientists tested, if scientists experimented, well then, it must

be so! But the appeal of behaviorism runs deeper. It's egalitarian philosophy

and outlook seems to reflect the very spirit of democracy. Watson was the voice of the

American Dream, and the American dream was that this is the land of opportunity

You can become what you would like to be, even if you're not there yet- And, at least, if you don't do

it in- in your lifetime,

this is the land in which children can do it. The American

dream of opportunity draws millions of immigrants. They come by the ship load to

fill the jobs of a rapidly expanding economy, to seek a better life,

but the arrival of new immigrants increases all kinds of fears,

some are economic- that the immigrant worker will lower the wages of American workers

or take their jobs altogether, all the while crowding their cities and their

schools-

and there are also biological fears.

Charles Davenport and others in the eugenics movement worried that the new

immigrants from Southern and Eastern Europe are bringing defective genes with

them.

They have no faith that America will transform the immigrants. If anything they fear the immigrants will

transform America.

This is the pinnacle of the eugenics movement in the United States.

There are new immigration laws. There are new

marriage laws forbidding mixed-race marriage,

or even new sterilization laws preventing criminals, epileptics, or the insane from

reproducing.

Laws

are designed to protect the gene pool.

One person who truly understands the manipulation of human behavior and it's

terrifying potential is a rising politician in Germany. Adolf Hitler and his Nazi party

come to power in the early '30s by using every technique propaganda has to

offer, to influence the German people.

In films like this one, he promotes the credo of the Nazi party- beauty, strength, health,

eugenic ideal. It is in

Hitler's campaign for power that the centuries two opposing views of human

behavior- whether behavior is fixed or malleable- come together with no apparent

contradiction to the German people.

Hitler's Germany, the fact that mass murder- that genocide had been committed in the name of racial

purity, in the name of a eugenically inspired racial cleansing was very

frightening to people, even the people that previously may have been attracted

to a kind of idealism that was also part of the idea of eugenics. And so you see

in the years after World War Two, a real pulling back from explanations of mental

illness, of intelligence, of all sorts of behaviors, uh, rooted in genetic

understandings, and a turn instead toward environmental understandings. In

the 1950s, millions of Americans scanned the daily papers with the

latest advice from Dear Abby or Ann Landers. These twin sisters from Sioux city, Iowa, are

the most popular advice columnists of the country. Americans love advice. They're

hell-bent on self-improvement, optimistic about their prospects and guided by a new

religious belief that they can always change for the better. The opposite view-

that behavior is fixed at birth and can't be changed is still associated with

Nazi Germany where eugenics was used to justify genocide. So Americans embraced

scientists who believe the opposite- that when it comes to behavior, it's the

environment that counts, and virtually anything is possible.

-can see the idea that we could engineer the household, we could engineer the family, we could engineer

all different aspects of society.

Well, some scientists engineer shiny new consumer goods for an

eager public, Harvard psychologist B. F. Skinner seeks nothing less than the

engineering of human nature.

In experiments with subjects as simple as pigeons, Skinner declares that with the right

social engineering, we can create a new breed of human being.

Skinner is firmly in the behaviorist tradition pioneered by John Watson in

the 1920s. Like Watson, Skinner contends that with the right

tools, we can predict and control behavior. He develops a system called

operant conditioning to prove that a behavior will be repeated by a subject

when rewarded. Repetition leads to reinforcement, and Skinner believes that

if it works for pigeons, why not people?

In Skinner's mind, behavior is behavior- up and down the evolutionary scale, and it is all learned.

One of the great successes is an education. People are taught to do more

complicated tasks than anyone had thought possible, by breaking down behavior into small

steps and giving positive reinforcement along the way. The essence of Skinner's work was that we could

manipulate the environment in ways that would permit us to produce any kind

of behavior that we wished, and we could develop individuals in ways that made

every possible future open to them. The idea that anything is possible

has enormous appeal in the '50s- a time when the country is changing at a

mind-boggling pace.

Before man learned how to control fire and put it to work, it was man's greatest enemy. In much the same way, your emotions can be your own greatest enemy.

Under control, your emotions can make you healthier and happier, and improve the

lives of people around you. I think of fire in connection with emotions, because when you

become stirred up, when your emotions influence your actions, it affects not only yourself, but people around you. Psychologists find that control of

emotions can be gained by understanding the stimulus-response pattern. Nature endows us at birth with three general patterns of

emotional response: Rage, as the response to the primary stimulus of thwarting- something interfering with our behavior, our actions; Fear, as the response to loud noises or loss of

support; and the emotional response to love is usually the result of a show of affection or favors, and these seem to be the emotions with which

we start life. Then as we grow up, many everyday things and social situations

become associated with these primary stimuli, partly by a process called

"conditioning". Let's take a look at a slice of every day life, to understand how some stimuli can bring

about various emotional responses. What might happen to you, or to me?... Or to Jeffrey Moore.

Jeff is an ordinary, and healthy, and well-balanced young fellow. He usually

gets along well with people- and on this particular Friday afternoon, Jeff and his pals are discussing a big triple date tonight.

Jeff: My dad's gonna let me have that car tonight. Friend 1: Oh! Friend 2: The car! That's super! Friend 1: That sounds swell, Jeff, but, well, I don't know if I'll be able to go. I-I've got quite a headache. Jeff: Oh, really, hm..? Friend 1: Yeah... Jeff: Well, how about lettin' Jeff do the soda trick, fix ya up a snappy salsa? Friend 1: Ok... Friends: Hey, watch-... <garbled panicked voices> Friend 1: HA! Some jerk. Janitor: OKAY, BUB... I saw the whole wise stunt. Now, uh... Just suppose you clean it up. Friend 1: Go on, wise guy! Clean it up! Friend 2: Yeah, it's right on the floor there... I go to the washroom. Jeff: Wise guys, eh? Well, suppose I don't pick you up tonight! I got a

darn good notion of lettin' you guys walk to the party. Friend 1: What's got into him? Friend 2: Gee, I don't know! Why is Jeff angry? What's the stimulus that brings on this sudden emotional response of anger or mild rage? Well, it might be that Jeff feels thwarted as he fails in the fancy trick

to impress his pals. So he gets mad at his pals.

Of course Jeff's going to get the car ready for the party tonight. He wouldn't really miss a

chance to impress the gang. But, hm... starter won't work. Again, his behavior is thwarted, and a habit it is being developed- a habit

of allowing such things to annoy him. Jeff's losing control of himself. His thinking is

becoming muddled, and he's careless in his actions. The madder he gets, the worse it becomes. Did

you ever hear anyone say, "I was so mad I couldn't see straight"? Severe emotional

stress often decreases efficiency. See what I mean? And of course it's the of the

wrench. This is called "projection". He's projecting the blame to the wrench. Let's see how the

rest of the family is doing.

Joan: Mother! Mother, oh, it's wonderful! I love the new dress you made! Mother: Oh, thank you Joan dear! See how the new dress tends to stimulate Joan's love for mother? This makes both mother and Joan happier. But how does it affect Jeff, and how does his anger affect the others? Joan: Oh, you're the sweetest, bestest mother a girl ever had! Mother: I'm glad you liked the dress, Joan. Joan: Oh, I'm so happy! I could be a model! Or a covergirl! Jeff: Say, what's gotten into that crazy kid sister? Mother: Oh, Jeff, don't be that way!

Notice how mother seems to become angry herself because of Jeff's anger. Perhaps she shouldn't, but anger is a violent emotion, and we often see

an induction of behavior, or a spread of

emotion to other persons, almost like a contagious disease. Sometimes, rage, fear, and love are aroused together, at the same time.

Of course, Jeffrey's family didn't realize that he had been exposed to one irritating situation after

another, an accumulation of stimuli which brought about an abnormally strong response. And what did this do to Jeff- this sort

of uncontrolled emotional outburst? Well, he regrets some of the things he said, but he can't unsay them.

He's tired. That feeling of fatigue may spoil a good time on his date tonight, and if this sort of

flare-up is repeated often, that might lead to a permanently walked personality.

What could Jeff do to keep better control? Well, we say he could:

1. Eliminate the stimulus. 2. Modify the stimulus.

3. Modify the response. With these three ideas in mind, let's examine Jeff's episode again.

To control his emotions, Jeff eliminates the stimulus- the failure to impress his pals by trying

such fancy tricks only when he can do them successfully. But sometimes, the trick fails.

There are many times when you can't eliminate the stimulus. Try to modify the stimulus.

Standing off and looking at himself,

Jeff realizes that a slip like that won't really hurt his standing with the gang.

Taking it all lightly, as a good sport, Jeff impresses the gang a lot more than

if he gets angry over such a little thing. It helps to recognize and understand

the emotional patterns. Then, it's easier to eliminate or modify the stimulus. And

there's another, even more valuable way to control your emotions: Modify the

response. Rather than get in the habit of getting angry, Jeff can substitute. He can

modify his response by seeing the humor in the situation- what good does it do to

get angry about this? When Jeff's in the habit of controlling his emotions, his thinking is straighter. Push the button.

No starter. Let's see... Pull the light switch. Hm?! No light! That means something.

Reason it out. No horn either! So... must be a dead battery. That's straight thinking,

unmuddled by emotional disturbances. And it's a simple thing to call the

garage or someone for a push and a recharge. Don't need to fly off the

handle and take it out on the things and the people around. When he tries to

understand his emotions and those of people around him, Jeff has less trouble

controlling himself and he and those around him are happier.

The more he exercises control of his emotional behavior, the easier it becomes to meet

the next situation without losing control.

Yes, via better understanding of the emotional patterns of everyday life and

by knowing how you respond to various stimuli, you can develop better control

by eliminating the stimulus, or by modifying the stimulus, or by modifying the

response. You can control the fire of your emotions. You can balance your

emotions and use them so that your personality becomes more pleasant, and

you and those around you are a great deal happier and healthier.

For more infomation >> Behaviorism Context Video - Duration: 20:54.

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Brittany & Marvin's Wedding Film Video @ Bella Collina Orlando Monte Verde, Florida - Duration: 6:46.

There's no luckier man on the planet than you

what you have beside you and what you're gonna

have, what you're gonna walk through this life

walk through this earth for the rest of your life is

hands down the best person I've ever known in my life

Marvin told me she truly inspires me

and Brittany's love makes me understand God's love

I just love you so much both of you and

congratulations

Our father, God love, has been your richest and

greatest gift to this world. Love between a man

and a woman which matures into a marriage is one

of the most beautiful types of love

Brittany is the one person in this world that was

made for Marvin and Marvin was made for her

Evidently you two are planners.

But the thing is...

when you make plans, God laughs

I'm so excited!

There is one thing that we can control

and that's who we pick as our life partner

and hope that by picking our partner we are able

to drive part of our destiny into the right direction

and I whole heartedly believe that you chose right

wow you look great

I love you

Marvin you're a great guy and I can't think of

anyone more to make her smile for the rest of

this life and I'm so glad that you... that you're

gonna do that. I'm really glad and I'm really proud

of the both of you and I'm so happy this day is

finally here. I'm so happy that tomorrow you guys

are gonna be husband and wife.

Jeremiah 29:11 says that He has plans for

your lives, plans for you both to prosper, plans

that are amazing and unimaginable. More than

that His word tells us that he created you for

this purpose. His purpose and this is the most

amazing part.

Since he knew you before you were born and he

knew exactly what and who you would need to help

you on your life's journey. He created you both

one for the other.

Beloved bride and groom

you have expressed your love to one another

your commitment and promises you have

just made. It is with these in mind

that I pronounce you husband and wife.

You have kissed a thousand if not more times, but

today the feeling is new. No longer simple

partners and best friends, you have became

husband and wife and now seal the agreement

with a kiss

It is because of God and the love of each and

everyone of you that we have made it this far in

life. We love you and we thank you from the

bottom of our hearts. You know today marks

not only the joining of two beautiful people

but also two beautiful families

I love you so much, Marvin and I are truly blessed

to have both of you in our lives.

I believe in what you're celebrating today

this is the true symbol of marriage, friendship

and love. No matter what no matter where

I wish you two nothing but the best

cheers my friends!

I'd just like for everyone just to pray for them

in their own way like I do and just hope that

Marvin and Brittany... do the same.

You know one of the reasons why I fell in love with

Brittany is because your strength and your love

shines through her

You are the definition of beauty and the

epitome of grace.

We love you and we thank you

God has blessed you two continuously, abundantly

and will continue to bless you two

throughout your marriage.

Nobody is perfect, but... you two are

perfect together. To the bride and groom

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