and the reason some people don't enjoy
their lives is because their container
their heart is contaminated with so many
things they have 10% worried
stressed-out over their job 12%
bitterness mad at their neighbor 20%
guilt beating themselves up for past
mistakes
9% jealousy their co-worker is more
beautiful they don't realize 70% of
their container is negative but if you
don't love yourself it's very hard for
life to bring you the goodies you have
the freedom to think anything you want
you were born extremely confident you
came into this world knowing how
wonderful you are
so choose new thoughts to think about
yourself and choose new words to tell
yourself how magnificent you are and
that you deserve all the good that life
has to offer today is a new day today is
a day for you to begin creating a joyous
fulfilling life today is the day to
begin to release all your limitations
today is the day for you to learn the
secrets of life you can change your life
for the better you already have the
tools within you to do this these tools
are your thoughts and your beliefs we
all have negative emotions negative
feelings do you have to make the choice
I'm not going to give this jealousy this
bitterness this anger valuable space and
let it poison my life I'm going to
protect what I allow in me an
affirmation opens the way it is the
beginning point of change
every thought you think and every word
you speak is an affirmation every time
you get angry you are firming that you
want more anger in your life every time
you feel like a victim you are affirming
that you want to continue to feel like a
victim if you feel that life does not
give you what you want in your world
then it is certain you will never have
the goodies that life gives to others
until you change the way you think and
talk in what you've done with your life
thus far is it giving you what you want
is it giving you what you want when you
look to want the future when you look at
all this going on out here is there some
place within yourself you say hey I know
I need to be out there in that arena I
know I can do more than what I've been
doing I know there's some great music
that I have within me that I haven't
brought out here is that something that
you begin to look at within yourself see
I say if you look at your life and if
you're not getting what you want
you owe it to yourself to do something
differently you are if you're on a job
85% they say of Americans go to jobs but
they're unhappy if you're doing
something eight hours a day that you
don't like it's not giving you what you
want is not giving you a strong feeling
of satisfaction and fulfillment you're
miserable you hate to go there you're
depressed just thinking about it
you're saying they thank God it's Friday
song every week
if that's what it is you owe it to
yourself to start strategically working
to change directions see but you know
what most people will do most people
will resist change
most people will fight change as if
change would be worse than what they're
experiencing see they know this they're
familiar with this most people will not
challenge the unknown they won't just
step out there see
well see there certain things has got to
be in place they got to see it all
together and life isn't like that that's
not how you grow so as you look at your
life you're saying I'm not getting what
I want as you begin to look toward the
future begin to know that whatever it
takes for you to create that you've got
that in you if you've got that you've
got genius in you you've got goodness in
you you've got creativeness in you if
you decide to take the initiative to
change the current quality of your life
I say to you that you will find that the
universe is on your side that life is on
your side now will it be turbulent yes
would it be easy no no when you have
some opposition yes will I make a lot of
mistakes yes will I get hurt yes yes see
a lot of people won't try anything
different in life because they don't
want to get hurt let me tell you
something it's too much pain to doc pain
is everywhere you can hide under here it
will come where you are it's everywhere
Viktor Frankl calls it unavoidable
suffering you can't duck it but most
people spend their life not wanting to
deal with the pain of rejection the pain
of defeat the pain of being disappointed
the pain of losing the pain of failure
the pain of being criticized the pain of
not being liked the pain the pain the
pain that's all right
life is poopy it's everywhere but guess
what there's no gain without pain
because it's the pain of regret that's
your experience if I had it to do over
again
dr. Howard Thurman one of the mentors of
dr. Martin Luther King jr. and Albert
Schweitzer and Mahatma Gandhi it was a
very brilliant writer he wrote some
things that really grabbed me he he
wrote deep is to hunger the voice of the
genuine the centering moment during the
time after receiving 238 radiation seed
implants I was reflecting on his words
and and these words kept me up that
night he said the ideal situation for a
man a woman to die is to have family
members praying with them as they cross
over he said but imagine if you will
being on your deathbed and standing
around your bed the ghosts of the dreams
the ideas the abilities the talents
given to you by life and that you for
whatever reason you never went after
that dream you never acted on those
ideas you never use those talents you
never use those gifts and there they are
standing around your bed looking at you
with large angry eyes saying we came to
you and only you could have given us
life and now we must die with you
forever and the question is if you died
today what dreams what ideas what
talents what books what music what
leadership what voice will die with you
mouths Monroe brakes or attend speaker
said the wealthiest place on the planet
it's not enough for ease where there's
oil in the ground it's not a South
Africa whether diamond lies he said the
wealthiest place on the planet is the
cemetery but you there you'll find
greatness if we've never seen there you
find talent in genius and potential
never actualize perhaps that's why Henry
David Thoreau wrote the words all God to
reach the point of death
to realize that you've never lived maybe
that's why some unknown writer wrote the
words what if you live your whole life
only to discover that it was wrong that
it was wrong
that you were chosen to do something
else and you didn't do it
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repeat as we please live full die empty
I want you to take some notes and some
things and I want you to think about
your goals and dreams in the three
categories that I mentioned personal
professional and your social
contribution how many of you serious
about your goals and dreams raise your
hands please thank you very much how
many of you don't want to take your
dreams to your grave with you raise your
hands please
very good shake someone's hand on your
right and left look them in the eyes and
say get out of your head and step into
your greatness do that right now please
so you get out of your head and step
into your greatness I want you to write
this down let us say together as you
think about your goals and dreams let us
say together it's possible together
please yes write that down see ladies
and gentlemen as an entrepreneur I've
been an entrepreneur for 20 years it's
my 21st year I could have been speaking
and training for 34 years
but for 14 years I was living in my head
for 14 years I stopped myself for 14
years I used to go see Zig Ziglar that I
considered a number-one motivational
speaker on the planet Zig Ziglar and
Tony Robbins they're the best on the
planet Bob Procter they are the best of
the planet Jack Canfield Mark Victor
Hansen TR Beckett I would go and see
them and then I would leave in my
conversation with myself was my heart
would say I can do that
and then my mind would ask how how would
you do that les brown see when I was in
fifth grade I was identified as EMR
labeled educable mentally retarded put
back from the fifth grade to the fourth
grade I failed again when I was in the
eighth grade
I have no college training and a man
changed my life and I'll never forget
his name mr. Leroy Washington he's in
his 80s now and and he's blind from
glaucoma but he he gave me a different
vision of myself I was in his class
waiting on another student he came in
and said young man go to board to work
this problem up for me I said Oh sir I
can't do that said why not I said I'm
not one of you students said look at me
yes sir
go to the board and work the problem on
anyhow I said sir I can't do that he
said why it's absurd because I'm
educated mental retarded sir I'm in
special education and the student
started laughing they said that's Leslie
that's not Wesley he's DT Wesley is too
smart when he said what does DT stand
for I said um I'm the dumb twin sir and
as the students laughed at me he came
from behind his desk he looked at Ben he
said don't you ever say that again
someone's opinion of you does not have
to become your reality on one hand I was
humiliated but on the other hand I was
liberated because he looked at me with
the eyes of Goethe who said look at a
man the way that he is he only becomes
worse but look at him as if he were what
he could be then it becomes what he
should be and so we developed a
relationship and one of the things that
I can just tell you as you think about
your goals and dreams all of us can say
in a spirit of integrity that it's
possible that if anybody at any point in
time live their dream that it's possible
that I could live mine and what I did
was I made a mistake I looked at my
goals and dreams and my mind said how
will you do that I went from my heart to
my mind and I stayed up there for 40
years fourteen years I can't bring those
fourteen years back those years are gone
and I've made a mission in my life to
help people to stop putting it off and
procrastinating how many ever thought
about something you wanted to do and you
procrastinate you talked yourself out of
it raise your hand please there's a
proverb that says if there's no enemy
within the enemy outside can do us no
harm and so as you look at your goals
and dreams every day we must convince
ourselves we must sell ourselves on that
it's possible every seminar every
workshop every book that I've ever read
every speaker that I've ever heard it
interrupted what I was believing about
myself everything that you do everything
matters as you go through each day I
know now as I look back at age 63
looking at my life everything matters
t harv is right how you do anything is
how you do everything and I realize that
the choices I was making was based upon
how I saw myself let us say together
it's necessary
write that down it's necessary as you
look at your goals your dreams it's
necessary that you have a strategy and a
game plan to change the story that you
believe about yourself and that's an
ongoing process I discovered and many
people have that what we do what we
accomplish what we produce is a result
of the story we believe about ourselves
my favorite book says biggie and I
conformed to this will be transformed by
the renewing of your mind and so as I
began to work on myself I realized that
I'm getting out of one story and
stepping into another story as I become
aware of some things there's still some
things I'm not aware of so I still I'm
still growing I'm still developing I'm
like the ladies that law eight what a
wannabe what I'm gonna viva thank God I
sho ate what I was but I realized that
that you have to work on yourself on a
regular basis and write this out from
mental mindset for mental mindset and
stamina because things are going to
happen to you
I don't believe I believe that the
reason that most people go to their
graves with their talents and abilities
and skills in them is because of the
fact of a one-minute like me they didn't
know that they did know and thought they
knew I thought I knew myself and I
really didn't know myself as well as I
thought I've discovered that sometimes
people can take you to a place within
yourself that you can't go by yourself
the other reason is I was afraid and
never worked for a major corporation I
want to speak for corporations I was
afraid I would I would be exposed
because I don't have a college education
I felt inferior because of the fact that
I don't have a college education I
allowed at that level of fear of failure
to stop me and because I've never had an
experience in it I assumed that I could
not do it
I was paralyzing myself by believing and
assuming the limited part of myself as
opposed to believing that I had
something special
you have something special there's
something you want to do because you
don't know how to do it doesn't mean
that you can't learn I like something
that I heard you don't have to be great
to get started but you have to get
started to be great repeat after me
please leap and grow your wings on the
way down see the people that will live
their dreams at 2% that will do that
these are write this down become a
risk-taker
they're risk takers they don't mind
failing they don't mind making mistakes
they're willing to take life on take
life in the collar FISC are said if
you're not willing to risk you cannot
grow and if you cannot grow you cannot
become your best and if you cannot
become your best you can't be happy and
if you can't be happy then what else is
there I like what Helen Keller said she
said life is short and unpredictable
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